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ORIGINAL: LeBlueDude

Is it odd that I want my dom to earn my trust before I let them dom?

I can't imagine myself willing to sub for a random stranger off the street unless someone I trusted a great deal wanted me to. I run off of trust, and for my friends, (who are the people I trust) I would do pretty much anything. I recently had a domme, who contacted ME by the way, get hyper offended when I asked her questions about what she would do for me, what she liked, who she was, what she was interested in. She acted like it was strange that I didn't go belly up for her.

I can't understand why I would though. I want someone I can trust. I'm not going to roll over to some stranger and let them wipe their feet on me, it needs to be someone I know. It's not a one way relationship. I expect my domme to love and cherish me, and to always build me up stronger when they're done tearing me down.

Is that so odd or wrong?

I don't want any specific sexual situations. I don't have any special fantasies. I just want to trust. I want Emotion. I want Love. And in exchange for love, I will do anything that won't kill me.