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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 4:40:06 PM   
juliaoceania


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I just try, and I mean try, not to be judgmental about anyone’s desires as long as they don't involve kids or self-destructive behaviors.

Butch



There is a difference between not finding certain approaches attractive and judging people who use those approaches...

I do not judge men with cock shots... at the same time, I do not want to date them...

If a man did not want to date me for my photos, I would have to understand that was his preference... I do not think I would feel "judged" by that. If people find certain photos "gross" that is as valid as someone who finds them "hot"


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 4:42:21 PM   
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I think I'm probably not understanding you.

See, the shots that I have up are from fun times that I've had in the past.  That's what people saw when they met Me.  I see this in the same way when folks post a 'play' type shot.  People who might happen to be naked, but they are tied in rope, or they are showing marks from play, etc.

The random body part shot, doesn't have that factor.  That's honestly not what I'm going to see if there's no play involved.  I use to tell a running gag about the silliness of sending cock shots.  It's not like I'm going to meet you out in the world, and pull down your pants so I can see your dick in order to recognize you.



I really believe we are saying the same thing...just in different ways... I don't want or mean to fixate on cock or vagina shots...I mean the shots you post are telling a story about yourself... They can be graphic and explicit to your wants and needs or they can pictures of you in action...nude or not. But they are still provocative and meant to attract the kind of person you are looking for.

Of course pictures are just like a calling card to your profile where the meat of your wants and needs should be spelled out.

That is if you really care to meet or attract people...many don’t

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 4:49:10 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		I'm not trying to get you to date them...or even talking about you in particular...Every one makes judgments on a personal level about who they want to be with...I'm not talking about that... Just not judging those that choose in my mind or yours to post a tasteless picture. If they want to ...have at it...and if it attracts someone that likes that type of picture...more power to them.

But I've seen people crucified on these boards for a picture that others think tasteless and they do not deserve that... not on this type of board.

Please don’t think I am singling you out as that type of person…it is just we have been talking back and forth about our ideas on the subject.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 4:53:55 PM   
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But I've seen people crucified on these boards for a picture that others think tasteless and they do not deserve that... not on this type of board.


I haven't seen that here... sincerely I haven't


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:11:53 PM   
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This guy wasn't even naked, he just made the mistake of being kink proud god forbid.


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:11:59 PM   
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I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch


I do not know why men display their crotches... I would guess it is for a variety of reasons...

Why am I displaying my chest corseted chest? For a few reasons, but mostly because at 41 I am beginning to feel completely comfortable in my skin, so it is all about me more than it is about those seeing me...  I really am starting to love my body, which is ironic because it is starting to age at the same time I have grown to love it



I think men display their crotch because they dont understand women. They think that becaause they are visual and thats what they want to see, they translate that into thinking that will somehow excite a woman. But they are treating woman as if they are men. This is a mistake and lack of insight.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:18:01 PM   
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I've seen men asked and mocked all the time if their 'cock shot' is the image of the and what they want to convey?


Fish swim. Birds fly. Women bitch. Don't over think it.


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:27:00 PM   
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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:28:42 PM   
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I've always found genital pics from either gender to just be tacky and lame. 



Yeah.....ME too!........... send Me some of yours so I can be sure.

Thanks!


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:31:28 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		You've been here longer than me so perhaps it is just my perception...But I've seen posters made fun of, ignored, their threads hijacked because of their profile picture. Especially if they ask questions that have been asked before.

Butch


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:34:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: kdsub

I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch


I do not know why men display their crotches... I would guess it is for a variety of reasons...

Why am I displaying my chest corseted chest? For a few reasons, but mostly because at 41 I am beginning to feel completely comfortable in my skin, so it is all about me more than it is about those seeing me...  I really am starting to love my body, which is ironic because it is starting to age at the same time I have grown to love it



I think men display their crotch because they dont understand women. They think that becaause they are visual and thats what they want to see, they translate that into thinking that will somehow excite a woman. But they are treating woman as if they are men. This is a mistake and lack of insight.



But then if men don't understand why do women post the same kind of pictures?

Just sign out and see who is showing the most body parts... Now of course that could be the thinking of CM posting what they think men would like... Maybe it is a man picking the pictures to display.

Butch


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:38:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: kdsub

I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch


I do not know why men display their crotches... I would guess it is for a variety of reasons...

Why am I displaying my chest corseted chest? For a few reasons, but mostly because at 41 I am beginning to feel completely comfortable in my skin, so it is all about me more than it is about those seeing me...  I really am starting to love my body, which is ironic because it is starting to age at the same time I have grown to love it



I think men display their crotch because they dont understand women. They think that becaause they are visual and thats what they want to see, they translate that into thinking that will somehow excite a woman. But they are treating woman as if they are men. This is a mistake and lack of insight.



But then if men don't understand why do women post the same kind of pictures?

Just sign out and see who is showing the most body parts... Now of course that could be the thinking of CM posting what they think men would like... Maybe it is a man picking the pictures to display.

Butch


Butch


Because thats what men want. But its not what women want. Get it?

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 5:55:41 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		Not if you read most of the women posting above… they said they posted the pictures they wanted for themselves not to visually attract men.

I guess there are just many conflicting views on this subject.

Butch


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 6:01:39 PM   
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Because thats what men want. But its not what women want. Get it?


Bingo.

Well, I used to think that was true:  Women post nude pics because they know what men want.  Men post nude pics because they don't know what women want.  And I still believe it, to a great degree.

But I read an article wherein they discussed the giant divide between what women say (and believe) they want, and what actually arouses them.  And this thing with men (the propensity to display "cock shots") seems to be so widespread (across age-groups, across cultures) that it's hard to believe that there is no female preference for such a thing. (Well, if you ascribe to the theory of sexual evolution at all, which presupposes that any behavior that is rampant in males, must correlate to a preference in females).






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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 6:05:13 PM   
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Because thats what men want. But its not what women want. Get it?

Not all men want the same thing just as not all women want the same thing. People can only speak for themselves when all is said and done. There are probably more mistruths regarding what men want. A lot of men are well informed about what women want because they make a point of constantly telling us.

I've not asked anyone recently for naked pictures of themselves, actually I can't ever remember making such a request but I get lumped in with everyone else.


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 6:15:39 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		Below is a typical splash screen at sign off... I'd just like you to take note of what type of pictures the different sexes are posting.

I think it makes my point that there is little overall difference between men and women in the reason they post these provocative pictures and tasteless one too.

Butch



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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 7:35:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I see nothing in any of those photos that is "tasteless"

I do think there is a diff between any of those photos and a cock shot...

A cock shot by definition is a photo of a penis with nothing else in it... or at least everything ancillary to the cock... none of those photos, except sister1 (female) could be considered focused on the genitalia... and even in that one it wasn't a close up


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 9:13:32 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		I don't want to use names because it is against tos but there are 4 vagina shots...one bare tit shot… and one legs spread shot...what is different about these and cock shots or hand over cock in underwear?

In fact I think if you scrolled through a few more pages you would find more vagina shots then cocks now days. Most cock shots allowed in main profile shots that I have seen are not just the cock...Now I'm sure in mail you recieve many of the other kind.

I think they are all fine and very telling.

Butch


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 9:22:54 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I told you my definition of a cock shot... which differs drastically with what you consider a crotch shot... so in your universe you win!

I am definitely not going to count all the photos... it is late, and I have the flu...


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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 9:24:07 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		I don't win...we just have a difference of opinion..and I do hope you feel better soon.

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