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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 3:10:40 AM)
Lorenzo, True story, happen while I lived for a brief time outside of Atlanta. I had made friends with a guy in the apartment complex, the first night we went out on the town, we went to a club. Anyways, we were hanging out drinking beers and stuff. This girl we had met was sitting with us and we were talking. She pulled out a cigerettee, then pressed it up to her lips, and did the demanding spoiled little girl routine with the pouty pouty (body language) for me to light her cigerette. I really did'nt like her tone of body language and gester, in fact I read it 2.5 seconds flat, that she was a spoiled girl that was used to guys kissing her ass. LOL.. My response, I pulled out my lighter and with a loud tap I set it down standing upright right in front of her. I did this to put her back in her fucking place. I'm sorry, this Dude ain't playing your game. She got her light! :-) just not the way she was expecting it to happen. My friend, well he fucking freaked out, started whispering in my ear. Man, that ain't no way to treat women. What the Hell is wrong with you? I whispered back, just watch, I know what I'm doing. Now, I need to condense the out come of things because there is a hell of a lot more that went down. Needless to say, she actually complimented me for what I did. Needless to say, she passed me her phone number without me even asking for it. This was a girl that a lot of guys were hitting on left and right as well. My friend was a little blown away, and I had to explain it to him later on way home. Moral of the story, you don't put up with bullshit and it's okay to be an asshole at times, being Mr. Nice guy trying to kiss ass ain't the way to go. Even more so when a girl is getting hit on by 101 horny fucking dudes that she can lead around on a end of a leash, and get them to light her cigerettee and are trying to win her affections by buying her Drinks & Shots. Okay, enough of this long winded post. I'm just trying to share this with you, and give you some food for thought.

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 4:56:38 AM)
Another ploy I see all the time, even on CM is the 'damsel in distress' act. Get everyone to feel sorry for her (negleting to tell how she completely engineered the disaster or it's even a total lie) then lap up all the sympathy. No Dude or girl for that matter can resist the Damsel in Distress act. It's like roger rabbit's 'Shave and a hair cut'.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 5:23:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 No Dude or girl for that matter can resist the Damsel in Distress act. Lorenzo, I think you are absolutely the KING of broad sweeping statements. - LA

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 5:34:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 Another ploy I see all the time, even on CM is the 'damsel in distress' act. Get everyone to feel sorry for her (negleting to tell how she completely engineered the disaster or it's even a total lie) then lap up all the sympathy. No Dude or girl for that matter can resist the Damsel in Distress act. It's like roger rabbit's 'Shave and a hair cut'. Ummm okay. What I just posted was not a ploy per se. Think you sort of missed the point. The point being this, a lot of women don't want a man that they can walk all over, or a guy that will kiss their ass all the time. I was using this as an example where it does not pay to be nice, if anything that being a little bit of an asshole but not a complete jerk, does wonders at times. In regards to what you just posted, that's a fucking trap dude for sucking in White Knights or Doormat Daddy Doms that are trying to save girls with their BatMan Super Hero Domliness. Once an Emotional Vampire bites you, they are in control, not you. it's just like you see in all the vampire movies. Even Guys pull the same crap you wrote about. Emotional Vampires are all over the place. If anybody really want to help other people, get involved in community programs and worthy causes, instead of trying to save strays on CM and other fine websites online.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 5:36:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 No Dude or girl for that matter can resist the Damsel in Distress act. Lorenzo, I think you are absolutely the KING of broad sweeping statements. - LA Oh hell, let him sweep away. LOL... he's not figured out that some of us have learned to say NO, I ain't your personal Jesus. That we can and do often resist.

CarrieO -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 5:47:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 But, some absolutes are true or at least true 99.999999%. And this absolute is yet to be proved false. For you. One girl was opposed to it but yet never experienced it so has no practical knowledge. People can have no interest in an activity, regardless of experience or "practical knowledge". I have no interest in having my breasts nailed to a piece of wood...is that negated because I have no experience with the activity? Everyone says "I'm sure there are girls out there who would not benefit from being hurt regularly" but these girls remain elusive and unidentified. Speaking as a woman who has, in the very distant past, enjoyed a daddy/girl relationship, I can say I'm not one who needed hurt in any way on a regular basis. Not every D/lg dynamic revolves around maintenance spankings or pain. I also think it's good to not make such broad assumptions about every woman "whether vanilla, dominant, submissive, pain lovers or pain avoiders."

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 6:15:08 AM)
Lorenzo, Are you looking for a 100% comfirmation that it's okay for you to regularly engage in S&M activities here as a means to reinforce the D/s dynamic? it's okay to do it, won't make you somehow an Evil person, as long as the girl your doing it do is into it. Don't worry about establishing if 99.99999% of the female population is into it. Just establish a 99.99999% fact that the girls you plan on hurting are into it. Hell, I myself enjoy a little pain now and again. Perhaps that's just my feminine side coming out and needs to be put back into place. Don't fuck with my feminine side cause she'll rip out your throat. I was almost half tempted to come up with a smart ass avatar along those lines. LOL

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 12:23:50 PM)
I'm not looking for 100% comfirmation or anything else. It's in the OP. I think this thread is getting beat to death. If the only thing people can do is attack My grammatical constructs then they have run out of ideas. The sun will rise everyday forever and ever. All people need oxygen to survive. The universe is infinite. Damm... Dead people dont need oxygen to survive... I have been proved wrong... So everybody.... It's ok to stop breathing.

KITTYLECTRO -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 12:28:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? Yes, absolutely.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 1:39:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 I'm not looking for 100% comfirmation or anything else. It's in the OP. I think this thread is getting beat to death. If the only thing people can do is attack My grammatical constructs then they have run out of ideas. The sun will rise everyday forever and ever. All people need oxygen to survive. The universe is infinite. Damm... Dead people dont need oxygen to survive... I have been proved wrong... So everybody.... It's ok to stop breathing. Oh come on man, you have to admit it's gonna help your gramma skills. Believe it or not, I found myself having to insert things like (in my opinion) (in my view) (some people) (not everybody) (most but not all people) to ward off a variety of animal attacks. You've not made it up to typing out things such as this yet. Dom/me, Hir, he/she or even the add label nausa's of "Dom/sub/switch/slave", to fend off discrimination attacks. There's always something that will provoke an attack by the natives, just think of this like a Jungle. Nobody's trying to toss you into a great big Pot and cook you up, not yet at least. Damn, I just had a Giligan's Island flashback moment. Seriously, Some threads people get extremely Snarky and it's literally like a gang of wild animals out for the Blood of the OP. Some of these OP's are dragged off and vanish deep into Jungle to never be seen or heard from again. You've not achieved True Glory yet, until you get your first Moderator intervention spank.

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 2:00:59 PM)
Totally true, Whiplash... Oops another absolute. I should have pointed out all of the exceptions to what you said. The point you're making is not the issue. I don't want to learn, or understand you. I am here for you, brother. Disclaimer: Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah,

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 2:14:56 PM)
Seriously, good advice. WhipLash. So, true. But, I can't be bothered. I am not taking this so seriously. So, I just find the humor in the absudities rather than attaking back and beoming just like them.

brattykajira -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 2:34:08 PM)
I believe this question is an individual question depending on the person. You can have bdsm and have no hurt apply. For me I need to be hurt. I enjoy pain although I also need a balance of pain and gentle. If there was only gentleness I would not find completeness with my One. I get off with pain. This is what I know and how my body responds. -sugar

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 2:43:34 PM)
quote: I believe this question is an individual question depending on the person. Who should decide? Master or slave?

Mercnbeth -> RE: Do little girls need to be hurt regularly? (2/25/2010 3:37:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 quote: I believe this question is an individual question depending on the person. Who should decide? Master or slave? whichever one happens to be controlling what goes on in the relationship...sometimes it's the Master, sometimes it's the slave. not everyone's relationship functions the same way.

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