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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/12/2010 4:32:52 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/12/2010 5:13:28 PM   
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Nope, they put it in balloons and throw them at unsuspecting, fem dom phobic, female submissives.


Teehee if everything I snarked at was the result of a phobia I'd be afraid of everyone I've met, everything I've seen, and most of all, myself.

Seriously, you're calling cum "milk" - that is even funnier than the "cow fetish" where people suck on lactating tits.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/12/2010 5:35:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Elisabella, LaTigresse:

I hate it when women act like schoolgirls.  Do you think the pair of you could possibly arrange to grow the fuck up?

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/12/2010 6:33:11 PM   
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Elisabella, LaTigresse:

I hate it when women act like schoolgirls.  Do you think the pair of you could possibly arrange to grow the fuck up?


Alas, my personal choices are rarely affected by whether someone likes or dislikes me.

That being said I really don't have much more to say about this topic beyond the fly-by snark for the amusement of people who *don't* take themselves too seriously, so I'll go tremble in phobic fear elsewhere. Next up - panic attacks at the misuse of prepositions and why cockshots don't count as "nude photos."

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/12/2010 7:50:18 PM   
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I've already cmailed Diane with advice on how she should properly use her squirting strap-on, DD.  As so often, I've thought: experienced dommes just don't know what they're doing . . . .


LOL ok...

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 7:03:39 AM   
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Elisabella, LaTigresse:

I hate it when women act like schoolgirls.  Do you think the pair of you could possibly arrange to grow the fuck up?



Peon, simply because I am not one of your groupies, fawning over your muscles and constantly flirting with you does not mean I do not see a pot and kettle in your pathetic attempt at 'correcting' my behaviour.

I am as mature and grown up as I wish to be. I have high personal standards and get no negative feedback from the people that are important to me.

If you do not care for my words you are more than free to ignore them.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 7:14:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of course you're one of my groupies, LaT.  Everyone is.  Even I'm one of my groupies.

Fair points, though: sorry to you and Elisabella for butting in, none of my business.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 7:36:20 AM   
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Being made to drink it would be slightly humiliating, I suppose.  Again, if she thought I were being humiliated - all's good . . .

Funny old world, this D/s.  Heh. 



Funny indeed! To be honest, Peon, it can go either way. I know a few boys who are total whores who get off on being milked and/or being made to eat their own cum -- side note, many vanilla relatively dominant men like to eat their own cum, this is a matter of taste.

I don't like when people pretend to be humiliated. If you like it, then tell me you like it. I'll still do it and I'll definitely find something else to humiliate you with, don't you worry ;-)

- LA

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 9:51:45 AM   
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Funny indeed! To be honest, Peon, it can go either way. I know a few boys who are total whores who get off on being milked and/or being made to eat their own cum -- side note, many vanilla relatively dominant men like to eat their own cum, this is a matter of taste.

I don't like when people pretend to be humiliated. If you like it, then tell me you like it. I'll still do it and I'll definitely find something else to humiliate you with, don't you worry ;-)

- LA


Hear hear.

I think one can be genuinely humiliated and turned on at the same. Yet, outside the scope of D/s, where that erotic element is missing, or if one is drawn out of their comfort zone, not so much.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 10:34:32 AM   
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Being made to drink it would be slightly humiliating, I suppose.  Again, if she thought I were being humiliated - all's good . . .

Funny old world, this D/s.  Heh. 



Funny indeed! To be honest, Peon, it can go either way. I know a few boys who are total whores who get off on being milked and/or being made to eat their own cum -- side note, many vanilla relatively dominant men like to eat their own cum, this is a matter of taste.

I don't like when people pretend to be humiliated. If you like it, then tell me you like it. I'll still do it and I'll definitely find something else to humiliate you with, don't you worry ;-)

- LA


No, no, LA - that's not what I'm getting at all.  I couldn't imagine pretending to be humiliated (just as I can't stand the thought of a woman only pretending to dominate me).  The point is, I get a buzz out of her plainly wanting to humiliate me.

As an example: there's one thing - one particular act (and only that) - I always, always love to do, regardless of a partner feels about it.  I kind of hope, though, that for at least a while I can keep a partner guessing what that act is.  That way, she may well demand that I do it in order to humilate me.  It won't humiliate me - but it'll send me into utter raptures just because I know she's wanted to humiliate me. 

She has to feel the right way and I have to know that she does: that's the crucial thing. . . .

Gawd . . .  I don't know if the foregoing makes any sense. 

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 10:52:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Being made to drink it would be slightly humiliating, I suppose.  Again, if she thought I were being humiliated - all's good . . .

Funny old world, this D/s.  Heh. 



Funny indeed! To be honest, Peon, it can go either way. I know a few boys who are total whores who get off on being milked and/or being made to eat their own cum -- side note, many vanilla relatively dominant men like to eat their own cum, this is a matter of taste.

I don't like when people pretend to be humiliated. If you like it, then tell me you like it. I'll still do it and I'll definitely find something else to humiliate you with, don't you worry ;-)

- LA


No, no, LA - that's not what I'm getting at all.  I couldn't imagine pretending to be humiliated (just as I can't stand the thought of a woman only pretending to dominate me).  The point is, I get a buzz out of her plainly wanting to humiliate me.

As an example: there's one thing - one particular act (and only that) - I always, always love to do, regardless of a partner feels about it.  I kind of hope, though, that for at least a while I can keep a partner guessing what that act is.  That way, she may well demand that I do it in order to humilate me.  It won't humiliate me - but it'll send me into utter raptures just because I know she's wanted to humiliate me. 

She has to feel the right way and I have to know that she does: that's the crucial thing. . . .

Gawd . . .  I don't know if the foregoing makes any sense. 


It does make sense. Just as some people get off on being humiliated, others get off on humiliating. And it isn't all black and white neither.

The fact that you are concerned with turning her on is hot. The thing is always in the discussion afterwards and how things are perceived. As long as you don't let her feeling duped afterwards, I can see how this could work well. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this...

- LA


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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:08:42 AM   
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I can see how this could work well. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this...
- LA


Actually, so am I.  I've just realised that my example - of my 'one favourite act' does, pretty much, seem to prove that I want to pretend.  Doh! 

I'll try again.  It's like this:  I need, most of all, to know that she's enjoying dominating - whatever thing she's doing, or whatever she gets me to do.  It's all about her motive.  I need to be able to look at her face (or hear it in her voice, her moans, her breathing; or feel it in her muscles) that's she's getting off on dominating me.  Whatever my feelings are, are secondary.  That's the whole point.

Pfft.  Maybe it's my inexperience speaking.  Too many vanilla GFs in the past who've pretended, then, at the end, saying nervously, 'Did you enjoy that?'  - then, my suddenly feeling quite depressed and thinking, 'Yes, I did enjoy it - till you asked that question'.  I can't have anybody dominating me just as a 'favour' to me, either. 

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:17:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		 . . . .  I have to know that she's being selfish. 

Maybe that says it best.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:19:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		re 'dommely buzz':

Those of us who love milking out a sub do so, I suppose, because men are so very hardwired to control and constantly produce their own ejaculations.

During a long period of lockdown, where a sub cannot jack off anytime he wants, there is a perverse satisfaction of just milking out his ejacualte in a leaky 'ooze' rather than the usual male habit of thrusting or wanking his way to liquid, projectile ejaculate release.

Yes, milking usually feels good, and yes, the occasional sub can have a prolonged orgasm from it, but generally the sub is left feeling as though something is 'missing', especially if the milking is followed by a session where he can't orgasm or ejaculate.

It's a sadistic high to turn the tables on a man who is usually oversexed and who is, generally speaking, pathetically obsessed with getting is own rocks off in every day life.

It provides Us with a deeply satisfying psychological 'giggle'.

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:21:04 AM   
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I'll try again. It's like this: I need, most of all, to know that she's enjoying dominating - whatever thing she's doing, or whatever she gets me to do. It's all about her motive. I need to be able to look at her face (or hear it in her voice, her moans, her breathing; or feel it in her muscles) that's she's getting off on dominating me. Whatever my feelings are, are secondary. That's the whole point.


That's actually really hot!

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. . . .  I have to know that she's being selfish. 

Maybe that says it best.

And the thing is, she is giving you want you want too, so it isn't as selfish as it seems.

- LA


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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:41:39 AM   
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I'll try again. It's like this: I need, most of all, to know that she's enjoying dominating - whatever thing she's doing, or whatever she gets me to do. It's all about her motive. I need to be able to look at her face (or hear it in her voice, her moans, her breathing; or feel it in her muscles) that's she's getting off on dominating me. Whatever my feelings are, are secondary. That's the whole point.


That's actually really hot!

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

. . . .  I have to know that she's being selfish. 

Maybe that says it best.

And the thing is, she is giving you want you want too, so it isn't as selfish as it seems.

- LA



Heh.  I just hope that, soon, some good woman will be generous enough to be selfish with me. 

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:45:18 AM   
PeonForHer


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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:47:48 AM   
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Yes, well, manbashing is a thing of mine.

; )

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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 11:56:00 AM   
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OK, OK, that's enough - I've only just finished cleaning my screen from yesterday.


Then this topic is sort of a method of milking then, eh P? 


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RE: When Milking Your Sub.... - 2/13/2010 12:39:39 PM   
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OK, OK, that's enough - I've only just finished cleaning my screen from yesterday.


Then this topic is sort of a method of milking then, eh P? 



Doesn't that make him a self-indulgent boy? ;-)

- LA


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