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lusciouslips19 -> RE: Giving up (3/7/2010 12:21:03 AM)
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
Listen sweets...you are damn near 40 yrs old and "stunned" when someone you met on a KINKY SEX SITE cops a feel? I am not saying what he did was right (nor wrong...i wasn't there... and your perception is not something i trust) but "stunned" is a totally immature reaction. Did you also bellow "How DARE you??" while clutching the collar of your coat up to the neck? Whack him with your handbag ala Ruth Buzzy?
He felt, you told him to stop, and he stopped. SO WHAT??????
In dating terms (grown up adult shit...kinky sex site shit...you get the idea) it is called making a move, a play, coming on to you, etc. You may not have appriciated it, but being shocked makes you sound like a freaking nun.
If you did not want to risk that happening, you had no business getting into a car with him.
For heavens sake, grow the fuck up and toughen the fuck up.
SHEEEEESH!!!!!!!!
Holly, I'm sorry, but I think this is a bit much. I wouldn't expect anyone, kinky dating site or not, to put a hand down my bra without checking with me first.
Come on, Holly-that's more than making a pass...
I actually had that happen a couple weeks back as I was being massaged while in his car. I grabbed him by the wrist in the down swipe and said,"nice try". No biggie. We laughed about it and he said,"a guys gotta try".
Thats how its handled.
I love a little drama every now and then (ask, Cali[:)]).
But the whole back of hand to forehead's a little passe.
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