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Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 7:43:56 AM

kinkbound

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I'm still shaking my head in disbelief.

I approached a ProDomme who has a profile here that I found interesting enough to bite on.

She writes back a set of instructions. The bottom line: I have to verify my identity *before* she will provide her photos and a quote for her tribute requirement.

No, this is *not* a verification scam. RS2K is a legitimate verification service that I've already registered with years ago, and it wouldn't cost me another cent to verify.

However, the point is: why would any buyer be willing to disclose his full identity to any seller of goods or services before he even knows what it is he's actually buying, and at what cost?

I mean WTF???

Do people actually *agree* to terms like this, these days?

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 7:47:16 AM

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If they didn't; she wouldn't.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 7:57:07 AM

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bull.

forget the loser and move on.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 7:58:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If they didn't; she wouldn't.

Ron

Ahhhhhyup.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:18:00 AM

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LAT can verify that I am me. Heck just about anyone on the board can verify that I am me.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:21:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If they didn't; she wouldn't.

Ron

Yup.

Supply and demand - there is a huge supply of potential clients so she gets to make the demands. You want her bad enough, you'll do it. She must not be hurting for clients or she doesn't need the money badly enough.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 1/27/2010 8:22:25 AM >

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:39:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

LAT can verify that I am me. Heck just about anyone on the board can verify that I am me.

There is no doubt in My mind that LaT adores Me. I am sure she is reconsidering her dominant lesbian life as I type this!

I wouldn't actually expect her to vouch for Me though. We haven't really met..... yet...:)

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:40:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

LAT can verify that I am me. Heck just about anyone on the board can verify that I am me.

The only question left, is what your 'me' is.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:40:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

LAT can verify that I am me. Heck just about anyone on the board can verify that I am me.

There is no doubt in My mind that LaT adores Me. I am sure she is reconsidering her dominant lesbian life as I type this!

I wouldn't actually expect her to vouch for Me though. We haven't really met..... yet...:)

Ward

You then have a big wallet?

Beaver

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:41:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

LAT can verify that I am me. Heck just about anyone on the board can verify that I am me.

There is no doubt in My mind that LaT adores Me. I am sure she is reconsidering her dominant lesbian life as I type this!

I wouldn't actually expect her to vouch for Me though. We haven't really met..... yet...:)

Ward

Hmmmmmm........ The freezer does have plenty of room in it right now.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 8:47:30 AM

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June... you are so cute when you play hard to get.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:04:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If they didn't; she wouldn't.

Ron

I suppose that's possible. But then, it doesn't cost anything to keep a profile up here.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:07:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

bull.

forget the loser and move on.

I don't know if she's a loser, but she's definitely unreasonable in my view.

Yes, move on I did. Just on principle alone, I can't participate on these terms.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:13:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If they didn't; she wouldn't.

Ron

Yup.

Supply and demand - there is a huge supply of potential clients so she gets to make the demands. You want her bad enough, you'll do it. She must not be hurting for clients or she doesn't need the money badly enough.

Hmm... I didn't realize business is so good for Pro Dommes, especially those who don't even provide their photos or rates to prospective clients.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:15:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkbound

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If they didn't; she wouldn't.

Ron

Yup.

Supply and demand - there is a huge supply of potential clients so she gets to make the demands. You want her bad enough, you'll do it. She must not be hurting for clients or she doesn't need the money badly enough.

Hmm... I didn't realize business is so good for Pro Dommes, especially those who don't even provide their photos or rates to prospective clients.

You don't know her situation, do you?

You don't know if the internet is the only way she finds her clients. She may also find them at kink events. She may have a fanastic job and this is simply a hobby for her so she can do whatever she damn well pleases. She may have had a potential client take her photos and paste them all over the internet. She may have a stalker.

There are about a million reasons that can explain why she is doing what she is doing. What matters though is if you are willing to do what she wants. If not, move on to the next pro until you find one who works with how you think things should be done. It's a business, not a relationship.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:19:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

June... you are so cute when you play hard to get.

Ward

She is dressed up to the nines today. Black silk stockings- and red spiked heals. Did her nails and her hair.

--and she may even bake a pie today- in the kitchen all decked out!!

;-)

Gotta love her tho. She tries so hard.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:39:30 AM

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Okay people, has anyone else encountered similar demands, or made them?

I'm curious if this is becoming a new trend, or God forbid, the wave of the future.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:43:34 AM

kinkbound

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

June... you are so cute when you play hard to get.

Ward

She is dressed up to the nines today. Black silk stockings- and red spiked heals. Did her nails and her hair.

--and she may even bake a pie today- in the kitchen all decked out!!

;-)

Gotta love her tho. She tries so hard.

I think someone's been carrying the torch for June Cleaver.

Oh great, now I'm helping the hijackers of my own thread.

Lord help me.

I should have stayed in bed today.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:43:58 AM

juliaoceania

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkbound

I'm still shaking my head in disbelief.

I approached a ProDomme who has a profile here that I found interesting enough to bite on.

She writes back a set of instructions. The bottom line: I have to verify my identity *before* she will provide her photos and a quote for her tribute requirement.

No, this is *not* a verification scam. RS2K is a legitimate verification service that I've already registered with years ago, and it wouldn't cost me another cent to verify.

However, the point is: why would any buyer be willing to disclose his full identity to any seller of goods or services before he even knows what it is he's actually buying, and at what cost?

I mean WTF???

Do people actually *agree* to terms like this, these days?

I love the title of the thread and then comparing it with the subject matter....

Yes, a world gone mad, a pro domme making what anyone else in the world would call an "unreasonable" demand and getting away with it? What has this world come to!

Like others have said, if her demands are that whacked I suppose you should attempt to find a domme that isn't so whacked.

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RE: Has the world gone completely mad? - 1/27/2010 9:48:49 AM

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When you say it's a verification service, does that mean they automatically give your info over to anyone who asks or do they do the screening and tell people you've passed their checks?

As to why? Dommes get a lot of time wasters, men who don't plan to actually pay for services but want to talk to them and get their jollies off that way, discussing their kinks for free. Beyond that, stalkers.

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