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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 3:42:01 AM

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Indeed, I said "Hi" earlier and felt entitled to get a "Hi" back. Silly me for having such high expectations.

Sorry, Manners-I missed that.

Your post must have been buried under all the posts actually answering the OP

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 3:51:25 AM

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VC, thank you....Have I ever told you that you are cute.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:07:38 AM

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She is cute, PS. Very cute indeed. Cutie, cutie, cutie-pie. She should rename herself Mistress Cute.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:10:21 AM

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I can see VC beginning to reach her boiling point. One of these days she's gonna explode all over you boys.

*waits to see the carnage*

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:17:39 AM

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One of these days she's gonna explode all over you boys.

*waits to see the carnage*

Weeeell...
Manners lives pretty far away from me, so he's not in too much danger.
Peon, on the other hand, lives fifteen minutes away.

So he'd do better to watch himself....

...else I'll show him exactly how cute I'm not. :-P

Plus, I've just got half my head razored! People with alternative hairstyles are by definition NOT CUTE.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:19:35 AM

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If you explode on Peon, will you be so kind as to film the event for those of us over here to view?

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:23:50 AM

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Only if you admit that I'm not cute.

Now, enough jacking of Madame4a's thread!

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 4:27:07 AM

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I'll admit I've never seen a photo of you, so I have no proof one way or another whether or not you are cute.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:06:49 AM

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I have seen a picture of her. Per her request, she is NOT cute. Feel free to insert an equivalent word and it will apply.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:12:45 AM

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It isn't always easy to tell. Many "real" profiles are merely individuals with a multiple identities, none of which are real. I've been on other sites and collarme.com seems to be plagued with fake profiles. Many of which look very real.

I have a REAL, active, up-to-date profile... take a peek

and I don't have multiple identities, multiple personalities, now that's another thing ....

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:17:55 AM

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Got my letter huh?

Not your letter, but I have got your number...
lol
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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:18:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jack131313

It isn't always easy to tell. Many "real" profiles are merely individuals with a multiple identities, none of which are real. I've been on other sites and collarme.com seems to be plagued with fake profiles. Many of which look very real.

If this is a pet peeve of yours, then why do you have two profiles?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3101310/tm.htm

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:33:09 AM

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I'm not listening to you. You are hormonal, you've said it yourself.
You therefore don't know what you are saying.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 5:46:43 AM

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Hi.

How about telling the guy he'll get back what he puts in. More effort = more outcome. Some men understand if you get straight to the point.

Hope this helps.

Nope, never worked for me. If I send back a message suggesting more effort the reply is usually a profanity laced sentence declaring that I must be fake.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 7:27:53 AM

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Ok, but what about guys like me who actually read the whole profile and then send a message, usually talking about something I liked in it or asking for clarification about something I didnt quite understand? Doesnt common courtesy dictate at least a polite "thanks but no thanks" type of letter, as opposed to completely ignoring it?

Now that being said, Ive received one liners from random women who obviously did not read my profile, and yes, its irritating, especially the "do you want to serve me" types. No, I dont want to serve you, I dont even know you. Its obvious your a fucking idiot, so thats strike two. Then they go and exchange the shovel for a backhoe. They write back and say Im fake, that a "twue" sub would instantly fall at their feet, begging to serve them. Yeah, sorry, I aint THAT desperate.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 8:48:55 AM

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You're absolutely right. you do deserve a polite reply. If a sub makes an effort to send me a respectful, polite first message I always message back.

I'm sorry if you have the experience of "dommes" telling you in their first message that you should fall at their feet. Personally, I have never sent a message demanding anything of a sub whose profile interests me.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/6/2010 10:47:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jack131313

It isn't always easy to tell. Many "real" profiles are merely individuals with a multiple identities, none of which are real. I've been on other sites and collarme.com seems to be plagued with fake profiles. Many of which look very real.

If this is a pet peeve of yours, then why do you have two profiles?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3101310/tm.htm

He has two (or more) now, but I think there's at least one other in the not so distant past.

OP, men think it will work because they WANT it to work. It's like being a child and thinking that money grows on trees, you just have to find the tree. It would make more sense to go out and make some money by doing your chores or cutting someone's lawn but that might take some work. Just find the damn money tree and all your troubles are solved, all that you want is at your feet. There was an example in this very thread of someone who couldn't be troubled to take the time to write a thoughtful email to each woman he found interesting because he wasnt' guaranteed that someone real would be getting the fruits of his labor. So he'd rather not do it.
Also someone else pointed out that being lazy doesn't necessary belong to one gender over another...it's just the way it is. There are always people out there looking to take a short cut on things that genuinely take time and effort. Thank goodness you can usually find out what they're about fairly quickly and pass them by.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/7/2010 5:47:03 AM

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A man with a hard on is an idiot. Often a man without a hard on isn't much smarter.

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/7/2010 6:32:13 AM

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A man with a hard on is an idiot. Often a man without a hard on isn't much smarter.

Are you saying that intelligent men are limpdicks, Kal?

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RE: Why do men think this will work? - 3/7/2010 8:06:58 AM

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A man with a hard on is an idiot. Often a man without a hard on isn't much smarter.

You might get off on putting yourself down Kal, but don't project on your whole gender. I know quite a few men who are brilliant.

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