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ORIGINAL: BLoved

296, 313, 15, 16

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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Psychological Impacts Not Found for Casual Sex Among Young Adults ScienceDaily (Dec. 9, 2009) — University of Minnesota Project Eating Among Teens (EAT) researchers have found that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes as compared to sexually active young adults in more committed relationships. While this study focused on the psychological impact, researchers caution that the physical risks of casual sex should not be overlooked.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/12/091208132730.htm

This was brought to my attention by hopelessfool on pg. 15, post 296.

I responded pg. 16, post 313.

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
Start a thread on something else.

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
And yet, where is the better research that shows the findings here to be incorrect? You can attack another researchers work all day, but you have no contrary findings to support your position.... just personal opinion...

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I do social science research for a living.... and I have to tell you that people have been having casual sex since the dawn of time, reproduction of the species, etc... now I will say that yes, casual sex and casual BSDM can be harmful for those who tie their emotionality to it. I am not necessarily an advocate for casual BDSM or sex, but saying it is emotionally damaging for those who do it without a shred of evidence, well that is just silly unsubstantiated opinion without any basis in reality.

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Now you can spew your opinion all day and all night, it doesn't change the fact that it is an opinion that is no more valid than mine, except I have Kinsey and other researchers to substantiate my position that sexuality is an individual thing and different people have different intimacy needs based upon culture and their own uniqueness...

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When you can pony up something other than your opinion I may take you seriously, but I seriously doubt you will... kinky people have faced persecution from far more erudite individuals than yourself who claimed we were damaged for doing this in committed relationships.. their opinions are being regularly debunked too

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
Writing a biography on your dead wife and child is not creative and shows that you are stuck. I think therapy is needed and maybe some extra cirricular activities and a grief group might help. But your writing is the same train of thought that leads us all believe you only have one mode and thought you work with. If this is the case, you will stay alone.

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
Writing a biography on your dead wife and child is not creative and shows that you are stuck. I think therapy is needed and maybe some extra cirricular activities and a grief group might help. But your writing is the same train of thought that leads us all believe you only have one mode and thought you work with. If this is the case, you will stay alone.

~smile~

Don't give up the day job ;)

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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

Pity,this one is much more apropriate to this thread.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nll8-kSlq6c

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Your unwillingness to consider other points of view, your absolute black and white thinking, picking and choosing only arguments you think you can win and not answering the tough questions, and your twisting words that people have said is decidedly IMMATURE

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
And Bob...MY day job is a licensed psychotherapist.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

yeah, but I guess by that definition almost everyone who has posted on this thread qualifies as insane... bobbykins for being so intractable, the rest of us for trying to change his petrified mind.

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ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666
Were you on MDS? Bloved