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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 5:01:07 PM   
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An excellent example of this was in our famous "Heterosexual Males Sucking Cock" thread.  [/color]


Any chance you have the link to that thread??? I totally missed it! :)

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 5:18:26 PM   
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I have this thing... I really want those kit's... I can't think of the real name for them... but it's like mould a cock or something like that. Kind of a mind trip knowing they are getting it with their own cock kind of thing.


A two second google search and voila!
http://www.sexshop365.co.uk/catalog/speciality-items-73/mould-your-own-kits-74/


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 5:51:42 PM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 6:35:26 PM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 6:48:51 PM   
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How often do you get to make the choice?

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 7:26:32 PM   
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The back of my hairbrush or the back of HER hairbrush 


ROFL! Nice! 

I have this thing... I really want those kit's... I can't think of the real name for them... but it's like mould a cock or something like that. Kind of a mind trip knowing they are getting it with their own cock kind of thing.


Now you're talking...

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 7:29:45 PM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 8:21:52 PM   
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clip,

How often do you get to make the choice?

Final authority?  Never.  I always reserve control.  LOL.

Still, he's happy and satisfied.  I promise.  <smooch>


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/26/2010 10:41:50 PM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 1:53:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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The back of my hairbrush or the back of HER hairbrush 


ROFL! Nice! 

I have this thing... I really want those kit's... I can't think of the real name for them... but it's like mould a cock or something like that. Kind of a mind trip knowing they are getting it with their own cock kind of thing.

Better still, take a mould of the inside of you and use it to fuck him with. Fucking him with your vagina is pretty hot!

My vagina is a cock inside out

< Message edited by allthatjaz -- 1/27/2010 1:57:23 AM >

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 2:02:59 AM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 1:05:08 PM   
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ROFL! Nice! 
I have this thing... I really want those kit's... I can't think of the real name for them... but it's like mould a cock or something like that. Kind of a mind trip knowing they are getting it with their own cock kind of thing.



Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiice!!


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 1:14:04 PM   
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Great topic. I often wonder if to a sub/bottom I come across as remarkably inconsistent if some days I just suddenly want a different type of thing, or different act, or different reaction.  When I think about this question, the most common "varying" thing that comes into my mind is my prey's "reaction style."  Clearly I'm very big on fear, vulnerability, nervousness, shame. 

But there are times that I really, really eroticize a more stoic, brave, shameless type of reaction. What I end up doing is planning different scenarios in my head (pain vs. humiliation vs. helplessness -- all three forms of topping, all three can generate a different response).  I then select acts from these categories that are most likely to get the reaction I want.  If I can't get it that way, I try the more direct approach, and tell a man, "I want you to behave in this manner."   My preference is for it to be organic though.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 2:00:22 PM   
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being bound to the point where I have to suck myself off (look, no hands!) within a specified time limit

OR

not allowed to ejaculate while having my prostate stimulated in the same position.

Dire punishment ensues if I fail at either task.

In any case it is uncomfortable and debasing, and if I fail....
well. I will not want to.

Okay, I tried to think up something. does it count?


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 2:03:52 PM   
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I have this thing... I really want those kit's... I can't think of the real name for them... but it's like mould a cock or something like that. Kind of a mind trip knowing they are getting it with their own cock kind of thing.


Although in some ways, I think "getting it" from a mould of another man's cock would actually be more degrading.

By the way, I agree with you about blindfolds. From a submissive point of view, there are benefits and disadvantages either way. Having a blindfold on makes it easier to lie back and focus on the sensations, and not being able to see what Mistress is doing means that every touch of her hand and every stroke of her flogger comes as a surprise. It makes the experience more exciting, but also of course more terrifying... and with a blindfold on I can't watch her doing one of the things she does best.

Do I prefer being blinded or not? I'm really not sure - and perhaps my Mistress isn't sure either, since she sometimes puts the blindfold on and sometimes leaves it off. I wouldn't have it any other way, really.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 2:13:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wheldrake, my purpose in using his own cock mould on him wouldn't be to degrade him. More letting him know what his cock feels like in a sense, to me. There is more to it, but I would rather experience that with someone before commenting more because at this point I cannot say and can only assume from the men I have had experince with. But I sure can come up with some real 'talk' of his cock doing him idea's and I think it could be fun and not humiliating or degrading unless he thinks being taken in such a way is degrading and humiliating.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 3:27:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		The tough decisions are often the most fun. I generally prefer mental bondage, as when I order sub to tuck his thumbs under his hips to keep his hands out of my way while I wander around the massage table doing this and that—and at the same time, the expression on his face when I do up a rope harness and one of the last knots snugs up just behind his balls… and that's all before any actual play happens, barring the simple CFNM factor.

Cuffed and chained in place…now do I flog him first, or use my claws to tickle him to the edge of pain, or just watch his knees buckle as I use mild sensation variations?

Ass up or ass down for a good prostate milking?
Folded over a table, or kowtowing to my presence for a paddling?
Wartenburg or violet wand?
Paddles or canes today?
Rubber floggers or suede for that CBT?

Decisions, decisions…


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 9:55:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		All good things!  I'm loving it!

Another one I thought of.  Tell the play partner in advance about a scene you are planning so he can build up his nervousness, tension, and excitement all week, or surprise him with it out of the blue and really blow his mind?


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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/27/2010 10:15:39 PM   
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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 10:53:09 AM   
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That sounds like endless entertainment for me. Mind if I keep this scenario in mind for when I start doing rt sessions?


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I must say that a boy tied down with a cold knifepoint tracing the side of his cock is combining a host of my favorite things at once....helplessness, genital play, mindfuckery and knife play all at once. 




Speaking for your future sub man..... please practice this one with a dummy first....... yikes.

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