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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:19:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think you are not understanding me... I mean why do some women post provocative pictures of themselves... what do they hope to gain.. what are they saying with the pictures.

It is not necessary to post pictures of breasts any more than cocks...I'm not talking taste but why?

I believe it is the same message as men posting provocative pictures.... all want to attract the opposite or desired sex.

There is no difference.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:21:13 AM   
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I think you are not understanding me... I mean why do some women post provocative pictures of themselves... what do they hope to gain.. what are they saying with the pictures.

It is not necessary to post pictures of breasts any more than cocks...I'm not talking taste but why?

I believe it is the same message as men posting provocative pictures.... all want to attract the opposite or desired sex.

There is no difference.

Butch


I think that men hope that women will see their dicks and get hot, even though we usually don't... I also think that some men do it for a complete opposite reaction... .they get hot thinking about a woman being revolted, dismayed, or embarrassed by looking at their penis


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:25:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Honestly, I don't agree that breasts in a corset equal a cock shot. To me, that's like a picture of a guy starting to pull down his jeans but you can't see anything. That doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Part of my thinking is no doubt because I used to have H-cups. It didn't matter if I was trying to show those fuckers off or hide them. They were there. The cleavage WAS there if the shirt had any neckline that didn't hug my throat. They ALWAYS stuck out. They were ALWAYS on display. I can't do anything about that. A guy can, however, choose not to take a picture of himself with a boner. That isn't a constant state of being for him.

Our breasts, how big they are, and how prominent they are are things we women can't change short of removing them completely. I've had a reduction and they are still naughty little puppies that annoy me.

To hide them as effectively as a pair of buttoned up jeans for a cock, we'd need duct tape at the least and surgery in a lot of cases. Because of that, I don't really view the two as comparable. I do agree that a vulva shot, however, is the same. I don't want to see it. It's easy to not show, please don't stick it in my face.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:49:49 AM   
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I also think that some men do it for a complete opposite reaction... .they get hot thinking about a woman being revolted, dismayed, or embarrassed by looking at their penis


I would agree with this point, but would also consider turning it around. Regardless of the self assigned label on the profile, a disembodied cock shot solicits ridicule. It would seem to be an indicator of a submissive man; at least on 'adult' or CM-type sites. Where the audience would be more 'mature' and/or 'adult' the "shock value", and in turn the hope of "revolting" a female, is reduced. It's not the same conditions used by a public 'flasher'.

I don't think the same thought process goes through the female counterpart. I see more pride in display exhibited rather than a need for 'shock value' attention. Although some male parts include commentary alluding to pride of ownership - many are unwarranted; others, as beth puts it, are just "scary".

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:53:48 AM   
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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:57:02 AM   
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Sounds delicious...Are you Hawaiian?


Nope... no pineapple

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:57:05 AM   
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I think that men hope that women will see their dicks and get hot, even though we usually don't... I also think that some men do it for a complete opposite reaction... .they get hot thinking about a woman being revolted, dismayed, or embarrassed by looking at their penis



I'm not necessarily talking cock shots...but it makes no difference...a few weeks ago there was a thread about men showing their butts and how distasteful it was...yet I just came from the log on screen and there were 4 women with their butts in the camera and no men.

You said what you think a mans reason was but… you are not a man...but as a woman why do you post a provocative picture? What responses to you hope to elicit?

Believe me I am not trying to start an argument…I am really curious why women find so many men’s pictures distasteful yet post the same kind of picture in their profiles.

Men show butts …distasteful

Women show butts …ok

Men show cocks… distasteful

Women show vaginas…ok if tasteful…hell how can you display a cock tastefully…lol

Women holding breasts with nipples poking at the camera…OK

Men holding crotch… distasteful.

Can you not at least see where this mindset could be thought hypocritical?

Butch


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:00:37 PM   
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I think you are not understanding me... I mean why do some women post provocative pictures of themselves... what do they hope to gain.. what are they saying with the pictures.

It is not necessary to post pictures of breasts any more than cocks...I'm not talking taste but why?

I believe it is the same message as men posting provocative pictures.... all want to attract the opposite or desired sex.

There is no difference.

Butch

I think I'm probably not understanding you.

See, the shots that I have up are from fun times that I've had in the past.  That's what people saw when they met Me.  I see this in the same way when folks post a 'play' type shot.  People who might happen to be naked, but they are tied in rope, or they are showing marks from play, etc.

The random body part shot, doesn't have that factor.  That's honestly not what I'm going to see if there's no play involved.  I use to tell a running gag about the silliness of sending cock shots.  It's not like I'm going to meet you out in the world, and pull down your pants so I can see your dick in order to recognize you.


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:05:12 PM   
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men showing their butts and how distasteful it was


Now I appreciate a nice backside, but that is just me, and I could be wrong....


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but as a woman why do you post a provocative picture? What responses to you hope to elicit?


I already answered that question...I cannot answer for everyone.. I think a lot of women like the sensual feel of being erotic, and it isn't to find someone to lay us... I can get laid without posting any photo...and as far as that goes, I am seeing someone right now.


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Believe me I am not trying to start an argument…I am really curious why women find so many men’s pictures distasteful yet post the same kind of picture in their profiles.


I do not really care what pictures men post, but I wouldn't respond to a cock shot, it isn't my cuppa..

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Men show butts …distasteful

Women show butts …ok

Men show cocks… distasteful

Women shoe vaginas…ok if tasteful…hell how can you display a cock tastefully…lol

Women holding breasts with nipples poking at the camera…OK

Men holding crotch… distasteful.

Can you not at least see where this mindset could be thought hypocritical?

Butch


Men walk around topless and have shirtless photos... ok
Women with small tits wear tight low cut clothing...ok
Women with big tits do the same... sluts....

gotcha!


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:06:46 PM   
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my vagina and spam


Sounds delicious...Are you Hawaiian?


Actually it doesn't sound all that appealing to me, but then again I never liked spam or tuna


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:14:34 PM   
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Men show butts …distasteful


Depends on the butt

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Women show butts …ok


Depends on the butt

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Men show cocks… distasteful

Women show vaginas…ok if tasteful…hell how can you display a cock tastefully…lol


I think both are distasteful generally, both can be artistic but rare

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Women holding breasts with nipples poking at the camera…OK

Men holding crotch… distasteful.


If a man was holding his tits it would be fine, if a woman was holding her crotch in the way men do it would be distasteful




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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:15:33 PM   
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Where the audience would be more 'mature' and/or 'adult' the "shock value", and in turn the hope of "revolting" a female, is reduced. It's not the same conditions used by a public 'flasher'.


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Although some male parts include commentary alluding to pride of ownership - many are unwarranted; others, as beth puts it, are just "scary".


And the scary ones... usually with thick bushes growing out so much that they envelop the penis.. those ones ARE revolting... someone should introduce these men to a Brazilian wax job, or at the very least a razor



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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:24:17 PM   
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I think you are not understanding me... I mean why do some women post provocative pictures of themselves... what do they hope to gain.. what are they saying with the pictures.

It is not necessary to post pictures of breasts any more than cocks...I'm not talking taste but why?

I believe it is the same message as men posting provocative pictures.... all want to attract the opposite or desired sex.

There is no difference.

Butch


I dunno... why do you have a picture of your ass all laid out on the bed with a bit of panties showing? I consider that provocative. Certainly to someone who has a thing for spanking, asses and panties it's definately provocative.

I post the pictures I post because A) They show a bit of my personality, B) They show my body type well as I consider that important for attracting a mate who wants to have sex with me a lot, C) I was having fun doing whatever I was doing.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:27:22 PM   
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I post the pictures I post because A) They show a bit of my personality, B) They show my body type well as I consider that important for attracting a mate who wants to have sex with me a lot, C) I was having fun doing whatever I was doing.


In fact there is another big difference between why women do this and why men do it..,, women who are not seeking will often post "provocative" photos of themselves.. it is rare that I have seen a man that is a part of a couple do the same thing...


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:38:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		You know... I actually can't think of a single time I've seen a guy in a couple do that, beyond "I'm married and my wife doesn't know what I'm up to here". Not saying it doesn't happen, of course. Just that I either haven't seen it or don't recall it.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:40:27 PM   
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You know... I actually can't think of a single time I've seen a guy in a couple do that, beyond "I'm married and my wife doesn't know what I'm up to here". Not saying it doesn't happen, of course. Just that I either haven't seen it or don't recall it.


Neither have I, but just in case I said "rarely"...lol


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 12:56:38 PM   
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You know... I actually can't think of a single time I've seen a guy in a couple do that, beyond "I'm married and my wife doesn't know what I'm up to here". Not saying it doesn't happen, of course. Just that I either haven't seen it or don't recall it.
If you really want to see salacious pictures of me (including the one that generated the braided butt hair comment - Talk about "scary"!) you have to go to our Mercnbeth Flickr site photo page.

We're both exhibitionists except I usually hold the camera.

In looking for the appropriate 'smiley' I noticed yet another example of gender bias.

Not one - but two of these !! A couple of hairless these;

There is this example of a growing appendage . Not one 'shaking willy'!

So when will there be a male flasher smiley? Here's when....

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 1:13:35 PM   
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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 3:23:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Call me a bit old fashioned or a prude, but I generally refrain from speaking with someone who has graphic photos in their profile. For me, it just sends the wrong message. While CM is a BDSM site, it's also a personals site. As I'm not looking for a wham-bam-thank-you-mam kind of relationship, I don't want to present myself in a way that would insinuate that I am. There's a small bit of cleavage in some of my photos, but that's about it (and even that is on the mild side). I would much rather the focus be on what I had to say in my profile rather than on a 'sexy' photo.

And honestly, I like a little mystery when it comes to a new lover. I'm like a little kid on Christmas day, don't ruin the surprise!


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 4:32:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks Julia for the answer...but women with large breasts are not sluts to me...in fact no woman is a slut just because they want to show their body in any fashion they like. I hope most of us here on this board are beyond shallow judgments...You know don't judge the book by the cover type thing.

I just try, and I mean try, not to be judgmental about anyone’s desires as long as they don't involve kids or self-destructive behaviors.

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