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mnottertail -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:11:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly If you have someone who is emotionally damaged to begin with, they are not going to experience a cathartic healing via bondage. And casual players don't bother finding out if someone is emotionally damaged beforehand or not. No-strings-attached one-night stands do not lend themselves to uncovering this kind of information. Listen Bob...if i want to play casually i am not going to sit their ass down and assess their emotionally stability. Not my job. I will not assume responsibility for the emotional well being of another under those circumstances. This is why it is called CASUAL play. If they are that fucked up then they need to keep their ass out of the line of fire. (hop into the nearest foxhole Bob) You are handing out alotta 'ass' there, holly. Ron

Jeffff -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:12:05 AM)
June?.. I am soft and kind and warm...... can I get a mercy fuck? Ward

LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:12:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved And who is concerned about the emotional state of their partner in a no-strings-attached scenario? Well, I am, for one. I'm very public on these boards about the fact that if it didn't work for us, we wouldn't be doing it anymore. quote: Who worries about whether they are emotionally damaging to another during a one-night stand? Where's the one night stand part? You're projecting. quote: Who follows-up to see if they've damaged a virtual stranger, and who expects to know the difference with someone they barely know? Believe it or not, some of us still go through the process of checking up on the people we play with. quote: In what way does it enhance your existing relationship to use others for your own pleasure? In what way can someone take pride in your choices when the people you use don't matter? Again, you are projecting. No where did I say that the people that I play with casually don't matter. Some of them have been friends of Mine for years. quote: In what way are you showing your existing relationships that what you give them has value to you when you give it to virtual strangers for nothing more than a cheap thrill? That probably has a lot to do with the fact that My love and loyalty to My husband is displayed in other ways, rather than what is expressed through BDSM. There are things that I do in our equality based relationship that aren't expressed in casual S/m play.

mnottertail -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:12:40 AM)
A legend returns? I been back for awhile, what's the big fuckin' deal? Ron

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:13:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Listen Bob...if i want to play casually i am not going to sit their ass down and assess their emotionally stability. Not my job. I will not assume responsibility for the emotional well being of another under those circumstances. This is why it is called CASUAL play. If they are that fucked up then they need to keep their ass out of the line of fire. I agree they should not be involved in bdsm. The fact is casual players continue to involve them in bdsm with no more of an excuse than you've provided. And thus the damage is done. Unfortunately it is quite rare for a casual player to admit he/she doesn't care about the emotional state of the people they use. More people should be made aware of this fact.

sirsholly -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:13:31 AM)
quote: So actually what you are really asserting is that casual sex is not emotionally safe. that is Bob's smokescreen cause he can't get laid. Rather than saying "I am an asshole (a prick, a dildo with a pulse, a putz, oh Lord someone stop me!!)...as i was saying...rather than admit he is too much of a imbecilic dolt to get laid...he simply deems it dangerous.

LaTigresse -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:14:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff June?.. I am soft and kind and warm...... can I get a mercy fuck? Ward Probably, in Vegas. Cuz yanno, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Dino

GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:14:54 AM)
sobs he STILL has ignored my post yawn ETA: LaT.. I wasnt thinking sharp sticks in tender parts.. I was thinking more along the lines of electro-play, at the highest setting.

mnottertail -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:16:14 AM)
I assume it is due to your casual dress, and casual stance. Ron

lusciouslips19 -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:16:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Listen Bob...if i want to play casually i am not going to sit their ass down and assess their emotionally stability. Not my job. I will not assume responsibility for the emotional well being of another under those circumstances. This is why it is called CASUAL play. If they are that fucked up then they need to keep their ass out of the line of fire. I agree they should not be involved in bdsm. The fact is casual players continue to involve them in bdsm with no more of an excuse than you've provided. And thus the damage is done. Unfortunately it is quite rare for a casual player to admit he/she doesn't care about the emotional state of the people they use. More people should be made aware of this fact. There are those who take advantage. But they are not lifestylers. They are predators that use this lifestyle as a cover for being predators. Though you can find them everywhere including church.

sirsholly -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:16:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly If you have someone who is emotionally damaged to begin with, they are not going to experience a cathartic healing via bondage. And casual players don't bother finding out if someone is emotionally damaged beforehand or not. No-strings-attached one-night stands do not lend themselves to uncovering this kind of information. Listen Bob...if i want to play casually i am not going to sit their ass down and assess their emotionally stability. Not my job. I will not assume responsibility for the emotional well being of another under those circumstances. This is why it is called CASUAL play. If they are that fucked up then they need to keep their ass out of the line of fire. (hop into the nearest foxhole Bob) You are handing out alotta 'ass' there, holly. Ron [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] only you would pick up on that, Ron. Well...you and Jeffffffff

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:17:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved Who follows-up to see if they've damaged a virtual stranger, and who expects to know the difference with someone they barely know? Believe it or not, some of us still go through the process of checking up on the people we play with. quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Listen Bob...if i want to play casually i am not going to sit their ass down and assess their emotionally stability. Not my job. I will not assume responsibility for the emotional well being of another under those circumstances. This is why it is called CASUAL play. If they are that fucked up then they need to keep their ass out of the line of fire. And some don't.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:17:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop sobs he STILL has ignored my post yawn ETA: LaT.. I wasnt thinking sharp sticks in tender parts.. I was thinking more along the lines of electro-play, at the highest setting. Hes ignored a few of mine too. He wont present his analysis and he also wont tell me what other topics he discusses or what hobbies he has.

Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:18:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear You see bloved, I have no fear of my friendships being threatened because of what I do or what I think...because I make damn wise choices to who my friends are. As do I, Bear. If you find the implications of a different bdsm paradigm disturbing for you, you are free to ignore them. Sorry mate but that isn't good enough.

GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:19:04 AM)
but, Lushy.. at least he's responded to you at all! it's like I'm invisible!!! sobs my heart is broken! He's emotionally damaged me!

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:19:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 There are those who take advantage. But they are not lifestylers. They are predators that use this lifestyle as a cover for being predators. Though you can find them everywhere including church. You can call them whatever you wish, the fact remains that casual players do not concern themselves with the well-being of anyone but themselves. That is the nature of their game. If they cared, the relationship would be de facto Love-based, not Lust-based.

GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:21:21 AM)
one trick pony.

LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:21:41 AM)
HEY! GT, you can help Me here. Let's say, just for shits and giggles, that you would have been able to make the trip out here a couple of months back AND you would have had the consent of your husband to play. And, let's say that during that play, I spanked you, paddled you, flogged you, and we engaged in all kinds of lovely play activities that produced the chemical reaction of endorphins flooding the pleasure receptors in our brains so as to induce what is commonly known as 'space'. This, of course, only being after we have done pre-scene negotiations, where I ask you of your medical history for any potential issues that I may have to watch out for during our time together. Let's also not forget about post scene after care, as well as checking up on you a day or two later, ensuring that you were not experiencing drop and so on. Give your honest assessment. Do you think that's damaging or do you think it sounds like a hell of a lot of fun?

LaTigresse -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:21:47 AM)
Now that I think about this.... bobby says we are all such horrible people but he comes back to us......he cannot stay away from us...... I think he secretly wants to be more like us.......but his personal hangups will not allow him. I bet Domiguy is bobby's hero. Put aside your puritanical upbringing bobby.............come over to the dark side!

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:21:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop he STILL has ignored my post Hes ignored a few of mine too. He wont present his analysis and he also wont tell me what other topics he discusses or what hobbies he has. lol There is only one of me and there is a mob of people who want my attention. The life of a legend is not always easy ;)

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