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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:15:06 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:16:39 PM   
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And you really believe the lady I seek will be taking you seriously ...

~smile~

You have no credibility.


I think she should be here for all of us to meet-n-greet.

oh I see, you only want those that will give her 'favorable' thoughts on you (can't see you finding anyone to do that).

I am quite credible and very real. No other names or disguises either. Wow huh? What makes you think you are more credible than MOI? The fact that you can't choose or keep a girlfriend properly or the fact that you have changed your name here 3x (that we know of) ?

Credible? lol, I have ex bfs that I talk to or hang out with on a regular basis because we 'get along', I have no skeletons as you do. No bitterness between them and I, I just didn't work out, big deal. I am more credible just in the fact that I am the same person here (in name) as I was years ago as I am in real life with people that I love.

You, on the other hand are looking more and more (by the titles and words in threads) as having a chronic bout of depression. Get help, we can't 'fix' you.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:17:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: came4U
Psych 101 Bob...


And you really believe the lady I seek will be taking you seriously ...

~smile~

You have no credibility.


You are projecting....

How about this, you made a mistake, you are human and therefore flawed... the mistake is yours, no one else's...  man up, Bob..

She conned you because she promised something you wanted, which was "love"... she couldn't have conned you unless you allowed your belief that she was offering something you wanted to get the better of your common sense...

Here is the thing, instead of blaming all the women in the world for being honest about what they want and condemning them, how about condemning the ones that con using your frailties against you? The problem is not women that want casual sex, the problem isn't women that do not know what they want, the problem is women who LIE about what they want and hurt men that are caught with their pants down..

Now, I know this may shock you, sit down, are you ready for this? Not everyone wants the same things in life, and that is OK... just consider that for a moment and think about it before you post some tripe about how everyone else is crazy and you are the only sane person...


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:17:40 PM   
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I vote for mocking him.


We don't have a party with that name ... yet ... .bu in the spirit of democracy, I'll start one.

Now ... everyone can choose to vote for "Mocking Him" (which, of course, has a vastly different agenda than "Mocking Err ... Her") unless they whish to excercise their democratic right and vote for another party ... which is still a good idea because you can never have enough parties).

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:19:49 PM   
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unless they whish to excercise their democratic right and vote for another party ... which is still a good idea because you can never have enough parties).


I vote for Green Party and in turn we can have him recycled.

Oh wait, thats been done.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:44:16 PM   
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I never bothered to check. BDSM clubs are like swingers clubs: simply there for the sex/kink.

When I was on FL I spoke with people who'd formed a club in this area and determined they are neither mature nor responsible.


surely not all of them. i could be thinking of a munch or something. either way, i've been to bdsm clubs that have been skeevy as hell, and i've been to some pretty fun ones. usually i hate clubs of any kind, but i've been to clubs and have actually met good, long-lasting friends. it's all about staying positive- i can't stress that enough. you can't write off something after a couple of bad experiences.

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No. Nor will I. I consider them scams.


besides the old women who do it for free, i don't know much at all about 'em, so i'll leave it alone. hell, they very well could be.

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My friends I've known for more than a quarter century. They are vanilla, as are their friends (aside from me).


it's great to have friends that long, because so many are ruined by bullshit drama, but when i was little somebody told me "keep your friendships, young and old: for one is silver and the other is gold".

making new friends who are into what you're into, as far as not being vanilla, could be very cathartic. i know that since i've made non-vanilla friends, i don't have that feeling that i can't talk about kink-related problems, or if i can, it's limited to the internet.

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As for networking ... I've no interest. I am not going to recommend anyone I barely know, and doubt the lady I seek would value such a recommendation from someone else.


i prolly worded that wrong. what i mean is making friends rl who are into the same things you are. not everybody who belongs to a bdsm group is sleazy or immature. you're gonna find morons anywhere you go, sure, but if you've been alone for so long and want this so badly, then maybe you should go out on a limb?

and again, if you're friends with somebody then that means they're prolly kosher. that means you have good taste in people. if your future partner is friends with those same people, then that means she has good taste, too.

thanks for replying to my message, btw. we are disagreeing, i guess, but we're both being civil about it, which is pretty rad  ;)

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:56:57 PM   
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As for networking ... I've no interest. I am not going to recommend anyone I barely know, and doubt the lady I seek would value such a recommendation from someone else.


i prolly worded that wrong. what i mean is making friends rl who are into the same things you are. not everybody who belongs to a bdsm group is sleazy or immature. you're gonna find morons anywhere you go, sure, but if you've been alone for so long and want this so badly, then maybe you should go out on a limb?


I don't think I'm going to appeal to anyone who feels the need to associate with such a group.

I'm looking for someone who is secure enough in her sexuality that she doesn't feel the need for the approval of others to be who she is.

What I seek in friendship has nothing to do with kink, so why should those who allegedly share my kink make better friends than the ones I have?

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thanks for replying to my message, btw. we are disagreeing, i guess, but we're both being civil about it, which is pretty rad  ;)


You are welcome.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 1:59:36 PM   
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Please don't name people who are no longer participating on these boards in a negative manner as they are not here to defend themselves.  This includes giving a good enough description, even if you don't use their name, that people can identify them.  If your post on the last few pages of this thread disappeared, that is most likely the reason.

Things seem to be getting a bit heated up again.  Let's step away and take a deep breath.

Thank you.



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:02:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

Couple of things...

<something I didn't quite catch>

Thank you.



Sorry, Mod21, what was that? I got a bit distracted by the naked woman in your cocktail glass...


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:04:56 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:08:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne
Let's step away and take a deep breath.


~smile~

Sounds like a good time for me to bake a batch of cookies and a loaf of bread.



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:14:20 PM   
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Come closer and you will see... she is not naked.



You mean...you mean...ResidentSadist lied to us?

He promised us a nekkid woman in a cocktail glass!




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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:14:31 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:18:15 PM   
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no problem ..by the way..had permission of my roommate..not an invention ~ she's sitting here~


You were not the one I was speaking of, but thank you for clarifying anyway.



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:21:07 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:21:19 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:23:52 PM   
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I don't think I'm going to appeal to anyone who feels the need to associate with such a group.


she doesn't have to feel a need to. i'm sure a lot of men and women do, but not everyone. it could just be recreation, you know? i mean, for example: i'm in a band, sewing club (lol, shut up, i know), a few volunteer groups, and i'm looking for a local bdsm club. not to find anybody, even though i'd be open to it, but to be able to talk face-to-face about something i can't usually talk face-to-face to people with.

and you might even have fun at these things :3

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I'm looking for someone who is secure enough in her sexuality that she doesn't feel the need for the approval of others to be who she is.


definitely. but wouldn't it be nice to expand your horizons? and honestly, if she's a shrinking violet, she wouldn't be in those groups. it takes a lot of courage to "out" yourself, even to people into the same thing.

she might even be on a dating site like this, looking for somebody who doesn't just want her for her body. she's hesitant but going out on a limb because she's sick and tired of being sick and tired. she's sitting by herself, lost in a sea of leather, and then bam! along comes bob, and if it was a cheesy movie, a chick song would start playing and your eyes would meet. :D

ya never know!

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What I seek in friendship has nothing to do with kink, so why should those who allegedly share my kink make better friends than the ones I have?


the friends you've had longer are definitely worth more than new ones, i'm not saying that they're not.

it's just that it's nice to have people to just hang out with and talk to about issues you can't talk about with your usual friends.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:24:07 PM   
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And most of the others actually.........


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:24:43 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 2:25:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

Oh, ooops.  Got so distracted by my own avatar that I forgot the last point I wanted to make.

If you use the "quote" feature, please trim excessive quotes.  If you don't know how to trim quotes, please don't use the quote feature to respond to a long post until you learn how to do so. 





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