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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:30:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If a submissive is gaged, does she make a sound when being flogged in a forest?

LaoJeff

Depends on which definition of gage we use. :-)

, verb, gaged, gag⋅ing.–noun
1. something, as a glove, thrown down by a medieval knight in token of challenge to combat.
2. Archaic. a challenge.
3. Archaic. a pledge or pawn; security. –verb (used with object)
4. Archaic. to pledge, stake, or wager.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:36:35 AM

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BASTARD!

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:37:03 AM

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Acid test for a true dominant.

Step 1. Take some acid.
Step 2. Look at your dominant.
Step 3. Determine whether they more closely resemble a wolf, a spider, a cat, or a puppy.

If wolf - they like to bite.
If spider - they like bondage.
If cat - they like D/s dominance
If puppy - buy another 10 strip and move on to the next man.

Okay... I gave my slave some acid and - after she finished chasing fairies in the back yard - she said I looked like a duck billed paltypus.

ETA: Well, at least she didn't say I looked like an anteater.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:40:18 AM

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Commonly nicknamed "The Acid Test for Doms", this treatise was written by one DrSpankenstein, and is passed around the S&M community on the Internet, often without attribution to the author.

If I'd have written something like this and posted it on the Internet too right I wouldn't want to be identified as the author. In fact I'd be blaming it on a couple of bottles of vodka at least.

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The last and most dangerous type of enemy is the rapist or predator. These are the men most likely to damage or even end your life. The truly frightening thing about these evil men it that there is NO easy way to spot them. Rapists can be anything from bums to bank mangers, and anyone from family members to total strangers. One in four women has suffered an attack from this vile creature, and one in seven men as well! Their motive is violence.The best defense is never make yourself too vulnerable.

Stating the obvious is one thing, but I was truly surprised to learn the bit I bolded. I had always assumed that the motive of a rapist was sexual gratification. But hell, what do I know?

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To defend yourself from predators, learn all the ins and outs of setting up a good safety net. Follow these procedures religiously. Most important of all, take your time getting to know your prospective play partners. This is good advice in any case. If you know your partner well, you're more likely to have a good time with him, because you will feel more comfortable during that first scene. Predators are more likely to move on in search of easy prey, they do tend to be impulsive. If a "Dom" you have been talking too suddenly seems to lose interest in you after a period of time, you may have just saved your own life. Don't go chasing after anybody. A true Dom doesn't need to play "hard to get."

This doesn't match the reality of all those abused who did take the time and trouble to get to know their abusers. This only emphasizes the importance of trusting your intuition and gut feelings and developing a support network of friends before seeking a relationship.

The frightening thing is that so many are so willing to pass up control of their own minds and be influenced so easily by others that some will sadly take the above advice seriously.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:41:45 AM

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This leads us to our first rule, a rule that all statisticians and scientists already know by heart: "When in doubt, throw it out!

Errr, isn't the first step of scientific methodology, "When it doubt, test it?"

that depends on what 'it' is. if my cake doesnt rise i tend to throw it out, if my D doesnt 'rise' i try something else

oops more sexual context -

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:42:16 AM

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As a dyslexic, and a frequent poor speller (check how often my posts are edited), Jefffff, I was just funning.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:42:58 AM

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So was I....... at least you are not that cunt Aileen!

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:44:18 AM

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LadyAngelika, you are so cute when you act all Dominant.

/Pats her on head/

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:46:08 AM

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Step One: Do the Math
Various estimates and surveys have placed the ratio of real (i.e. natural) male sexual Dominants to female sexual submissives at about one to ten. However, a quick count in any given BDSM-oriented chat room would lead you to believe that male Doms outnumber the subs at about two to one. Now if there is actually only one male Dom for every ten female subs, that means that 19 out of the 20 "Doms" you see online have to be fakes. Keep this in mind. There is a 95% chance that any man you talk to online claiming to be a Dom is no such thing. This leads us to our first rule, a rule that all statisticians and scientists already know by heart: "When in doubt, throw it out!"
Your search for a suitable Dominant partner (especially if you are seeking a serious long-term relationship as well) could easily take years. That's hardly surprising, most people spend years looking for that special lover, be they "vanilla" or otherwise. So don't be disheartened by all these drastic ratios. But don't waste your time either. If any of the prospects you are chatting with online makes you feel uncomfortable for any reason, drop him. Don't give him "three strikes" or "extra chances to win." Block out his screen name and move on. There was only a one-in-twenty chance he was legitimate anyway. Trust your instincts!

I don't base my BDSM experience on chatroom demographics.
I find the pretence of emperical data, without verifiable references, to pretty much negate the inference.

In my estimation, this paragraph alone is isn't a 'duh' but a dud..

Can someone do the math for me? If there are 10 dominants to every 1, and 95% of the dominants online aren't really dominant that's like a fraction of a dominant for every submissive? Maybe we should search for timeshare dominants?

bahh, I think I just need some coffee.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:53:19 AM

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You know, just yesterday, I was saying "where does that phrase come from - acid test?" Welcome to the world of how my mind works. So I looked it up:

Meaning

A sure test, giving an incontestable result.

Origin

In the California Gold Rush in the second half of the 19th century, prospectors and dealers needed to be able to distinguish gold from base metal. Gold doesn't react to most acids as other metals do, although it does dissolve in Aqua regia (a mixture of hydrochloric acid and nitric acid). To confirm that a find was gold it was given 'the acid test'. Various other tests can be made by the use of acid and these are all called 'acid tests'.

The earliest citation I know of of a figurative use of the phrase (i.e. one where no actual acid is referred to) is from the Wisconsin paper The Columbia Reporter, November 1845:

"Twenty-four years of service demonstrates his ability to stand the acid test, as Gibson’s Soap Polish has done for over thirty years."

That's from this website: http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/acid-test.html

I thought it was kind of interesting...

While I have no need to pick something like that apart - better things to do with my time and all that... I do think that there are some really good points for new folks to think about, especially people who do online stuff. When I had only online available to me, was I ever stupid! I thought people would behave as I did, honorably. And wow was I surprised to find out what creeps people can be! The internet is not like the real world. In real life, I can check people out ... internet, not so much.

Thanks for posting this for the folks who have not wised up.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 6:58:11 AM

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Step Two: Know Your Enemy
HNGs are usually the most harmless (and yet often the most annoying) of the enemy types.

I like horny net geeks. Many of my friends are horny net geeks.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:01:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stella41b
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To defend yourself from predators, learn all the ins and outs of setting up a good safety net. Follow these procedures religiously. Most important of all, take your time getting to know your prospective play partners. This is good advice in any case. If you know your partner well, you're more likely to have a good time with him, because you will feel more comfortable during that first scene. Predators are more likely to move on in search of easy prey, they do tend to be impulsive. If a "Dom" you have been talking too suddenly seems to lose interest in you after a period of time, you may have just saved your own life. Don't go chasing after anybody. A true Dom doesn't need to play "hard to get."

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i think the line ive bolded kinda examples where this author is maybe coming from. the inferrance is that we are all looking for play partners. again, play doesnt always result in sexual release. to be honest, much of the play ive done had no sex afterwards at all. satiation occurred on a completely different level.

i think the entire premis is fixed around finding a safe partner to play with, its not about finding a compatible person to share youre life with.

'if a Dom you have been talking to suddenly seems to lose interest in you after a period of time, you may have just saved youre own life

or, they got bored of course, or got what they wanted and moved on, or there was an incompatibility, or....., but im not sure where saving youre own life comes into it. if he was a nutjob then he'd have killed you on the first meet.

im sure the author meant well, but i think its a case of a 'little bit of knowledge can be a misleading thing' -

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:09:31 AM

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You people are all so MEAN.

This poor new guy was just trying to help us; I mean, so many subbies cannot walk and chew gum at the same time, we need a list damn it, to help us find our true Dominate match.

I am so upset I am going to start a new thread criticizing all of you for being nasty, snarky, vicious, sharks going for the kill types, so there! I might even report the snarkiest of you.

yeah, right..whatever, I loved RS and Kana's replies the best; I think they MUST be true Dominates from what they tell me.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:16:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If a submissive is gaged, does she make a sound when being flogged in a forest?

LaoJeff

Depends on which definition of gage we use. :-)

, verb, gaged, gag⋅ing.–noun
1. something, as a glove, thrown down by a medieval knight in token of challenge to combat.
2. Archaic. a challenge.
3. Archaic. a pledge or pawn; security. –verb (used with object)
4. Archaic. to pledge, stake, or wager.

Course, getting back to the original question and in an act of Seinfeldian stream of consciousness merging of thread concepts, test a doubt using statistical and scientific sampling methods...
~grins~
Jeffff could try and throw down a gage, offering Aileen a gage she cannot remain silent while being flogged in a forest.

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:17:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...I am so upset I am going to start a new thread criticizing all of you for being nasty, snarky, vicious, sharks going for the kill types, so there! I might even report the snarkiest of you.

yeah, right..whatever, I loved RS and Kana's replies the best; I think they MUST be true Dominates from what they tell me.

Don't try and suck up now you snitch!

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:18:21 AM

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So I am sitting hear reading an opinion that it's not all about sex from someone who's avatar is a bear getting a blow job. . . I do not disagree with what you said, it just struck me as really funny.

Now that's irony! lol

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:18:46 AM

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There used to be a prolific poster here, and he spelled his name
gauge but mostly he was called gage or:
guage
ugage
gague
gageu

(U is silent, so who fucking cares?)

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:20:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...I am so upset I am going to start a new thread criticizing all of you for being nasty, snarky, vicious, sharks going for the kill types, so there! I might even report the snarkiest of you.

yeah, right..whatever, I loved RS and Kana's replies the best; I think they MUST be true Dominates from what they tell me.

Don't try and suck up now you snitch!

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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:24:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...I am so upset I am going to start a new thread criticizing all of you for being nasty, snarky, vicious, sharks going for the kill types, so there! I might even report the snarkiest of you.

yeah, right..whatever, I loved RS and Kana's replies the best; I think they MUST be true Dominates from what they tell me.

Don't try and suck up now you snitch!

Au Contraire
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RE: Acid Test for True Dominants - 2/2/2010 7:27:04 AM

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So in other words, you are saying slaves are for sucking. . . I can't disagree.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...I am so upset I am going to start a new thread criticizing all of you for being nasty, snarky, vicious, sharks going for the kill types, so there! I might even report the snarkiest of you.

yeah, right..whatever, I loved RS and Kana's replies the best; I think they MUST be true Dominates from what they tell me.

Don't try and suck up now you snitch!

Au Contraire
Suck up indeed
Leers
What else are slaves for...

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