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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/22/2010 1:27:54 AM)
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Pondering Deep Serious Thoughts
I've been trying to give this topic some interesting deep serious thought. Setting aside the blanket humor. I had blurted out a somewhat rather almost truthful comment about pussy spanking previously. Sure, it might not apply to everybody, but it does for a hell of a lot.
I'm going to attempt to step outside the normal BDSM scene play box for a moment, because often when we think of S&M it's related to the context of scene play or the Heavy engagement of an S&M activitity. Now For the Hell of it, call this concept I'm about to present - S&M light or extra light.
There is no Argument that pain is pain. No argument that there a wide range in the intensity pain experienced. Normally when the word "Hurt" or "pain" is tossed around on the boards, we tend to think of it in the more extreme intensity levels. If you start to think of the sensation of lesser intensity levels of pain, reaching down lower until you mentally can relate to comfortable playful levels of pain. Playful, not being scene play per se, just the kind of pain that one can associate with playing around with one another.
There tends to be an acceptable limit for most people for pain when engaging in playful activities with one another. Lions and Tigers and Bears. What areas of Dark thoughts I'm provoking here. After all even light pain is pain.
This can be the pain experienced from light tugging on hair, the sensation of finger nail racking, even moderate nibbles, ass slapping during sex, and well... other things such as playing mercy (interlocking of hands by fingers and flexing your opponent/partner until they say Mercy). Well, I think everybody get's the general idea. Just playful things besides S&M scene play. Playful Love taps and you name it. The sensation of getting hurt gently through Rough Housing or even not so gently. There is a certain element of pain in playful activity between two people.
Now, with this said, I know I know.. people simply play less and less like this generally the older and older they get. Lord, at what point do we become sticks in the Mudd. Where our idea of a good time is sleeping in late, or laying in a restful state on a secluded beach. I'm just saying, in many regards the older people tend to get, well.. they just ain't up for it like they used to be. Then again, this ain't always the cause either. (no blanket statements for everybody).
Now back to the question, Do little girls need to be hurt and why? Thinking about the sexual aspects, thinking about playful aspects, thinking about just darn right messing and fooling around. There's just something about the role of play and light to heavy pain in relationships that make me truely ponder this one. Still without any true universal answer, but perhaps it's a little more common than at first meets the eye.
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