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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 10:54:43 AM

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Hye, I just graduated from vanilla to curious.... do I get some kind of prize?

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 10:58:09 AM

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That sounds like endless entertainment for me. Mind if I keep this scenario in mind for when I start doing rt sessions?

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I must say that a boy tied down with a cold knifepoint tracing the side of his cock is combining a host of my favorite things at once....helplessness, genital play, mindfuckery and knife play all at once.

Speaking for your future sub man..... please practice this one with a dummy first....... yikes.

I love knife play. Even when I first started I never practiced on a dummy, I prefer intelligent men!

However, I've had lots of practice carving up turkeys

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 11:06:34 AM

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That sounds like endless entertainment for me. Mind if I keep this scenario in mind for when I start doing rt sessions?

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ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

I must say that a boy tied down with a cold knifepoint tracing the side of his cock is combining a host of my favorite things at once....helplessness, genital play, mindfuckery and knife play all at once.

Speaking for your future sub man..... please practice this one with a dummy first....... yikes.

I love knife play. Even when I first started I never practiced on a dummy, I prefer intelligent men!

However, I've had lots of practice carving up turkeys .

I have zero experience in it and have never really thought about it. It doesn't do a lot for me from the outset. But then again, in my life, most of the things I find myself enjoying most are things I never thought much about before I tried them. Moreover, in any relationship, the experience is about mutual enjoyment; things that I would be uninterested in of my own imagination become near obsessions when I see the woman I adore enjoying them. I do, though have to say what my initial thought would be as I lay on the table....... "YIKES".

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 11:19:30 AM

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It's the YIKES look in the eye that I'm after when I whip out my knives. Well, that and it's utterly HOT when the guy starts to enjoy it as well.

One time, I had someone facing the floor, while I was etching words into his back and making him guess what I was writing. I then had him hump the floor if he was getting aroused (he was humping the floor like mad). I turned him over, then started etching things on his chest, tracing around his navel, then traced alongside his erect cock. I laughed as he went limp...lol. However, it's difficult to trace around a limp penis and I wasn't finished. So, I straddled him, took the knife and ran it down the length of my body and he was instantly erect again. At which point I began tracing his cock again with my knife.

Anyway, back to the subject at hand...

To keep him erect or to make him go limp and have a laugh...choices choices!

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 11:23:21 AM

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LOL... That brings us back to the to blindfold or not!

Do I want to see his eye's bug out or watch him shiver from the unknown and mental projection of 'wth is she going to do now'?!

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/28/2010 7:58:43 PM

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Oh, yes, yes, yes to the blindfold! One of my boys was very new to all of this when I met him. We were at a public play party. A friend of mine had "warmed him up". He was restrained, hands above his head, just waiting.... and it was his first real scene ever. He finally decided to "take the leap". This was the first time I'd met him that night. Hadn't even talked online or anything! One of the first things I did was put the blindfold on. He couldn't see, but he could hear me getting the toys out of the bag. One of the things he said he liked so much about that scene was that I was able to walk all around him, and that he never knew exactly where I was, or what I was going to use. It was so delicious watching him flinch to a sound, try to move away from where he *thought* he was going to be struck, or scratched, or where the knife would trace along the lines of his muscles. I love the sensory deprivation aspects of the blindfold and the anticipation it engenders. Mmmmmm

To the OP's topic... SOOOO many choices to make.

Predicament bondage...which rock and which hard place to put him between? Should I give him a way to perform well enough to avoid punishment, or should there always be the painful finish?

Putting him with another man...how far do I push, how much mindfuck should I really put him through? BTW, I do prefer boys that are bi by orientation to the straight "forced bi's". But seeing a newbie in either category...such apprehension and fear their first time! Yummy.

Knife play....to carve and make him guess the letters, or to drag it along him and make the knife sing with sensation play?

Strap-on play.... slow and sensual, driving him nuts and REALLY making him beg to be allowed to cum, or fast and furious to get the maximum howl when I push him to the edge forcefully where he has no control at all over it?

Rope bondage....simple and functional, elaborate and pretty, or trussing him up so his muscles shake so hard he's absolutely exhausted afterward?

So many more to ponder. Love reading all the posts! Great thread, LP!

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 1:22:49 PM

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Wheldrake, my purpose in using his own cock mould on him wouldn't be to degrade him. More letting him know what his cock feels like in a sense, to me. There is more to it, but I would rather experience that with someone before commenting more because at this point I cannot say and can only assume from the men I have had experince with. But I sure can come up with some real 'talk' of his cock doing him idea's and I think it could be fun and not humiliating or degrading unless he thinks being taken in such a way is degrading and humiliating.

Ah, thanks for clearing that up. I suppose my mind jumped to the idea of degradation because that's how I expect I would react to being penetrated or even intimately touched with a mould of my own cock. And yes, I have to admit that I do find the idea of being "taken in such a way", at least by any kind of halfway realistic dildo, to be more than a little degrading and humiliating. Not necessarily in a bad way, mind you.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 2:16:30 PM

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For the "service" oriented folks...

Wash the car or catch up on yardwork? Repair the broken faucet or replace it? Wash and wax the floors or just use a cleaner/sanitizer? (Yeah, I know. This entire line of thinking may be a tad too saucy for Collar Me. :-)

And when it gets to "relaxation techniques", the choices become even more difficult.

Rub her shoulders? Wash her hair while she soaks in a warm bath? Scent and relax her body with strong hands and warm oil? Massage her feet? Lick her bum?

Decisions. Decisions. I tell ya! (Of course, normally, "she'll tell ya", but sometimes we s-types need to act on our own and hope we're making decisions pleasing to our partners.)

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 3:03:43 PM

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Wheldrake, my purpose in using his own cock mould on him wouldn't be to degrade him. More letting him know what his cock feels like in a sense, to me. There is more to it, but I would rather experience that with someone before commenting more because at this point I cannot say and can only assume from the men I have had experince with. But I sure can come up with some real 'talk' of his cock doing him idea's and I think it could be fun and not humiliating or degrading unless he thinks being taken in such a way is degrading and humiliating.

Ah, thanks for clearing that up. I suppose my mind jumped to the idea of degradation because that's how I expect I would react to being penetrated or even intimately touched with a mould of my own cock. And yes, I have to admit that I do find the idea of being "taken in such a way", at least by any kind of halfway realistic dildo, to be more than a little degrading and humiliating. Not necessarily in a bad way, mind you.

If you don't mind Me chiming in on this one, there's also the angle that his cock belongs to her anyway, so she's using it as she sees fit.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 3:08:35 PM

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Wheldrake, my purpose in using his own cock mould on him wouldn't be to degrade him. More letting him know what his cock feels like in a sense, to me. There is more to it, but I would rather experience that with someone before commenting more because at this point I cannot say and can only assume from the men I have had experince with. But I sure can come up with some real 'talk' of his cock doing him idea's and I think it could be fun and not humiliating or degrading unless he thinks being taken in such a way is degrading and humiliating.

Ah, thanks for clearing that up. I suppose my mind jumped to the idea of degradation because that's how I expect I would react to being penetrated or even intimately touched with a mould of my own cock. And yes, I have to admit that I do find the idea of being "taken in such a way", at least by any kind of halfway realistic dildo, to be more than a little degrading and humiliating. Not necessarily in a bad way, mind you.

If you don't mind Me chiming in on this one, there's also the angle that his cock belongs to her anyway, so she's using it as she sees fit.

As a homoflexible Domme who rarely plays with guys, I would like you to know that I am feeling some serious cock envy right about now...

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 3:09:09 PM

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For the "service" oriented folks...

Wash the car or catch up on yardwork? Repair the broken faucet or replace it? Wash and wax the floors or just use a cleaner/sanitizer? (Yeah, I know. This entire line of thinking may be a tad too saucy for Collar Me. :-)

And when it gets to "relaxation techniques", the choices become even more difficult.

Rub her shoulders? Wash her hair while she soaks in a warm bath? Scent and relax her body with strong hands and warm oil? Massage her feet? Lick her bum?

Decisions. Decisions. I tell ya! (Of course, normally, "she'll tell ya", but sometimes we s-types need to act on our own and hope we're making decisions pleasing to our partners.)

Elan.

The play aspects aside, this is actually very true. What Domme doesn't want to come home to hear that the bath is ready or would she like her shoulders rubbed first? Does she want dinner ready or would she prefer a foot rub before it comes out of the oven?

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 5:20:58 PM

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Here's one Slave used to hit me with all the time...

Do I want to eat dinner as soon as I get home from work or do I want him to time it so I can shower before I eat. Depended on the day what I was in the mood for.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 5:30:47 PM

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As societal taboos relax, I believe we will find that way more people than we thought will be classified as at least somewhat bisexual.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 6:47:11 PM

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Mistress..it is a "clone a willy"....and if my Mistress used that on me it would make me insane....

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/29/2010 7:44:11 PM

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Needles or cutting. I can't say which I'm more passionate about... The way the needle raises the flesh it runs under, the metal resting against the skin or the gentle intensity that using a scalpel takes and watching the blood slowly raising to the surface... hmmmmmm.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/30/2010 3:52:03 PM

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And now my new dilemma... Take him to the fabric store to pick out the material for his bathrobe or pick it out myself (so tempting to get pink.) Have him help me in putting it together so he knows how much work it is or just enjoy the look on his face as it is presented to him?

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/30/2010 3:56:30 PM

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And now my new dilemma... Take him to the fabric store to pick out the material for his bathrobe or pick it out myself (so tempting to get pink.) Have him help me in putting it together so he knows how much work it is or just enjoy the look on his face as it is presented to him?

Hoooow about:

Make him help, but don't tell him it's for him and not you until you're done? Best of both worlds :D

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/30/2010 11:34:39 PM

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LOL! Fabulous idea, but as he is the only man in my life, it would only be too obvious whom it was for. But thanks very much for the idea, will keep it in mind for when I do have my second slave.

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/31/2010 12:56:10 AM

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Could you not pass it off as being for you? Bathrobes can be pretty unisex...:)

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RE: Do I Really Have To Pick Just One? - 1/31/2010 4:11:36 AM

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