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warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:45:26 AM)

Vaguely ... Ok, I only saw the REPLY button at the bottom of the screen which replies to the last post not your post.



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:47:02 AM)

RedMagic ... ummm sorry? I'm NOT sure how that post drew that WTF moment from you?

I was being honest and genuine. I'm sorry you can't see that.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:48:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29

RedMagic ... ummm sorry? I'm sure how that post drew that WTF moment from you?

I was being honest and genuine. I'm sorry you can't see that.



You were having a tantrum because someone called you OP instead of warmwoman.
If that's you being honest and genuine, then I think I'll be giving up on this thread pretty soon.



barelynangel -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:49:00 AM)

lol Icarys, are yo seriously whining about one true way because of my responses to you. Are you really THAT insecure with your beliefs?

Yes, i have ONE TRUE WAY of slave, its based on a lot of things and a lot of years of knowledge and experience. I am very consistent, confident, and sure in my beliefs, understandings, and definitions. IF that threatens you, then you really need to look at yourself and not whine to me because of MY confidence in my beliefs and your insecurity with yours.

If it doesn't threaten you, then your recent posts to me don't reflect that. You will find the more secure and confident you are in your beliefs, the less you worry about what everyone else says against them and simply post for debate and discussion rather than need for approval and validation.

angel



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:49:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth
OP, I'm taking a cue from the title of this thread and giving up. I can see that you would rather play the victim and snipe at those who are trying to help than make any real change in your attitude. So have at it....just please stop the complaints.

I already commanded her to stop the pity wallow in my first post. She did not obey.



Nope, but I did....can I help it if I respond to a man's commands? *grins*

Seriously, I think she just wants the pity, anyone who has tried to help was told to stop being so mean/hard on her. I give up....



Rule -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:49:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29
Vaguely -- how else do people know who I am addressing?

Look in the lower right corner of every post except barelynangel's. It says there "In reply to...". Barelynangel, however only replies to herself and therefore to make clear to whom she addresses herself, she respectfully addresses you as the Opening Poster.

You truly need to recalibrate your head. I have seen various examples already where you interpret posts in a way that was not intended by the poster.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:51:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29
RedMagic ... ummm sorry? I'm sure how that post drew that WTF moment from you?

You have proved, through your own admissions, that you do not understand tactful, personal communication.  A history of marital infidelity -- in your own marriage and that of at least one other -- years of inability to attract a decent sexual partner -- need I go on here?

You are not in a position to be lecturing anyone on how to be more personal.  It comes off as though you would rather be "right" than happy.  It makes me want to take a bath, to get away from the emotional sludge you are putting in between yourself and the truth.



barelynangel -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:53:40 AM)

Umm Op, you do realize this is an ANONYMOUS PUBLIC MESSAGE BOARD filled with NICKNAMES? lol how much more impersonal can you get?

i rarely get personal with people from an anonymous public discussion board full of nicknames. I am not sure what you think being personal is but really this place is not personal. I am not sure why you felt the need to send me mail.

If you want personal you really need to get off the internet.

angel



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:55:02 AM)

wow ... *blinks in shock* nothing like kicking a woman in the gut when she's down. Way to be the man!



sblady -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:56:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

It makes me want to take a bath.

Um, Red...I feel a bit dirty too. If I get permission from Sir, can I join you? I promise to scrub your back. [:D]





divi -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:56:17 AM)

I see another 10 years of no sex in your future



Jeffff -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:56:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29

RedMagic ... ummm sorry? I'm NOT sure how that post drew that WTF moment from you?

I was being honest and genuine. I'm sorry you can't see that.



I am honest and genuinely an Internet prick.

I wish I could be more helpful, but you are a silly woman, with silly thoughts.

You have shown no redeeming value at all. I would recommend turning off your 'puter and never posting anywhere again

I hope this helps


Jeff



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:56:34 AM)

Then that means that everything we say is BS and has no kernel of truth. Why bother?

I've always wanted to believe that people are real on the other side of the computer. Am I wrong to believe that?



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:57:58 AM)

That's cause you don't truly know me.



barelynangel -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:58:39 AM)

Rule that is the most political way of saying what i am lol lazy when posting. Yes i am lazy in posting.

Actually lol what happens with me is i write TO the poster so in my head i rarely say the name,and i go to the bottom to reply so i really fuck things up when posting.

I try and be better lol but i always forget i am not having one on one convos lol with the person i am responding too.



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:59:03 AM)

You know i've been chatting in chat rooms for years and they can be complete pricks and even THEY don't delve into the emotional sludge arena.



FukinTroll -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:59:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29

Troll ... can't answer my question, can you? *smiles*

And I don't think NOT being forced to plow fields makes me a control freak. That's why tractors and combines were invented.



Oh heaven forbid anyone actually work. I am, however, trying to overcome my disdain for that axe handle ass. What you fail to realize is this is a consensual site, no one is forced into anything. They are well aware of my expectations before they choose to contact me.

Lady, you should go to a fluffy little dating site where your reality is shared with the rest of the carbon storm troopers around the world before you bite into something you really don't like.



Jeffff -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 11:59:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29

That's cause you don't truly know me.


And after meeting you here, I truly don't want to.

You are not warm

Jeff



warmwoman29 -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 12:00:06 PM)

And yes well I was not aware of the rule of calling the original poster the OP since no one told me and further did not see where to reply directly to a person. My apologies for being clueless about the technicalities of this forum and it's established denizens.



angelikaJ -> RE: Giving up (3/6/2010 12:00:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: warmwoman29

I'm giving up on the search.

After 10 years of seeking and not finding, I have come to the conclusion that what I seek does not exist.

The fact that mere "friendship" is not possible with these people further solidifies my decision. I get so tired of mens' profiles saying 'I'm looking for friends' but still they can't be bothered to respond to my messages. I guess a woman has to be fuckable in order to be friendship material.

How sad. [:(]




It is sad and I can understand your frustration.

This thread reminded me of another:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2761996/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2761996

I am 9 years older than you are and joined in 2007.

My experience has been quite different than yours...
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2774994/mpage_1/key_happy%252Cmiddle/tm.htm#2774994

Once upon a time ... a bit under 14 months ago, I received an email. As it often happens, I responded, he wrote back and for the next few weeks we got to know each other. We went on a couple of luncheon dates and enjoyed each other's company.

We are still together.

I am 9 years older than you are and joined in 2007.

It is not my intent to place blame when I say this (and I am certainly no expert) but if you have been trying for 10 years and your approach has not been successful, then perhaps you might consider changing something?




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