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came4U -> RE: why criticize a sub for smiling? (3/13/2010 11:25:08 PM)
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Just like I think the death of a child is sad, or the earthquake in Haiti is sad. It isn't "my problem," it is a commentary on the state of something. I am delightfully ecstatically happy that the fact that you choose to be a miserable person has absolutely no bearing on my life.
just you comparing what I said to death of um's or natural disaster is ...downright weird and sadistic. Very WEIRD, and creepy (again). You did the same in the other thread when I called you creeeepy.
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However, you really need to come to grips with the fact that if you are going to post on a public board that your greatest wish in life is to be "blissfully miserable," myself or someone else is likely to comment that it is a sad thing.
If my wish was to be 'blissfully miserable' as a submissive who got whipped daily...is that a no no also? My misery adaptability is my business, not yours, since you are not the one who has to whip me nor heal me.
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Actually, what you just said is that if you are completely miserable, a nothing deserving of nothing, then you will be completely happy and fufilled. Really, you do need to get over yourself though with this concept of "my kink world of rules," because again....public message board, people state their opinions. Possibly your huge over reaction is a result of some internal conflict you have, who knows.
MY kink rules? lol, look back/up, I have no internal issues. I enjoy to not enjoy what I want to get. If I get my kicks being emotionally tormented instead of a whip, or with one (helps with that too)...is that a crime to you? (of course it will be, since LF thinks she can tell me what to think). That will be the day some dame bosses me around ok---get it LF???
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Actually this thing we call "BDSM" is full of identities. You are playing the what is "true" or "not true" game. You are also still searching, so how's that been working for ya?
It is working just fine. Merci.
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This is YOUR definition, not the actual definition of a sadist. Incidentally, your definition is not one of a sadist, but one of a psychopath. But congratulation on being able to insult every sadist and masochist in this forum by telling them all that they are not "real" but only "playing" at being sadists and masochists. Nice job.
One person's psychopath, is another's lover. IMO, anyone who does the 'play' for the sake of 'I'm going to hurt you at 4:30 pm, see you there' business is not my cup of tea nor choice of partner. I never claimed they are fake, you did. Don't put words into my mouth/keyboard/fingers lady.
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Actually, I'm neither a sadist or a masochist, so I am not looking for "torment" at all. What I wanted was a fufilling relationship with a man that I loved whole heartedly and who loved me in return. I have that. We smile, we laugh, we have a wonderfully satisfying sex life, he is dominant and I am very happy.
You do what you want, I didn't ask what you did. So why do you care what I want to do? Perhaps because on the last threads I told you off, as it should have been, because you were arrogant and out of line? This has nothing to do with you, sadism or masochism, this has to do with 'I want to confront came4u because she just plain bugs me'. Well get over it.
Unless a thread genuinely involves my taste of kink content or opinion that I feel strongly about, I don't bother. You could learn the same--since you have no bother with sadism or masochism.
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Well, that shouldn't be all that difficult. I can't imagine why you are having such trouble finding a man who is superior to you.
You don't know my sex life lol. I have no trouble finding it/that/him, thanks. Don't assume.
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Believe me, I "get it" more than you know. Being miserable makes you happy. Which, by the way means you are a living, breathing oxymoron because if you are happy, then you aren't miserable. I hope the fantasy of what you want eventually turns into a reality, I really truly do.
lol, you get nothing. I am a what I am...A happy girl, who likes to be miserable under the thumb of a VERY capable man, that makes me both miserable and happy.
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And on second thought, I don't think you being more miserable than you already are makes me sad at all. I think I actually find it hysterically funny.
If you find it funny, 'hysterically funny' then scroll up...that would make you a liar and a hypocrite because you said you are quote:
I'm neither a sadist or a masochist .
..in this case, you are a masochist [;)] awe. hate when that happens. I hate catching people in their own ...bull. it hurts [:(]
PS. LF: I also noticed that AGAIN you checked out my profile, I assume looking for some kinda blood/weakness. Hun, really, get some class. The chicks around here have class, they aren't stupid, nor am I. What different would you expect to find on there from days ago (again)??? If you were a guy I'd call you a CREEP. Seriously, get some class. I will not post anything but bla bla bla on my profile, and that is all it is ok, bla bla bla everyday boring dull nonsense that means nothing to YOU personally. (nor do I disclose my sex life or tell if I get laid on there) LOL.
Anyone can go back on my thousands of posts and LOOK for something hypocritical, sorry, won't find it. But your discrepancies have been found several times by ME, (and hell, I didn't even know you till last week) and yet another one just on this thread. Seriously, grow up.
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