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RE: Some advice please. Please. - 4/3/2006 3:36:29 PM

SimplyV

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Well said, little one. There are others here that would benefit from leaving negativity out of every other post, as well.

Nuh Uh.. We's all very possitive people, all the time. Uh huh.. yeppers.

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RE: Some advice please. Please. - 4/3/2006 3:53:00 PM

cariad

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Chat rooms are useless as a meeting place. So filled with people who live a fantasy life of bdsm, which is fine, but rarely are they in a position to activate their fantasies, which is what you seem to wish to do.

this slave has been in the lifestyle for almost 17yrs now and while she will admit that her latest failed relationship with a Master started online and was only to be an online relationship until one day He said He couldn't do it any more and that He wanted to meet this slave.

this slave now has 4 irc rooms that belong to her and in all of them she is constantly changing the subject to suit things that have come up in her daily life or questions she has seen posted on other boards she belongs to.

while there are some wanna be's and some Horny net geeks aka (Hng's) there are also some legitimate (sp) Doms, Dommes, subs and slaves also on the chat rooms, however would this slave recommend to a new person in the lifestyle to use a chat room to meet said Sir or Ma'am, no.

this slave recommends finding a yahoo group, a group in your community to attend munches at and get to know O/others in the lifestyle, never being afraid to ask questions as there is no such thing as a dumb/stupid question except that which is not asked.

another thing this slave recommends and will probably get shot down for is reading the newbie packages that: wizdomme.com and castlerealm.com have, also reading the books: SM-101 by Jay Wiseman and the book Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, but most of all ask questions of T/those you meet at the local munches or play parties.

even talking to a Domme here could lead into a good friendship and who knows where it may go from there.

hope this helps you a bit and remember "There is no such thing as a stupid question except that which is not asked."

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RE: Some advice please. Please. - 4/3/2006 5:57:42 PM

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i've been here for quite a while now and i have made a few friends and even more enemies with my opinions and comments so, any advice i could give you would be ripped apart like a shark frenzy by alot of people here...so i digress.

michael, when you make these disparaging remarks about yourself, you must remember to add "Except for Ms. Cloudz, who seems to love me no matter how bad I am."

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RE: Some advice please. Please. - 4/3/2006 6:18:02 PM

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michael, when you make these disparaging remarks about yourself, you must remember to add "Except for Ms. Cloudz, who seems to love me no matter how bad I am."

And Cin, who offered him her spare can of shark repellent. LOL

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RE: Some advice please. Please. - 4/3/2006 8:45:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: greg2serve

Lady JulieAnn, you hit the nail right on the head. It's a never ending struggle for me. Yet here i am at 12:16 A.M., Monday morning peeking in here. i get up for work in 6 hours, soooo....i must be nuts.

No, you're not "nuts". You're just consumed by your desire to experience some aspect of this lifestyle. I was there once. There were more chatroom opportunites a few years back, in my opinion. I used to chat in a few MSN rooms that were filled with many "real life" couples who happily shared ideas and information. I made many friends there, as well as established relationships with subs. Lifestyle topics were regularly discussed. Some rooms still exist, but you have to pay and subscribe to chat, unfortunately.

Perhaps you need to take a step back and think about why you struggle with the things you do. Look at your issues practically and unconditionally and don't criticize yourself through the process. Once you do that, you can take steps to change.

Be well,
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