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sultryvoice -> RE: Rude Emails (3/26/2006 6:02:21 PM)

Thank you so much for your reply and compliment brightspot. I have blocked this person, so no more problems....unless...he changes his name and comes back again..Probably not smart enough for that!

Respectfully,
sultry



sultryvoice -> RE: Rude Emails (3/26/2006 6:05:47 PM)

No, he didn't compare me to a Domme but to Scarlett in Gone With the Wind..You kow..poor, poor, pitiful me scenerio. If you read my profile, there isn't a thing in there that I am looking at myself that way..

Respectfully,
sultry



kruelkare -> RE: Rude Emails (3/26/2006 7:07:30 PM)

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Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her.


Because, sadly, there are some who think that, in order to appear dominant, you have to treat other people like dirt.  It has simply never occurred to them that they are revealing their own inadequacies by doing so.
If you are dominant, you are in control.  That means you can afford to be gracious about it, and to treat thse around you with respect and courtesy... if you see that as a sign of weakness, maybe you're not as much in control as you thought you were.   

What is even worse is that there are also those who feel that, in order to be a "true submissive", they have to accept this kind of behaviour.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Rude Emails (3/26/2006 9:00:50 PM)

I don't get why people don't realize they are ONLINE.  Whatever makes people think they won't run into idiots online needs to be corrected.  Can we put something in the water?

I REALLY suggest at this point that we just make a "Rude Emils and No Responses" forum.  We can just shove all the threads that we get like this into there.



IronBear -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 12:01:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sultryvoice

No, he didn't compare me to a Domme but to Scarlett in Gone With the Wind..You kow..poor, poor, pitiful me scenerio. If you read my profile, there isn't a thing in there that I am looking at myself that way..

Respectfully,
sultry


Now young lady you have really gone and done it......... I love Gone With The Wind, the period in the South and had family fight for the South too.. I have this immage of you all deckedout in acrynaline , gloves and huge white hat on the lawns of a Southern Mansion.....  Beautiful vision and beautiful Southern Belle....... [:D]



Arpig -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 3:38:56 AM)

Does it really matter that he blocked you after he wrote you a nasty email?
Is it really important that you reply?
What would you reply? What purpose would there be in replying to him?
He is very unlikely to change his opinion of you, or his basically boorish ways, so I would think it a blessing that he has blocked you, you don't have to waste any time replying to him.
That brings to mind another question...why does everybody seem to think their time is so damned precious?
Its free...everybody gets exactly the same amount of it every day, and we all pay exactly the same for it...nothing.



slaveladyj -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 3:48:05 AM)

I'm getting tired of responding to all the emails in a polite fashion as I have been. They read the parts of my profile that interest them, but not the important stuff, like I'm not going to meet any one face to face, not seeking anyone. I changed my profile a few times, to be sure it reflected that I was just looking for others to speak too. And still, I get emails from male dom's telling me they'll turn me into a respectful slave, I'll live in their house naked all the time, and stuff. One even said he was looking for a young lady, I'm not young.  I'm started to just ignore them, where I used to always respond politely.



smilezz -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 4:01:33 AM)

Just delete and move on with your day.  It's not worth the time and/or effort in figuring out why.

~smilezz~



MissyRane -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 4:36:12 AM)

Speaking of rude e-mails..I've been wondering what's up with Doms/Dommes who send you these...standardized advertisments, it's so impersonal and I don't know..sometimes I even had the same Dom sending me the same advertize 2x with a couple of months interval it's like they're introducing a product[&:] I don't know..I suppose subs do it too..I'm not necessarily only talking about Dominants but they're the only ones I've experienced.



slavejali -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 4:49:29 AM)

you guys get all the fun emails *grin*



namasteguardian -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 8:24:48 AM)

This kind of rude behavior is an unfortunate byproduct of being on the Net. It gives someone a level of protection and security to say what they want because there is no real way for them to be called to the carpet on their bad behavior. They would never have the balls to say something like this to someone in person! It is also true that sites like these have made it easy for fake Doms (and subs for that matter) to jump into the scene without having any real clue as to what it is all about. Any Dom who thinks being rude to a sub is appropriate is either ignorant, or someone who truly wants a doormat, not a sub. There are just as many supposed subs that are just people who have a fantasy about what this scene is all about, but no real experience to base their assumptions on. It is as frustrating for Doms to deal with these people as it is for the subs trying to cope with idiot doms. In either case, it is pointless to respond to these kinds of people. As someone else already mentioned, don't even waste your time, just hit the delete key, and move on.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

"Life wasn't meant to be easy, but it was meant to be fun!"



sultryvoice -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 11:18:37 AM)

Thank you Iron Bear for your nice comment. That gives me an idea for another picture at some point.

LA, why do you have to be so acerbic? I respect your  insight on many subjects but, being flip isn't really necessary. Asking a question, no matter how many times, is important to that person. New people can get something out of it. There are so many posts, not many could go back to look or know where to look. It also seems many, on all sides, have this problem.

Of course, online is different, and you can hide behind a screen. It's a shame people have to be this way.

As for the one said that why bother to write back. Because I was asking why he was being so rude to me. I never did a thing to incite it. I decided to block him also so if he decides to email again, I won't have it come into my mailbox.

Respectfully,
sultry



MissyRane -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 11:33:53 AM)

I think I can say that my motto is that if you never ask anything, you'll never get to know anything..sometimes I get blamed for asking but I don't know..I just ignore it and continue to ask..call me stupid[:)] But I think that even though it's online, people should pay each other respect, if they wan't to gain another persons respect..



dorsaisgirl1 -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 2:18:29 PM)

hmmmmmm i can only think of 3 posibilitys he has confused you with someone else [posibul but unlikely] he is doing it to piss you off why i have no idea or he is just lashing out at anyone he can find



Jasminex -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 3:12:20 PM)

I like many others i'm sure get a few odd messages from time to time and I ignore them and move on. However having had a chat with a couple of the women from this thread it seems like it is the same guy  (well he has the same name so i'm sure it is!) and i'm guessing he does do this a hell of a lot. He is quite unpleasant, can you report someone's profile for this sort of behaviour?



sultryvoice -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 5:05:09 PM)

Oh how I wish I could put his handle on here. But, I know that isn't the thing to do. But I so wish I could...hehe..Now, I would get thrown out for that one! I would just want to see if we are talking about the same guy.

Respectfully,
sultry



IronBear -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 5:13:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dorsaisgirl1

hmmmmmm i can only think of 3 posibilitys he has confused you with someone else [posibul but unlikely] he is doing it to piss you off why i have no idea or he is just lashing out at anyone he can find


On another location in cyberspace, we have a name for these type of posters .....Drive By Wankers.... Typical hit and run merchants and with the ones we have managed to track down, all have been kids, board and sneeking access to parent's computers..




yourMissTress -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 5:29:20 PM)

Hello sultry...good to see you! 
 
I know why he did what he did...he's a jealous little ignorant man that knows he would never be a worthy dominant for a beautiful, intelligent, sexy woman as yourself. 
 
I have a question that's a tad off subject...are you one of the DM's that will be on duty on the 8th?  I meant to ask you ...but I was kinda busy...



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 5:37:33 PM)

Evening,
 
Sultry, didn't you get the memo. Everyone who calls themselves submissive or slave is to fall to their face and kiss the feet of every man who calls himself a dominate or Master.
 
By the way for any that might not catch it this was being sarcastic however there are many who think this way. Sad but true.
 
Nika{Phoenix}



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Rude Emails (3/27/2006 5:40:14 PM)

Iron Bear!
You made me spit perfectly good coke on the monitor.
I have not heard that term in ages - drive by wanker.
I always wondered is that  like a drive through wanker?

*laughs*

Nika{Phoenix}



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