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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/18/2010 3:25:59 PM

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I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/18/2010 3:38:43 PM

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Excellent.

Good man.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/18/2010 4:10:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

I agree with Jeff here.

My Daddy always told me...."Son, you can fall in love with a rich woman just as easily as you can fall in love with a poor one".

(I only use "Daddy" in vernacular when I'm in Texas, which I am. Excuse me....I have a small single engine plane to fly....gotta go...anyone have any matches?).

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 6:24:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

I agree with Jeff here.

My Daddy always told me...."Son, you can fall in love with a rich woman just as easily as you can fall in love with a poor one".

(I only use "Daddy" in vernacular when I'm in Texas, which I am. Excuse me....I have a small single engine plane to fly....gotta go...anyone have any matches?).

Says the powerless boys with the most Pussy envy!!!

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 6:26:01 AM

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I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

crosses Jeff off the list hehe

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 9:23:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsHValentine

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

I agree with Jeff here.

My Daddy always told me...."Son, you can fall in love with a rich woman just as easily as you can fall in love with a poor one".

(I only use "Daddy" in vernacular when I'm in Texas, which I am. Excuse me....I have a small single engine plane to fly....gotta go...anyone have any matches?).

Says the powerless boys with the most Pussy envy!!!

Obviously you know neither of the men who spoke here!

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 11:01:54 AM

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It depends. If you are reasonably sure she is real, and if the initial tribute is small, go for it. I was contacted by a man overseas who expressed admiration for Ms. Mlicious' pics. He asked if she would do some others as well as video for him. I told him that she would consider it if he got one of the less expensive items for her from her amazon.com tribute list, just to show sincerity. He bought one of the mid range items, a pair of shoes. Because of that, Ms. Mlicious allowed me to send him several pics and videos. He has made other tributes since then. He is now one of her registered slaves on the OWK site. And he will be coming to visit her soon.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 11:40:08 AM

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Obviously you know neither of the men who spoke here!

I thought the same thing when I read her post.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/19/2010 11:46:56 AM

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Advance tribute?The thing with the rental of the space sounds ok but Ive been a pro and I didnt advance,(I had to LMAO at the car crash thing,Ive heard it SO many times) tribute but I would double book like it wasa no thing!Drs and dentists do it all the time,and I also found it a good way to intro subs to male or bi interaction.Tributes in general? Someone brings me and my room mate flowers every week weather they have a session or not,and yes it does brighten the day,But we also have someone that has been trying to get a session for years that is disabled and can not do much,we love him dearly and he takes our garbage out to the curb every week and brings them back after pick up,for this he happily e-mails us pics of himself in different panties,we love it!

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/20/2010 8:21:09 AM

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What is wrong with giving a Domme a gift? NOTHING!
I detest cheap men.

True, nothing wrong with gifts. However, gifts are given freely and voluntarily, on the giver's initiative. Required tributes have very little in common with gifts, and are more akin to fees. That's what really sucks about requiring tribute: it takes an act of joy and generosity and corrupts it into a business transaction.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/20/2010 3:01:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: MsHValentine

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

I agree with Jeff here.

My Daddy always told me...."Son, you can fall in love with a rich woman just as easily as you can fall in love with a poor one".

(I only use "Daddy" in vernacular when I'm in Texas, which I am. Excuse me....I have a small single engine plane to fly....gotta go...anyone have any matches?).

Says the powerless boys with the most Pussy envy!!!

Obviously you know neither of the men who spoke here!

Indeed.

Call da ambolance....he a-leakin.

(Opah know sumpin about dis).

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/20/2010 3:35:49 PM

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Financial Tribute . No. Service tribute, offering to clean house or cook for Lady. Possibly depending on the distance. Mileage will vary in each person's situation
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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/21/2010 12:55:02 PM

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Presuming you're not talking about a prodomme, but say, someone like me who is seriously looking for a sub to marry, rely on tradition. Whether I'm meeting you for coffee to talk about our possibly developing a relationship, or I'm meeting you for coffee to talk about a totally vanilla business deal where no one expects our relationship to go farther than shaking hands, the man should still buy the woman a coffee. If you are a prospective mate, you should also show up with flowers. Second date? flowers and chocolate, and expect to buy me dinner. Date to celebrate our anniversary? Buy me a mink coat or diamonds. That's how it works in the vanilla world according to tradition, and there's no reason it shouldn't apply to the lifestyle community too.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/21/2010 1:02:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: slavekal

It depends. If you are reasonably sure she is real, and if the initial tribute is small, go for it. I was contacted by a man overseas who expressed admiration for Ms. Mlicious' pics. He asked if she would do some others as well as video for him. I told him that she would consider it if he got one of the less expensive items for her from her amazon.com tribute list, just to show sincerity. He bought one of the mid range items, a pair of shoes. Because of that, Ms. Mlicious allowed me to send him several pics and videos. He has made other tributes since then. He is now one of her registered slaves on the OWK site. And he will be coming to visit her soon.

That is so touching. It explains it all right there.

What was contained in the video that she sent some stranger that bought her shoes?

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/21/2010 1:33:45 PM

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I do no accept any gifts from men who I am not intimately involved with or know very well.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/21/2010 1:35:37 PM

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After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/21/2010 4:08:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I think women should pay all the time. After all, they DO receive the gift of the penis.

Jeff

Indeed Jeff, and I have heard it doesnt need to be a big gift, as it`s the thought that counts.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/22/2010 4:28:12 AM

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I Wubs you, Politesub!

Demanding Tribute is just not cool in my book. It tends to make men feel like they Bought you, now you Owe them something. As Kal mentioned, a gift freely given from a kind heart is a thing of joy.

My dear Wall-e likes to send shoes. He has a foot fetish, so it's actually quite self serving for him to do that. But he does it in such a sweet and charming way that he wins a great deal of favor in my eye for doing so. He likes photos of me in the shoes that he bought. Of course, he likes photos of me in shoes that OTHERS bought as well. Bear likes to send me shoes - and other things - because we like each other. We exchange Christmas gifts and other things throughout the year.

About a year ago, I was having so much fun with Wall-e and Bear sending me shoes, and others asking "What can I do for you?" I went to my favorite shoe website and filled out a rather long list of shoes that I wanted and posted in my journal that boys could buy me birthday gifts from that list. BIG MISTAKE! A few who had barely spoken to me prior to this sent gifts (or CLAIMED that they sent shoes that never arrived) then started making demands on my time and attentions. They started getting overly familiar very quickly. I don't like giving a sub the feeling that a cheap pair of shoes will buy their way into my heart.

A gift is an expression of kindness, thoughtfulness and respect from another person. A tribute feels more like an obligation to both the sender and the receiver.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/22/2010 5:34:46 AM

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Who the hell cares about tribute. Just send me the dog and we'll call it even.

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RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? - 2/22/2010 7:27:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

What is wrong with giving a Domme a gift? NOTHING!
I detest cheap men.

True, nothing wrong with gifts. However, gifts are given freely and voluntarily, on the giver's initiative. Required tributes have very little in common with gifts, and are more akin to fees. That's what really sucks about requiring tribute: it takes an act of joy and generosity and corrupts it into a business transaction.

Unfortunately, I (and I'll bet many women, Dominant or otherwise) meet too few men who know that a gift is a gesture of appreciation for my presence and have to be prodded to do something that, not so long ago, was de rigueur.

When I first started out, I, too, allowed men to come to me, made a lot of effort to provide an enjoyable experience for *them* and got bupkiss, in return (phonetically correctly spelled Yiddish word). Feeling ill-used, perhaps deliberately by the calculating, perhaps accidentally by the ill-informed, I changed my tactics from *hoping* to receive a token of appreciation, to very clearly stating what would be acceptable.

While it does take out some of the spontaneity, it helps me determine who is going to appreciate me and who is going to simply drain my energies. Simply put, it's a winnowing tool.

The submissive man who knows the value of a gift unasked (be it a nice dinner out, home-cooked meal, sparkly piece of jewelry, cleaning my apartment, fun toy we can both enjoy, or what have you) gets serious Brownie points with me. But, the one who accepts my guidance gets some consideration, too. For me, it's not about the amount of money spent (I see working-class fellas, too), it's about the intelligence to make the effort.
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