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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:15:19 PM   
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You misunderstand.
These are the kind of people who choose to be members of bdsm clubs.

This is the degree of 'maturity' one can expect from those who participate in bdsm clubs.

I seriously doubt the lady I seek would be so foolish as to join a group where behaviour such as we see here is considered "mature".


this is a bdsm club of sorts, and you choose to be a member of it. you've been a member for quite a while, if i'm following right.


This is very obviously not a club.

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With such as the people in this thread?

I think not.


we're talking  :3  i'm trying to give you support and a way to be happy and find what you're looking for, dude. and you haven't been throwing tard-tantrums when you disagree with me. that's pretty friendly on both our parts, and we're in this thread.


I'll be polite and civil with anyone who chooses to behave in the same way.

Those who choose to behave in some other way tend to bore me.

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Yes, we can all make fun of people who don't believe as we do, and then we can all strip and have meaningless sex/kink ...

I think not.


i obviously don't mean a sex club.


When it comes to bdsm there is no other kind.


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:17:37 PM   
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Is this CM or is this a Rehab / Forced-Intervention for BOB?

seriously,


~smile~

Someone putting a gun to your head and forcing you to read?



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:22:43 PM   
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i obviously don't mean a sex club.


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When it comes to bdsm there is no other kind.


ooooook ok, now we get to the nitty gritty,

sex, itself seems to make you feel 'dirty, unclean' in some way, since obviously you claim to be here NOT for bdsm of any sort (because you are just plain better than US) you are here for love.

If sex is sooo dirty to you. Click the X at the top right.

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~smile~

Someone putting a gun to your head and forcing you to read?


no, I am here to find some great sex and I don't need a gun to my head to do that. lol.

Yet, reading you does give me nose bleeds. Guess I am a masochist. Po me.

Hell, yanno what? I think we all have a lil bit o'sadism in us too. When I was a lil girl, (no, not last week lol), I used to steal my mom's good spoons from the drawer of silver. I was a Godess over my great land of garden. I dug in the soil endlessly (ok ok, sometimes I tried to do the Bugs Bunny routine of digging a hole because apparently you can get to China that way hehe) to find worms. When I found em, I'd chop em in half, then quarters, just to watch n see if they would re-group and create a new species (or a new worm). I am evil. Toss me into the abyss.

I kinda enjoy watching you self-destruct Bob. You are my new worm--since the ground here is now frozen.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:23:33 PM   
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~smile~

Someone putting a gun to your head and forcing you to read?


Yeah...ME bwahahaha


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:24:51 PM   
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This is very obviously not a club.


how so?

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I'll be polite and civil with anyone who chooses to behave in the same way.


be open and nice with me, dude. niceness blows civility out of the water, every time. you could enjoy this conversation :3

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When it comes to bdsm there is no other kind.


but... you're into bdsm. and you're not like that.

edited to add: i'm into bdsm, and if you take a look at my profile, you'll see that i'm choosing not to screw around anymore until i'm in a relationship. i'm not lowering my standards any, either. we both set 'em pretty high, admittedly.


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:27:39 PM   
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this is a bdsm club of sorts


Absolutely ...

But about the IMPORTANT QUESTION ... ... is the answer still 42 ?  ... err ... or if not ... how's about the answer to this ... more obvious one

"if all kinky swingers are into orgiastic bdsm parties, then is everyone into bdsm into orgiastic parties?"

BTW ... Ron ... just to confuse you even more (which can't be tough) ... Catholic ... and ... catholic ... have two very different interpretations. Got a proper command ? (of English) ... then ... welcome ... bring ones self forth and enjoy ones mastery.

With LOVE ...

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:29:09 PM   
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This is very obviously not a club.

how so?


This is not a group with a common set of beliefs.

This is a gathering of individuals each with his or her own beliefs.

There is no uniting principle.

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I'll be polite and civil with anyone who chooses to behave in the same way.


be open and nice with me, dude. niceness blows civility out of the water, every time. you could enjoy this conversation :3


We might have but for that thread you started.

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When it comes to bdsm there is no other kind.


but... you're into bdsm. and you're not like that.


We were speaking of "clubs", and you are right. I'm not like that.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:29:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JonnieBoy

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ORIGINAL: thepillowdreamer

this is a bdsm club of sorts


Absolutely ...

But about the IMPORTANT QUESTION ... ... is the answer still 42 ?  ... err ... or if not ... how's about the answer to this ... more obvious one

"if all kinky swingers are into orgiastic bdsm parties, then is everyone into bdsm into orgiastic parties?"  ... I'd like to bloodywell think we'll all get a tax rebate in the next election for DOING SO (should we so choose) !!!

BTW ... Ron ... just to confuse you even more (which can't be tough) ... Catholic ... and ... catholic ... have two very different interpretations. Got a proper command ? (of English) ... then ... welcome ... bring ones self forth and enjoy ones mastery.

With LOVE ...

Pirate

Edited to confirm that consent for "doing it" needs confirmation these days, fuck me (no ... don't ... it's not my "thing" and was merely a form of colloquial expression) ... next thing you know there will be retarded looking thuggish "Pirates" correcting us all on our bloody English. Well I never ...



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:33:40 PM   
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is the answer still 42 ?


Yes.....

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:41:44 PM   
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edited to add: i'm into bdsm, and if you take a look at my profile, you'll see that i'm choosing not to screw around anymore until i'm in a relationship. i'm not lowering my standards any, either. we both set 'em pretty high, admittedly.


I just checked pillow, sowwy. lol You are in Missouri

Bob has said (oh early in the thread) he doesn't care what 'Americans' do with their time,

his only concern is with us locals (Canadians) today (again) and has no need to diss Americans (this week).

oh but then again, he is now dissing clubs, their members and those that associate with em (wherever they are).

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:42:33 PM   
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This is not a group with a common set of beliefs.
This is a gathering of individuals each with his or her own beliefs.
There is no uniting principle.


no club's made up of carbon copies, though. for the most part though, i'd say that this is an online club- or at least a gathering.

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We might have but for that thread you started.


if you're refering to the one i think you are, i can't count the number of times i apologized and admitted that i was wrong. i'm not a bad person. just like everybody else in the world, sometimes i just put my foot in my mouth.

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We were speaking of "clubs", and you are right. I'm not like that.


this is a gathering of people with the same very base interest. that interest branches out, and i may be sitting on this branch over here while you're on a whole other one, but we're still in the same tree. like it or not, you do belong to a group, just by interacting with me  :)

you can get something so much better rl, just by getting friends. not every munch or group or club is full of sex-crazed maniacs who are immature and not up to your standards.

having friends who understand what you're going through makes shit so much easier to deal with. i really can't stress that enough.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:46:05 PM   
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There is no uniting principle.


People seem pretty united in their assessment of your lament.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:48:03 PM   
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But about the IMPORTANT QUESTION ... ... is the answer still 42?


y'all know it is!

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his only concern is with us locals (Canadians) today (again) and has no need to diss Americans (this week).

oh but then again, he is now dissing clubs, their members and those that associate with em (wherever they are).


dang. does it count if i have dual citizenship? it's not american/canadian, but i do have a sister who lives in kelowna.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:54:15 PM   
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dang. does it count if i have dual citizenship? it's not american/canadian, but i do have a sister who lives in kelowna.


HELL yes !! lol

good for you, stickin' up for a Canadian sister.

For a man who claims to have so much love and respect for his fellow human beings and women in general, this sure sounds like a bash to any woman, kinkster (in general), not to mention Canadian girl.

Bob, I have mentioned before, since you don't agree with the CM philosophy, nor 'club-life/fet group' philosophies...start your own.

*thus the Jim Jones quote I gave u last night.

*shudders.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:55:07 PM   
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is the answer still 42 ?


Yes.....

helpfulzeph



You're a definate wannabe, you don't love me ... and you never did ... (A** I* * E*** **** N*** Y** !!!) ... you certainly never will. So since you are such a lost child ... follow me ! ... I'm MUCH more interesting than "Robert The Vindicated" ... I can make wine into water ... within 30 minutes (unfortunately, that type of trick doesn't apply to American beer ... it would be "fraud").
I walked on water once (The cut froze ... see Stella for translation)

Ever seen "Blackadder" ... ? "Bob" ? (roflmao)

O.K. ... my messianic episode is now over.
Someone tell me ... how to cook these "Corn Dogs" ?

Pirate



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 4:59:05 PM   
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ok lets try this:

Bob is in Canada, the last chick that broke his heart is in Canada.

ok, we see a very obvious pattern. Chicks in Canada = anger = got cheated on = more anger = bdsm is bad = sex is evil = Canadian chicks are easy = Bob needs to tell us Canadian chicks have no morality = because of the chick that is a slut = Bob is bitter.

get over it Bob. We all do.

*nottt that there is anything wrong with sluts



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 5:02:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JonnieBoy

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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is the answer still 42 ?


Yes.....

helpfulzeph



You're a definate wannabe, you don't love me ... and you never did ... (A** I* * E*** **** N*** Y** !!!) ... you certainly never will. So since you are such a lost child ... follow me ! ... I'm MUCH more interesting than "Robert The Vindicated" ... I can make wine into water ... within 30 minutes (unfortunately, that type of trick doesn't apply to American beer ... it would be "fraud").
I walked on water once (The cut froze ... see Stella for translation)

Ever seen "Blackadder" ... ? "Bob" ? (roflmao)

O.K. ... my messianic episode is now over.
Someone tell me ... how to cook these "Corn Dogs" ?

Pirate





Ohhhhhh that is soooooo not true! I've referred to you as smokin hot....I love you Jonnie, I always have *looks around for Greedy*

Yes I have seen Black Adder....to borrow from your wife *snort*

To imply that I might have even a passing fancy in Bob is just .....*shudders*

zeph


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 5:04:12 PM   
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this is a gathering of people with the same very base interest.


And what interest would that be?

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having friends who understand what you're going through makes shit so much easier to deal with. i really can't stress that enough.


I already have friends like that, friends who have been there for me for over a quarter century.

I see nothing in the behaviour here of the majority of posters that makes me say "Gee, I really wish they could be my friends."

Obviously there is nothing in common upon which to base a friendship.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 5:11:14 PM   
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I already have friends like that, friends who have been there for me for over a quarter century.

I see nothing in the behaviour here of the majority of posters that makes me say "Gee, I really wish they could be my friends."

Obviously there is nothing in common upon which to base a friendship.


Then ask your 'friends' of 25 yrs to help you....find your true love virgin.

If the posters here are not your friends, big deal? I don't know these people, but I also don't sit day and night to find fault in their 'kink' or sexual practices or who they screw and don't screw. Their love/sex lives are not my business. I have a life (as you claim you also do), so get over it, we/them/cm people are not here for your pleasure as perfect beings that will fit your agenda of.....piousness. This isn't a goddam under 18 nightclub where you are waving the liquor lisc. of the neighboring club to remind kiddies of their future evils if they drink. You are not Pastor Bob. You are here, that is OUR first clue. If you have some relevant information that such-n-such is a dangerous idea, post it. Your emotional problems, maybe post them in the health section. Judgements? Post them as a poll, who cares.

You come here, to a bdsm site, to whine that people are too kinky or too easy. If this were Ebay and all they auctioned was turnips...would you keep going in hopes of a pumpkin?

You are here, it is free. Quit biting the hand that feeds you.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 5:15:43 PM   
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We might have but for that thread you started.

if you're refering to the one i think you are, i can't count the number of times i apologized and admitted that i was wrong. i'm not a bad person. just like everybody else in the world, sometimes i just put my foot in my mouth.


TPD, I think that Bob believes that you aimed that entire thread at him as an attack. I don't believe you did and, actually, I enjoyed reading that thread - but I believe that he feels you were specifically referring to him in your first post and as such, is kinda bent out of shape about it.

As an aside, I don't think you're a bad person - you're just not ... hrm ... careful in your phrasing. Some people have issues with that.

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