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lobodomslavery -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:12:51 AM)
I think you need to adjust your expectations and think in real life reality. Getting a man to pay for your date is all very well but have you considered that he may not have the means to pay for your date, he may only have the means to pay his own way. No I know I guess that means he is not a date. Well because he has not the means to afford you. I get the drill. Your the same as the others Good luck Kevin

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:19:07 AM)
Kevin, You can't afford to go out if all you can do is afford the bill and not the tip. You can't afford a date if you can only pay for yourself. These are universal rules. If you can't afford the date then try focusing on getting the means to do so. Show some motivation and some drive. It might get you somewhere. You are a dime a dozen (a few hundred dozen actually). If you want to get noticed, you're gonna have to do more than just the bottom line. This is true in the work place and in any interpersonal relationship. Get used to it and stop being a lazy ass. Yes, this means you're gonna have to do more than stick a tooth under your pillow to get a dollar and that shiny star was a satellite. Now grow up. boi

PrincessDonna -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:27:53 AM)
When I do face to face interviews I tell the sub to bring 2 rolls of quarters with him,in the first place it is not as easy to get quarters as it used to be so that shows me they put effort into doing that,I tell them at the interview that they may ask all the questions they need answered,reveal their kinks etc and at the end of the interview niether one of us will feel our time has been wasted as I will have the quarters for parking(someone should do something about THAT its robbery) and they have the chance to back out right then if they think its a scam,their choice.I go on during the interview to explain that wrapped in a condom a roll of quarters makes a very good butt plug,enters easy and past muscle and exits easy with push.That way I dont even get into the mood to whine that someone has wasted my time.

mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:32:59 AM)
quote: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? if it's monetary...i vote "NOT". there's other ways of showing tribute without supporting a DOMME that would rather not work

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:35:27 AM)
If you think that the reasons Dommes may ask for a monetary tribute is because they'd rather not work, then you don't know many Dommes. boi

lobodomslavery -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:36:29 AM)
Im with Mikey of Georgia. Tribute a Domme . No way. Why does She not do a real job. She s nothing special. Dommes should go out and work or try and find work like the rest of us or sign on the dole. But looking for Tribute. I run a million miles from those Kevin

lobodomslavery -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:37:56 AM)
Do you know why it is Boi Jen. ? Pure and utter greed. They even say they are greedy. No Lady who has any respect for anyone would demand tribute from anyone, unless they are seriously hard up which they are not Kevin

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 10:41:21 AM)
And there it is...from a "submissive" who is "searching" doesn't think a Dommes is anyone special... Thank you, Kevin, for proving SO much in such a short statement. boi

Politesub53 -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 11:24:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia quote: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? if it's monetary...i vote "NOT". there's other ways of showing tribute without supporting a DOMME that would rather not work Shakes head in dismay. Mikey, admittedly I am guessing, but being a pro Domme takes effort and knowhow. Equipment, that you hope gets used on YOU, costs money to purchase and maintain. If its not your thing then fine, but think about what you are actually saying.

mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 11:43:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 quote: ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia quote: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? if it's monetary...i vote "NOT". there's other ways of showing tribute without supporting a DOMME that would rather not work Shakes head in dismay. Mikey, admittedly I am guessing, but being a pro Domme takes effort and knowhow. Equipment, that you hope gets used on YOU, costs money to purchase and maintain. If its not your thing then fine, but think about what you are actually saying. since i'm simply a service sub, i doubt i'll have any contact with any equipment or such activities.

mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 11:47:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen And there it is...from a "submissive" who is "searching" doesn't think a Dommes is anyone special... Thank you, Kevin, for proving SO much in such a short statement. boi unlike Kevin, i do believe a Mistress is someone special (at least those that are serious about a long-term relationship with a sub/slave. it's one thing to assist in paying for household expenses...it's entirely different to just up and "give" a Mistress money, just because She says so. Also, it's one thing to buy Her gifts or aid in getting Her something She needs, rather than "giving" Her money on Her say so.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 11:52:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery I think you need to adjust your expectations and think in real life reality. This is the part you keep not getting, Kevin. Believe me, if we felt weren't getting enough subs, we might think about 'lowering our standards' (a phrase you used in another thread)-but we don't have to. There are enough amazing subs around that we can ignore anyone not up to those 'standards', whatever they might be, and still not have to go without. I don't ask for tribute (I'm a penniless student, I have no problem with penniless students...), but the women who do aren't struggling to find men. They can and will continue to do whatever they please with regard to requesting tributes-they aren't going to lower their standards just because you feel they are unreasonable...

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 11:59:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia unlike Kevin, i do believe a Mistress is someone special (at least those that are serious about a long-term relationship with a sub/slave. it's one thing to assist in paying for household expenses...it's entirely different to just up and "give" a Mistress money, just because She says so. Also, it's one thing to buy Her gifts or aid in getting Her something She needs, rather than "giving" Her money on Her say so. And what's the difference?

LadyPact -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 12:25:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious Believe me, if we felt weren't getting enough subs, we might think about 'lowering our standards' (a phrase you used in another thread)-but we don't have to. There are enough amazing subs around that we can ignore anyone not up to those 'standards', whatever they might be, and still not have to go without. Quoted for truth. Even in saying quoted for truth, I almost feel like an idiot for saying it, because it is so obvious. I won't speak for anybody else, but I'm not settling for hamburger when I've got prime rib. Sure, you could survive on it, but when you know there's better out there, why in the world would you want to?

lobodomslavery -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 12:45:47 PM)
I should clarify. Women are special thats why we enjoy their company every day and a Mistress is especially special. And yes gifts to a Woman because she needs it, no problem, but gifts because She wants and on demand. Totally different story and for me a no. But mileage will vary as in all things. Kevin

mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 1:13:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen quote: ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia unlike Kevin, i do believe a Mistress is someone special (at least those that are serious about a long-term relationship with a sub/slave. it's one thing to assist in paying for household expenses...it's entirely different to just up and "give" a Mistress money, just because She says so. Also, it's one thing to buy Her gifts or aid in getting Her something She needs, rather than "giving" Her money on Her say so. And what's the difference? the difference is that the Mistress would not be depending solely on the sub for support, that it would be a mutually advantageous union. they could both have a regular job not some Mistress sitting around just waiting, like some vulture, for her next meat wagon to arrive.

lobodomslavery -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 1:21:26 PM)
Agreed Kevin

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 2:08:25 PM)
Kevin, shut up, you're not helping anything here. Mikey, What makes you think that Dommes who do require monetary tribute don't have day jobs and are sitting around just waiting for some s-type who shits golden coins? I mean seriously. Do you really think these women have nothing better to do than filter out who's jerking them around or wasting their time or simply looking for enough of a hint of kink to jack off to without any consideration to going to work and paying their current bills on their own? Do you really believe that the ONLY way a Domme would state that tribute would need to be monetary is if she were hard up? You don't get it. Most individuals...not just men but most individuals regardless of sexuality or gender identity hold a tighter reign on their wallets than anything else in their lives. You can't understand why asking for a monetary investment into a Domme's time would be not only thrilling but motivating? Let's put it this way, if it weren't for monetary tributes, the pool of women interested in continuing to deal time wasters would be drastically lower and would greatly decrease the chances of sincere individuals to approach them no matter how strong their natural inclination to Dominate because they'd be burnt out without a primary means of filtering and getting something for their troubles. Thank the Women who require monetary tribute, they're the reason a lot of guys searching the internet alone actually ahve a chance at finding a relationship. boi

mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 2:24:16 PM)
@ $3.99 a minute (or more) LOL

BoiJen -> RE: To Tribute or not to Tribute tis the question? (2/22/2010 2:26:24 PM)
And you think those are the only women who identify as Dommes asking for cash tribute?

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