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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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As for flames, I'll sit here and take them.

Masochist ;-)

- LA

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Yes, you wrote to my experimental female profile.
 
Don't forget we are having a long session of experimental sex later.

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I'm crushed.

My plane ticket is non-refundable.


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I'm crushed.

My plane ticket is non-refundable.


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Come to me sweet dreamdreamdreamy!  You, mee and Juju makes three
we'll start us a poly family

WinD
The Collector

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm not in the least surprised.  A female sub should be able to know what a female sub wants.

The questions are:

1. So are male Doms not sending letters like that because they don't know what female subs want?
2. Or are they simply relating their own desires and nelgecting those of the subs?
3. Or are they simply too lazy to spend the fifteen minutes per letter?

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm not in the least surprised.  A female sub should be able to know what a female sub wants.

The questions are:

1. So are male Doms not sending letters like that because they don't know what female subs want?
2. Or are they simply relating their own desires and nelgecting those of the subs?
3. Or are they simply too lazy to spend the fifteen minutes per letter?

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm not in the least surprised.  A female sub should be able to know what a female sub wants.

The questions are:

1. So are male Doms not sending letters like that because they don't know what female subs want?
2. Or are they simply relating their own desires and nelgecting those of the subs?
3. Or are they simply too lazy to spend the fifteen minutes per letter?

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I knew I liked you [:)]

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I know this is not going to make me particularly popular, but I've just finished an experiment that I think had VERY interesting results, and I wanted to share. I started a fake profile as a straight male dom, and I made him very average looking, early 40s, with a profile that was very well thought out and tailored to sound extremely attractive to your average female sub. I said that I was "not looking for something casual," and that submission was something I felt I had to earn, as I earned a person's trust and respect. I put that I was looking for a partner in this, and that while I had quite a bit of experience and a passion for dominance, each person was unique and I had no illusions that I knew everything. I put all my interests as non-sexual things.

Then I proceeded to email a ton of women, all from around age 20 to 40, and I wrote very personal, kind, and warm messages. I took my time with each of them, and didn't push them to email, IM, or do ANYthing. Generally I closed out each email with "Good luck with everything, and I sincerely hope that you find you're looking for." Guess what? Every single woman I wrote to responded, and told me that my email and profile were "refreshing." I let them know about the experiment, and most told me that they were completely taken aback by how personal and kind and non-demanding my message had been - that it was incredibly rare to receive an email with any thought at all, much less one that made them feel respected.

So all the men complaining that women don't respond to messages: make a better profile, and write a kind, warm, respectful, personalized email. We may be on this website because of our sexuality, but our sexuality is not what's going to make us want to talk to you.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I knew I liked you [:)]

If I interpret that as a proposition, it makes me happy as hell.  [:)]

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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

I rather like this "experiment"... shows how clueless those that complain actually are, and as usual, have only themselves to blame for their failure to find another.  Part of me thinks you should post the intro letter/email you'd used when contacting said female subs as a "how to" of sorts, but that'd only result in the twits using it as a form letter.  Better to let them continue to fail.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

/Elbows way past "charming subs" in a Domly manner/

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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i do feel bad though for all those ladies who thought you were for real. imagine how they felt when they read your e-mail and was full of hope.

I feel worse for people who are so desperate and simple-minded that all it takes is one email to fill them with hope.

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1. So are male Doms not sending letters like that because they don't know what female subs want?
2. Or are they simply relating their own desires and nelgecting those of the subs?
3. Or are they simply too lazy to spend the fifteen minutes per letter?