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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 8:41:15 PM

LafayetteLady

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Typically, women watch the way a man dances as a semi comparison to how he will be in bed. I'm sure several will try to argue the point, but there are studies to back it up. A man who can move fluidly in time with the music, in theory, can move fluidly in time with his partner during sex.

Now my partner can't dance to save his freaking life, but he is great in the sack, so there goes the statistical theory, right?

I love to see a man who can dance well. I think there are a lot of reasons for this. Since so many men will think it is not a "manly" thing to learn ballroom dancing, one who does it and does it well appears confident and sexy.

Personally, I think you should go for it. It is good exercise, it improves balance and coordination and you are probably going to meet some interesting people. Seems like there is no downside to it at all.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 8:43:21 PM

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I love Ballroom Dancing. I wish I could find a place down here where I could go to dance and find dance partners. Nothing lame about it. I wish more people did it. I wish I could hear more waltzes on the radio.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 8:45:18 PM

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Just because a man is good in bed does not mean that he will be a great dancer or vice versa. One really has nothing to do with another. Like the kissing theory...you think if a guy is a great kisser then it would naturally follow that he's a talented lover? No Tatall.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 9:18:06 PM

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Sexy.....go for it. Anything that gets you physically moving around is good for the body and learning something new is good for the mind. Don't really see any down side to it.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 9:21:04 PM

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Laaaaaaaaaame.

But I have two left feet, so meh.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 9:55:34 PM

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I think a man who is enjoying himself, is sexy. Even if he has two-left feet, if he can laugh about it, and have fun, I think that is sexy.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/7/2010 11:16:02 PM

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Do you think a guy that can dance is sexy?

Sexy. Oh my G-d so fucking sexy.

And if he wants me to wear a sexy dress and us go out dancing together... oh sweet G-d in heaven yes I am there... Him whirling me around, leading me, dipping, tossing, twirling...

...

Excuse me. I need fresh panties now.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 3:30:28 AM

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Ballroom dancing is great but quite stiff and not easy to learn and the music is quite often a bit stale and the general public attending on the older end of the scale

Latin is great but lots of white guys have troubles swinging the hips

CEROC is juuuust ace, it swings man, and you get to lead and twirl and dip and drop the lady and it is lose and flowing and fast or slow and as dirty as you wanna make it...
also modern music... and i find that such a bonus

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 3:44:08 AM

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ages ago i got swirled and whirled around at a private disco party, not ballroom ill admit, but he took over completely i had no idea what i was doing but it felt brilliant and sexy.

a few years ago i went to a club with a D and he danced like an orangotan, i was so embarrassed i pretended my feet hurt and i didnt dance for the rest of the night.

so basically its hot if you trot and its lame if youre crap at it.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 4:30:13 AM

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I think it's sexy, yup. Not just ballroom, but any type of dancing. I also find a chap that can sing and play a musical instrument sexy too.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 4:40:25 AM

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I taught and did ballroom and latin also disco dancing for nearly 20 years, and yes it is definitely sexy, very very sexy, especially if you have sparks with your partner.
while basic steps arent hard, putting the music and the steps together can be, listen to the music, feel it and let it move you, enjoy it together
it can be great fun even if you are new

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 7:05:51 AM

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Do you think a guy that can dance is sexy?

yes...but it isn't just the learned skill...it's the confidence He dances with that is dead sexy.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 7:35:01 AM

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Well shut my mouth wide open! Talk about an avalanche of responces.

Looks like my Tuesdays will be booked for a while.

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may i ask where You will be taking those lessons?? *grins*

Some place called Bar71. Tuesday's at 7:00-8:00 they have 5 dollar lessons and then open dancing the rest of the night. It's like a club I guess. Never been there. Each month they do a different dance. This month is the Cha Cha. Not sure how good a 5 dollar lesson will be, but I plan on getting my money's worth and then some. Like anything, it's the practice you put in between lessons that's most important.

Sounds like I need to do a search on CEROC

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 8:19:05 AM

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I enjoy many forms of dancing, including waltzing. My Master and my previous Dominant both don't care for it, but allowed me to go out dancing with friends. For me, it isn't sexual unless I'm dancing with someone I feel that way toward, but it *is* fun. Ballroom in particular tends to be classy and elegant.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 8:28:35 AM

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i adore a man who can dance, and it doesn't even have to be anything fancy for me to enjoy it.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 8:49:14 AM

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Plus I think there are usually less men to go around in situations where there is dancing. In my area there was a school type thing for young adults and I'd get the director calling and begging me to have my dashingly handsome sons attend and she wouldnt' charge for the lessons. They should have gone, they'd have had their pick of the girls there and so might you

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 8:57:16 AM

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I think a man dancing is sexy as hell. I have never been able to find a dancer partner. But those men who can dance are never short of partners as women love a partner that is so good he makes you look good. The elation of it is intoxicating.

My grandparents fell in love on the dance floor.

Ballroom dance is so filled with dominance and submission where one leads and the other follows. Latin dance is so hot with Dominance and submission. You have the sexy temptress. In the Paso Doble youi have the bull and Matador.

Hawt hawt hawt.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 8:59:53 AM

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It's sexy, in an understated way...
Shaking one's rump in dance is like screaming; " DO ME ! "
Ballroom dancing is like when your Dom/me whispers evil things in your ear of what is to come...

There's nothing lame about it.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 9:33:51 AM

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Nothing like a man taking control, leading you on to the dance floor, guiding you into a dreamy waltz, commanding every step and turn.... Extremely hot .... go for it is my suggestion.

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RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? - 2/8/2010 9:44:26 AM

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I love watching ballroom dancing, I'd like to learn that, and swing dancing.

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