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Aileen1968 -> RE: Expectation vs Reality (2/15/2010 1:14:03 PM)
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
My first proper D/s experience was straight in the deep end, as a sub, and one of the things I wasn't prepared for was quite how much it was going to hurt (which sounds unbearably stupid looking back, I know). The first time I topped I wasn't at all expecting the chemical rush that came with being in charge, so I was in for quite a surprise...
So I was wondering how closely what you were expecting matched up to what you got, both when you first came to D/s in general, and when you tried more specific kinks? Was stuff more intense? Not as scary? Unexpectedly hilarious? Everything you'd ever hoped for or everything it had never occurred to you to want?
Sorry if any of the above sounds cheesy, but I do seriously want to know. [:)]
My first d/s experiences were intense and exciting. I had nothing to judge them against and I found them enjoyable. They were also with men who I had no emotional connection with. I then got involved with a man who I wanted to know on all levels, not just kink. The more I knew him, the more incredible our interactions became. He has completely blown my fantasies out of the water and ruined me for anyone else but him. I am his for life.
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