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Jeffff -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 3:34:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse The are so cute when they are little. Then, they grow up... And become BACON!!!!!!!...mmmmmmmmmmm Jeff

LaTigresse -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 3:43:27 PM)
Oh yes.............baaaaaaaaaaaaaaacoooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnn. I just love bacon.........le'sigh.............

LaTigresse -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 3:45:09 PM)
BTW, that link I posted... My boss is afraid of snakes. I am giving him that link as a present on Monday morning. I am SUCH a good little employee! muah ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaa

IwantToLive -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 4:15:58 PM)
i resemble that remark.. the pig photo... according to chinese astrology... 1959 was the year of the boar; i was born that year... so maybe that is why i like it dirty... being born in the year of the pig/boar... just wanted to add... no matter what type of relationship a person is seeking, it is best to hold your cards, don't reveal all, just let them get to know you as a person...like in a vanilla relationship... a guy does not go up to a woman he does not know and ask if they can fuck, that would probably not go over well... get to know then lay the cards down... as the Lady said, she got to know them first as "men" basically get to know the people, then the sex, the kinks and desires will probably take care of themselves. only thing i can apologize for is getting defensive and possibly being offensive in retaliation... needless to say, i suck at conflict resolution, real or imagination... jobs, college, people... my sister, my close friends (i do have one since 1994, he is a krishna devotee), my ex spouse and my estranged wife, carrying a victim/persecution complex is not good, it does not do good for conflict resolution, real or imagined, in a kind and caring way... i usually, run and avoid... i was at my sister's, we had an argument... i left without a word,. did not speak to her for nearly a year, she did not know where i was... that is one thing therapy can help with... it is the first time in my life that i have not denied that problem, by noting the problem after years and years of denying... looking at all people as evil and not trustworthy, i can finally have that problem fixed... well... my kink is not my problem... it is my lack of discretion and foolishness as to who i reveal my kink to and as to when i reveal it... i hope i this clears up the misunderstandings. billy

heartcream -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 4:52:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse The are so cute when they are little. Then, they grow up... This liddle piglet has a lesson for me. I was once sort of cute [image]http://www.becks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/piglets.jpg[/image] Then I grew up [image]http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1018/537960983_8c1bb56695.jpg[/image] quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Oh yes.............baaaaaaaaaaaaaaacoooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnn. I just love bacon.........le'sigh............. If I were a Photoshopper I would shop in John Travoltas face onto this swine. Actually most of the structure is already there, maybe paint in the blue eyes, give him a bit of darkness about da face. Perhaps an arm kicked up disco style. Too much? [image]http://www.marriedtothesea.com/071108/tastes-of-the-swine.gif[/image] I think the puddle beneath him is a taboo fetish, to model so well, so stonge` after being portioned off in a pool of your own plasma gore.

LadyPact -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 4:57:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive i resemble that remark.. the pig photo... according to chinese astrology... 1959 was the year of the boar; i was born that year... so maybe that is why i like it dirty... being born in the year of the pig/boar... just wanted to add... no matter what type of relationship a person is seeking, it is best to hold your cards, don't reveal all, just let them get to know you as a person...like in a vanilla relationship... a guy does not go up to a woman he does not know and ask if they can fuck, that would probably not go over well... get to know then lay the cards down... as the Lady said, she got to know them first as "men" basically get to know the people, then the sex, the kinks and desires will probably take care of themselves. only thing i can apologize for is getting defensive and possibly being offensive in retaliation... needless to say, i suck at conflict resolution, real or imagination... jobs, college, people... my sister, my close friends (i do have one since 1994, he is a krishna devotee), my ex spouse and my estranged wife, carrying a victim/persecution complex is not good, it does not do good for conflict resolution, real or imagined, in a kind and caring way... i usually, run and avoid... i was at my sister's, we had an argument... i left without a word,. did not speak to her for nearly a year, she did not know where i was... that is one thing therapy can help with... it is the first time in my life that i have not denied that problem, by noting the problem after years and years of denying... looking at all people as evil and not trustworthy, i can finally have that problem fixed... well... my kink is not my problem... it is my lack of discretion and foolishness as to who i reveal my kink to and as to when i reveal it... i hope i this clears up the misunderstandings. billy Now that is a lot more positive. A much better way of looking at it. In all seriousness, I don't walk into a new munch group and announce that I like strap on sex and having males suck cock for Me. I do like those things, but it's not especially the way to say hello to people. This really isn't any different in the BDSM world. Most people don't introduce themselves by asking if they want to fuck, or by -insert kink of choice here-. Especially those that are more intimate.

IwantToLive -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 4:58:05 PM)
photoshop of travolta's face on a pig.. hmmm... recall the cover song "word up" by Korn.. had videos of dogs with the group members faces on the dogs, the original artist was Cameo.. it was a kick ass video

LafayetteLady -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/5/2010 9:51:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive i resemble that remark.. the pig photo... according to chinese astrology... 1959 was the year of the boar; i was born that year... so maybe that is why i like it dirty... being born in the year of the pig/boar... just wanted to add... no matter what type of relationship a person is seeking, it is best to hold your cards, don't reveal all, just let them get to know you as a person...like in a vanilla relationship... a guy does not go up to a woman he does not know and ask if they can fuck, that would probably not go over well... get to know then lay the cards down... as the Lady said, she got to know them first as "men" basically get to know the people, then the sex, the kinks and desires will probably take care of themselves. only thing i can apologize for is getting defensive and possibly being offensive in retaliation... needless to say, i suck at conflict resolution, real or imagination... jobs, college, people... my sister, my close friends (i do have one since 1994, he is a krishna devotee), my ex spouse and my estranged wife, carrying a victim/persecution complex is not good, it does not do good for conflict resolution, real or imagined, in a kind and caring way... i usually, run and avoid... i was at my sister's, we had an argument... i left without a word,. did not speak to her for nearly a year, she did not know where i was... that is one thing therapy can help with... it is the first time in my life that i have not denied that problem, by noting the problem after years and years of denying... looking at all people as evil and not trustworthy, i can finally have that problem fixed... well... my kink is not my problem... it is my lack of discretion and foolishness as to who i reveal my kink to and as to when i reveal it... i hope i this clears up the misunderstandings. billy billy, This is the only semi positive post you wrote. The major step to fixing a problem is admitting that you have one. No one here and I do mean NO ONE has put down your fetish. Just because someone doesn't share your desires doesn't mean they are blackballing you, insulting you or are close minded. Yes, your fetish is less mainstream than say....spankings, but most here will defend your right to want what you want. It is the way you are going about it that has everyone being snarky. No one said that you should get therapy because you have some sick fetish. We are suggesting therapy because by your own words, this fetish is destroying your life. A good, kink friendly therapist can help you find balance. In other words, the therapist can help you deal with existing issues you have that you admit to above so that you will be in a better frame of mind to find the person that will share your fetish on the opposite side. Another thing you might want to look into is paragraphs. Writing big blocks of text annoys many to the point they won't even read what you wrote. That isn't going to help you find answers either. I don't share your fetish. That doesn't make me a bad person because I don't want to do what you want to do. I like men, you don't. That doesn't make you a bad person either. Please look into therapy so that you can become better at dealing with conflict and feel better about yourself. Once you are able to do that, I think you will be in a better place to find the woman of your dreams. I truly wish you luck.

BoiJen -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/6/2010 7:52:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive too bad i am straight, full toilet is more acceptable in the gay male community... that hatred is based on ignorance, ignorance is lack of knowledge and understanding. pretty much what the homosexual had to deal with, a group of guys would get together and lets beat the hell out of the gay guy, that is the same intolerance i have to deal with. they got to come out of the closet and have gay bars for their lifestyle, now the toilet slave has to be in the closet or risks redicule, threats , etc.. Now I can see why you may have been met with threats on your life...to compare your need to eat shit to that of the persecution of being gay is beyond ridiculous and had you done something stupid like say that at a gay rights group or at a pride parade or smaller gathering, I wouldn't be surprised if you got jumped for it. As it is, no one has actually said you're unhealthy because you want to eat shit, they've only said you're unhealthy because of your obsession with eating shit. Two different sentences. Your turn to the occult for selfish reasons is actually against what "white magic" or whatever you call it would dictate. "The Light" dictates that you must act with pure intention or bad stuff happens to you for acting otherwise. Simply put, acting selfishly will make karma kick you in the ass. Here's my prediction: I see a big boot in your future. boi PS. You can deal with your divorce through the mail. Sign the papers get them notarized and send them back.

IwantToLive -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/6/2010 11:48:47 AM)
again, i was taken out of context and my words twisted. now here is a my future or possible future. on the surface, nothing much happening. i will still be celibate by choice, living out in the boondocks, possibly a back in college studying psychology, still married, more friends locally after attending the pagan meetup groups; 2nd and 4th sundays... underneath the surface, positive life affirming meditations to create the possibility of a good future, what is created on the inside does not happen right away, there is a delay for a good reason. the movie "the secret" demonstrated what woud happen if thoughts manifested right away... it is about the law of attraction... my friend who did a tarot card reading for me... do my meditations, work with my energy, work with my chakras, basically i got a lot of work to do; by doing all that, the outcome will be good. the other way, being impulsive, obsessive, compulsive and out of control, i will keep recreating my own hell. that is not an option. there is a person on fet, he states there is a woman who will dump into my mouth; when i asked questions, the kind of questions that anyone needs to know so they know who/what they are dealing with; like basic stats, age, height, weight, etc, and what city in colorado; he said, the only thing important she is a woman that will dump a load into your mouth, then finished with understand? i wrote back, basically implying he is being dishonest and hiding something and there won't be a deal until i know more. if i am right about his ill intentioin; that is my old past programming that always sets me up for disaster, he could fit the profile of what i need to torment myself, that was the old way; now i am doing away with old programming, and creating a new way of thinking which is positive and life affirming. you can plant a seed but you cannot force it to grow... with watering and nurturing, will will grow in its own time. that is the same with all things. timing... timing... if it is not the right time for what is to happen; it won't happen and if force and impatience are used, it won't happen plus their will be hell to pay.. if it is the right time, through proper mindset, a person can have whatever they desire. as a person thinketh therefore he is. i think therefore i am. i would rather be bored and safe than be foolish to bring about the wrong excitement (creating my own disaster); the bored and safe are outward, and conscious. so i know with my innter work, i have a very bright future.... also there is a favorite catch phrase of mine; by being patient and with the right timing; that may be soon or maybe be years from now or may never happen; i will have a help mate not a hinder mate, a compliment not a detriment; my old programming would always bring about my own hell by attracting the wrong people ; hinder mates and detriments; i deserve better and will have better; as i grow and mature on the inside... btw that is mentioned in a lot of books, about inner growth and maturity... stated... i caused all my problems, improper thinking, improper emotions, improper actions, improper choices; what i am doing not is to have proper thinking, proper emotions, proper actions, proper choices... to will, to dare, to be determined, to be silent.... discretions always goes a long ways. yes, indeed, i have a very bright future. btw you look kinda like Angelina Jolie. Billy

PeonForHer -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/6/2010 11:53:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive btw you look kinda like Angelina Jolie. Billy Talk about 'saving the best till last' Chuckle

MsKittyBlack -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/6/2010 2:27:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive btw you look kinda like Angelina Jolie. Billy As much as I love My boi...I don't buy that. MsK

KITTYLECTRO -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/7/2010 7:30:12 PM)
Why don't you just eat at Denny's?

DarkSteven -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/7/2010 7:31:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO Why don't you just eat at Denny's?

cloudboy -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/8/2010 7:17:39 AM)
Well, you can classify me a skeptic here, thinking that your wish is impossible for all things #2 related.

FetishHound -> RE: why taboo fetishes? (2/9/2010 10:17:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IwantToLive i have for about 30 years wanted to be a full toilet slave for a Dominant Woman. my quest has been met with rejection, assault, threats of harm, threats of death, all kinds of persecution. i am age 50. my vanilla wife tells everyone my desire to eat her sh*t. she got people hating me and wanting to hurt me or kill me. i had to leave los angeles and ended up back in missouri. she is in los angeles with her boyfriend. in the bdsm lifestyle... it is your kink not mine... so i have not had a Mistress since 1997. there are very few Dommes that want a full toilet... so i went the way of vanilla women... while i had no luck with them ... i had put the interest on hold for awhile... then i am with a vanilla woman. i know a full toilet slave is taboo or at least a woman using one thinks it too taboo for her. i don't understand the closed mindness... women do that in a regular toilet all the time.. why not a mouth? will my dream of being a full toilet ever come true. i am more wise and don't take much chance anymore cause i am damn leary. Billy I personally don't think there is anything wrong with your fetish.I hate when people freak over this.Some people are into knife play and blood drinking and that freaks me out but to each his/her own.I'm not into scat eating myself but I am into golden and brown showers with women.I like to serving as a toilet for a pretty woman with golden showers.You're right in that it is hard to find women into scat play.Sadly, I have only receive one brown shower and loved it.Golden showers isn't that hard to find and have done that many times.

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