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no1butme -> RE: Financial domination (3/17/2010 7:43:51 AM)
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This is hilarious...
I see people bashing FD all the time, however, what about D/s relationships where the women (or men in some cases) are beat with canes, belts, paddles, and the like.. then left with bruises, bleeding and sometimes submitting in fear of being punished.
You want to be quick to call any Domme who is a Financial Domme a prostitute, however do you see Financial Domme calling Domme/Dom who whip, paddle, cane or use some form of torture on their subject, a vicious and violent abuser?
No. Why? because its consentual. Just like the more physical aspect of any D/s relationship, or the relationship at all, it is consentual.
If someone is into feet and he buys his Domme a pair of nice heels, does that mean shes a prostitute?
While I do NOT agree on any woman jumping into FD because she has 10 kids, no job and no food on the table, I also do not agree that any Domme (who is actually a Domme), who takes gifts or tributes from their boys, be considered a prostitute or "Pro Domme". I make my own money to pay my bills, however if boys want to buy me luxury items, then by all means. Its what they enjoy.
I have been a Domme for many many years, I have plenty of experience, and have in the past owned domestic slaves. I have a few boys now that have given power of their finances to me. I control every aspect of their accounts. One of which has a wife (who cost him their home and car) and kids, and had it not been for me, they would have had NOTHING for Christmas, NOTHING for birthdays, and no car at all. Matter of fact, when I met him he was almost negative 900 in his account. Hes not been negative since.
The only real problem with Financial Domination, especially online is this.
1. you dont know for a fact that you are serving a woman unless they get on cam, etc. Even then, Ive seen boys spoof cam feed.
2. many inexperienced women jump into FD because they have bills to pay. Far more then we like to see.
3. because sites dont verify to the best of their ability, men have impersonated women and conned Financial sub/slaves out of cash, ruining the experience for them.
The stories you hear where women take the money and the giver was left with nothing, is because if the inexperience of the woman he was talking to. Or the fact that it could very well have been a man they tributed.
It sucks, it gives FD a really bad name.. but you cant sit here and say that FD is that BAD. You would then have to look at the fact that whipping, paddling, and putting bruises on a woman/man is bad as well. More so because its and act of violence.
I personally spend a great deal of time with my boys. No, it does not always end up in tribute. Does spending my time with my boys daily, then taking the occasional tribute or gift mean I am a prostitute? Does it mean I am Pro? Hell no. What sub/slaves would not give their Domme a gift out of pure adoration? Made or bought, it is still a gift. Something some people seem to insist on condeming.
Remember that everyone has a choice in what fetish he or she persues. If its not your thing, then stay away, otherwise, dont bash.. it really is not becoming of a Dom or Domme. The scene in any aspect, requires you to be open minded. Not partially open, or partially closed. Perhaps thats the problem. Like those who do not accept the scene, some Dom/Domm, sub/slave , cannot accept the notion that FD is actually a fetish like their own that they practice.
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