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RE: What turns you off about bdsm? - 2/1/2010 4:12:52 AM

LaTigresse

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Is there anything that you cannot stand in regards to it as far as play, people or anything else?

There is nothing specific about BDSM that turns me off.

To explain.......I kind of look at BDSM as a buffet. There may be some dishes I have no interest in having. Some dishes I don't even want to watch someone else have. Some dishes I am sure I will want in the future but not right now. Some dishes I've tried and were just not worth the caloric intake. A few dishes that will usually draw me to them every single time. A few I will want if they are presented just perfectly. And so on.

Just as with BDSM, I would not like a buffet where I was expected to have some of everything, or even accept that others will have a few things. Sorry but cooked spinach is just sick and wrong no matter what!

Yet, silly bitch that I am, will chop up fresh spinach and put it in my favourite pho, or mix it in the cheeses of some italian dishes I love.

I will not even want to go to the buffet every time I am hungry. Perhaps a yummy pork T sandwich and fries will do the trick perfectly.

It's my buffet, my choices, my timing. Everyone else can visit when ever, where ever, have what ever. They should not expect me to agree with all of their choices just as I don't expect them to agree with mine. They don't have to watch me eat a bloody rare steak and I won't demand they find it morally right. Just as they better not expect me to agree with their eating a big nasty pile of steamed spinach.

There is a VERY good chance, I will not want a large number of fellow buffet goings as dining partners. A good chance I don't even want to be in the same dining room. I accept that quite a few will feel the same about me. Just because we all enjoy visiting the same buffet does not make us family........just some people that all like the buffet and what it offers.

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RE: What turns you off about bdsm? - 2/1/2010 4:15:07 AM

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The buffet has waffles.

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RE: What turns you off about bdsm? - 2/1/2010 5:35:20 AM

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I like LaTigresse's comment that BDSM is a buffet. All things belong on the table, and everyone gets to chose what works for them.

John Steed's comment: "I am into bdsm you're just sick " Made me laugh.

I have a problem with "Service." If two partners are putting into a relationship, I don't see why 90% of the chores get apportioned to the slave or sub. Sounds good in fantasy, seems like a disaster in a LT relationship. (Division of labor is another story.)

If someone wants to explore multiple partners, then their partner should be afforded opportunities as well and should be considered as a person first in the whole polyamorous cliff jump.

Anyone who pretends to speak for an entire MSG Board; "We generally regard....." in order to beat up on someone or to act as if their own individual opinion has the official BDSM Stamp of Approval.

Complaints about inappropriate internet advances. Save the complaints for inappropriate conduct you experience in person. Its the internet, what do you expect!

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RE: What turns you off about bdsm? - 2/1/2010 9:28:53 AM

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