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heartcream -> RE: An Experiment (2/7/2010 12:23:14 PM)
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Wow this is a good distraction and a mind scratcher. My response is I kinda dig that she is experimenting.
Not in the way where we have a scientific approach but an experimental one. As in me going into the Experimental Art program at college. Our approach to art was not scientific. It was so the other way I felt covered in bugs and switched to General Art within two days of school starting.
I love the whole idea of experimenting with Life, trying things out, opening up to think different, doing things different.
I didnt get the mail why doesnt "he" like me?[:D] and I can imagine feeling duped and a tad itchy if someone did this to me but I would get it too. I like action that evokes thought. It is almost like an art piece. I would also think this is someone with more than two marbles in a tin can going around. I would be interested in her because it feels to me like she is thinking with her heart. Personally I dont feel distrust for the OP either. Sometimes things we do, things it seems no one has really done before can be difficult to sort out how best to proceed. Sometimes you go with your gut and see what comes back to you in external reality. In terms of time spent, I do not feel it was wasted.
I dont know that what the OP did proves anything but I enjoy the attempt to understand and bridge the male/female gap.
I also agree with Katy's post about possible reasons for not writing back. Sometimes I plain dont want to. Maybe if recieved the email I would not have written you back, but then again maybe I would. Sometimes the thing I write back is so lame it is barely worth it. Like "Thank you." I rarely get a well written email. The guys who can well write usually send me mail, if at all in short sparse phrases, my experience.
In terms of time spent, I do not feel it was wasted.
I was a victim of a nice guy. In the end, with the mercy of the Universe invested in me, I found out, by accident that he was married, had a kid and even had an entirely different name. I dont have that same pitch of feeling deceived obviously but to me the important difference here is the intent.
I would say the OP was experimenting with how the male female dynamic works with who knows what degree of success.
I didnt graze every word written here but at the end of it I was left with a feeling that people were furious with you jujubee. From where I stand it is all right. People get upset about what they get upset about. Now you are upset. It is going to be okay.
It is very difficult to try and come up with ways how to better understand each other and in the end, I feel, my feeling is that is ultimately what you were trying to do. Bring light into some gnarly dense places that could use some help.
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