Whiplashsmile4
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I know this is not going to make me particularly popular Those Doms who have an ounce of common sense know that they're going to get a better response with an appropriately written profile and a thoughtful email. They'll be extremely annoyed at your attempt to explain to the morons on this site that there's a pretty simple way to get responses to emails. Fortunately, the morons (most of them at least) don't get to the fora, so I think they're safe from any additional competition. To be honest - I can't understand why anyone would think an experiment like this would be worthwhile, isn't it utterly obvious to anyone with an IQ above 32? And no doubt people will say "Oh but so few Doms seem to understand" - But that's easily explained - the Doms that don't get it are fuckwits. You may as well dedicate a month to getting up early to watch the dawn, and then post the startling conclusion that the Sun does, indeed, come up in the morning. [Edited for shocking grammar faux pas] I more less agree with your points, however man there sure are a lot of sexual raunchy females profiles that are just begging for the Sleezy humilation, sex and abuse in email. It's more like a competition for who is the biggest whore, slut and piece of fuck meat, no limits girl, that is looking for a True Dom to put them in their place and control everything about their pathetic lives. Ummmm.. Wait a minute I don't normally respond to profiles on CM, and tend to have mine deactivated (Life is Good). Hell, if I want or need to get laid I can get that in the real time without needing to use Online. Anyways, every few weeks a guy makes a post to Message Board complaining, or looking for advice or help because they are not getting any responses from women in the emails they send or their profile. These guys are generally not the Rude & Vulgar ones sending out mindless trashy email either (at least not generally). So it gets to be somewhat confusing as to why these apparently decent guys are not getting a response. Believe it or not, even extremely well written profiles and emails don't get the response. Why? Because of something called personality or tone of the email. Some of these well written emails are in fact long winded and rather DULL DULL DULL. Does not snag the attention nor interest. This is a very frustrating experience for guys that are sincere and are not being a Pig about things. The Moron/Idiot wanker factor does not apply. No, it's not utterly fracking apparent to people even with IQ's above 32. In fact this concept applies to REAL WORLD dating, where there are nice guys that just can't seem to draw or attract interest from the opposite sex (they ain't bad looking guys either, and they have jobs). It's so nice that lump all these guys as being "Fuckwits" when some of them ain't at all. Not everybody is good nor feels comfortable when emailing a complete stranger for the first time. It's a bit like Fracking Stage Fright for some people and has very little to with IQ. You can sit and toss around insults and belittlements or you can attempt to reach for understanding. That's rather a personal choice or decision for you to make. Every time anybody makes a post to a thread, a decision is made. A choice is made regarding the response to give. A choice is made to look for or not look for understanding. A choice is made to attempt to enter into constructive Debate. A choice is made to toss out Humor and Snarky comments for Laughs. I have to disagree with your simplist accessment about the IQ of 32, your comments about FuckWits and etc... because there really are some since guys that are not being PIGs and they are trying to put honest thought into what they are doing. They turn to the message looking for advice. Now with that said. If any guy came here to the message board looking for Advice on this subject, DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA who I might Refer them to? The OP of this very thread. Why? Because of their own Personal Experience and Insight gained by their hands on Exploration into the matter. Then again, Experience is Priceless. In my not so humble Opinion, you'd be the last person I'd point them to for advice, cause you just might end up calling them a FuckWit or something. I'd fear you'd be way too impatient with them as well. I tend to think that about people who cast out name calling and Judgements quickly. Then again... this is just my own personal impression and thoughts.
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