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ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:05:23 PM   
strongdommac


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Status: offline 		Good Day to all. I have been on and off CM for a few years and I have one general question. Am I the ONLY person who believes that True Affectionate Passionate Romance can be well entwined within this lifestyle? This life style is FAR more then about pounding rough face slapping disrespectful sex and/or fucking....I am a Strong Intelligent TRUE Dom Gentleman but also possess a Very Old fashion Hopeless Romantic nature....So any Submissive Women out there anywhere seeking that or am I chasing a dream.
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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:09:52 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Yes, some submissives believe that romance accompanies this lifestyle.

However, it is not for you to call the rough face slapping sex and fucking that we like "disrespectful". Some of us feel respected getting this since that is what we sign up for as part of our relationships, along with the affection, romance, passion, etc.

You can have a combination of the all of the above, should you be lucky enough to find it.

But your ONE TRUE WAY thing is not going to be popular here.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:10:18 PM   
EbonyWood


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Status: offline 		Yes, everyone else believes Romance is overrated.
 
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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:13:31 PM   
AnimusRex


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quote:

ORIGINAL: strongdommac
This life style is FAR more then about pounding rough face slapping disrespectful sex and/or fucking....


You chase the dream.


I will chase the pounding rough face slapping disrespectful sex and/or fucking.

Especially the sex and/or fucking. God, how I love the disrespectful sex and/or fucking.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:16:01 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		When HM and I first decided to be together, He told me we would have something special and a bit unusual. I would not only be His slave, but also His girlfriend. We've been together four years now.

It's been special alright.

*lol*

Seriously though, your post reads like an ad, actually. When it's meant to be the right one will come along. In the meantime, why not hang out and learn a bit?

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:21:00 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		this TRUE domme/dom or TRUE sub/slave...is this an acronym for something?  is it a club?  I keep seeing it...I know it can't be the obvious meaning of the word true because that just wouldn't make any sense.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:22:56 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

Especially the sex and/or fucking. God, how I love the disrespectful sex and/or fucking.


See... there is love in that situation. The best kind of love. The love that pulls me around by my hair.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:23:55 PM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

this TRUE domme/dom or TRUE sub/slave...is this an acronym for something?  is it a club?  I keep seeing it...I know it can't be the obvious meaning of the word true because that just wouldn't make any sense.


Oh, you know what it means, DrkJourney. With the daily influx of new forumites who post the same variation on the theme of real, not real, fake, true this, true that, it is not an acronym as much as a cry of frustration and rejection.

Better to rail at the world than to look and see what they might be doing wrong or heaven forbid, being patient.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:31:41 PM   
Kalista07


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I'm not going to feed into the obvious 'lose-lose' battle of the posters before me. What I will tell you is in your future posts, should you chose to stay around and make any more, you might want to think more carefully and chose your words better. I get what you are asking. I think the real question you are asking is "Is it possible to have both D/s or M/s and romance" and the answer to that question is a very simple yes.
I would caution you to stick around and spend some time reading the boards to get a feel for where to post, how to post, who's feedback to buy into ..... those types of things.
Kali


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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:42:03 PM   
xxblushesxx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalista07

OP
I'm not going to feed into the obvious 'lose-lose' battle of the posters before me. What I will tell you is in your future posts, should you chose to stay around and make any more, you might want to think more carefully and chose your words better. I get what you are asking. I think the real question you are asking is "Is it possible to have both D/s or M/s and romance" and the answer to that question is a very simple yes.
I would caution you to stick around and spend some time reading the boards to get a feel for where to post, how to post, who's feedback to buy into ..... those types of things.
Kali



Hey now...my answer was not a lose/lose. I acutally answered and shared my experience with him.
Now I *did* say that his question was a bit...possibly...(looks around for cm police) disingenuous...but it was!

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:44:55 PM   
AquaticSub


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OP, there are, indeed, many, many, many people who truly love their owners/pets/masters/slaves/doms/subs/etcs on this board. And I think that you will very much be able to find what you are looking for, though it will probably take some time.

I do suggest that you avoid using the words "real" and "true" in the future though.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:45:06 PM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		You are right Miss Blushes. You were on very very extra special nice behavior tonight.  

j/k ....  I have to get your attention one way or another... If this is how I have to do it I'll do what I have to.

Kali
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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:49:59 PM   
EbonyWood


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The 'right' answer won't enlighten the OP.
 
It was an ad.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:59:42 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		1.) Yes, you are the ONLY one who believes as you do. The rest of us are just here for the disrespectful sex. YAY!

2.) This is not the place for your personal ad. Your profile is the proper place for it.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 9:59:55 PM   
Kalista07


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Scorn is a good teacher.
 
The 'right' answer won't enlighten the OP.
 
It was an ad.



Well Hot Dayum....

Why didn't ya tell me I get to start Scorning people when they screw up?
This is almost better then the smiting power I've been asking for!!
Thanks!!
You Rock!!
Kali



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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 10:06:32 PM   
EbonyWood


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Status: offline 		Smiting is fun too. Yay!!!
 
And, you're welcome.

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 10:08:14 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalista07

quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Scorn is a good teacher.
 
The 'right' answer won't enlighten the OP.
 
It was an ad.



Well Hot Dayum....

Why didn't ya tell me I get to start Scorning people when they screw up?
This is almost better then the smiting power I've been asking for!!
Thanks!!
You Rock!!
Kali





Wait, hold on-


We can scorn and smite?!

YAY! 

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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 10:12:35 PM   
Kalista07


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Wait, hold on-


We can scorn and smite?!

YAY! 


Hey  Hey Hey.......

Hold on a minute....
There's no WE here...
It's ME...
I have scorning and smiting powers....

All requests for scorning and smiting may be submitted and will be considered.

Kali


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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 10:19:36 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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RE: ROMANCE AND THE LIFESTYLE - 2/13/2010 10:30:51 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

I am a Strong Intelligent TRUE Dom Gentleman but also possess a Very Old fashion Hopeless Romantic nature....So any Submissive Women out there anywhere seeking that or am I chasing a dream.



You and about 200 other emails I have received... do you know that is like the most common line on here? "I am the true romantic dominant that will take care of you, have Knight in White Armor fetish and want you to be my damsel is distress! Act now, and I will through in chivalry for free, but this is a limited time offer"

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 2/13/2010 10:31:24 PM >

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