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RE: I need ideas to become a better sub - 2/15/2010 8:09:15 AM

Wolf2Bear

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Shocking ain't it LOL Hell, that'll never happen...I'll leave all that domily stuff to you guys! I just like to switch it up sometimes. *grinz* I mean...why do you think I like to hang out here, great place to learn what not to do hahahahahaha

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RE: I need ideas to become a better sub - 2/19/2010 11:14:09 PM

leadership527

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submit more.

Honestly, to me all the business about "how to pamper and serve" is so much meaningless crap. When I look at Carol and decide she has become either better or worse, what I'm looking at is how pliable she is, inside and out. I'm looking to see how many boundaries I'm running into and how hard they are to move. For me, this has more to do with "life" than it does massages. For instance, let's assume she wants to be a woodworker doing studio furniture and I want her to do finish carpentry. Or, maybe I want her to lose some weight or stop smoking or whatever. I consider her performance excellent when there either are no boundaries or whatever boundaries we come across move so fluidly that I barely notice them. I take the external obedience as a given. I'm more interested in what's going on inside her head.

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RE: I need ideas to become a better sub - 2/19/2010 11:15:22 PM

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Buying him his own island is a good start.

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RE: I need ideas to become a better sub - 2/19/2010 11:36:51 PM

Justme696

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That depends on if the Dominate is a Male or Female

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BAck to the question..
A "better" sub is for me simply is someone who tries to improve herself all the time.
Can you make some one better? Only when they want. The break stuff is crap.
So guide and advise as good as possible. She either picks it up..or not.

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