juliaoceania
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Come on.... get real... everyone can read the entire thread boijen, you aren't a victim here
Did I say that? There are no victims on this thread...as far as I can see at least.
I'm just amazed at how personal this gets for you that you can't see a "thank you" for a "thank you".
You're still all up in arms so much so that you're blinded to a simple recognition of an answer to a question.
I wonder how blinded by your personal attachment to this boy being a child you would be if it were your pregnant daughter he had shot?
You chopped my post from the original to make it look like I was taking responsibility for personally attacking you, when that is the opposite of what I was saying...
This is personal for you, too, and you state in a myriad of ways that is is all through out this thread, so you can now quit pretending I am the only one that this is personal for and take on the mantel that I am personally attacking you... in fact the above post I am quoting shows this is personal for you because you identify with the family of the murder victim, and not the child...
Here is the thing boijen, my aunt whom I never met was murdered. Her murderers got off with extremely light sentences. This was during the depression, I never met her. I have heard she was beautiful, red hair and blue eyes. There are no photos left of her because they were burned in a fire. My grandmother never recovered from that event, every time someone mentioned Ruby's name she would cry... so no, there is nothing you can tell me about the scars that murder can leave on a family, it left an indelible mark on mine decades after the event...
That does not change the fact that children are different than adults. It does not change the fact that their psychological development is different. It does not change the fact you say you want to be a psychologist. It does not change the fact that you are highly resistant to accepting that children are different from adults. It does not change the fact that these statements are tantamount to someone claiming they want to be a medical doctor that treats people's humors and bleed them with leeches is about the same as the things you have stated on this thread....
And no, I doubt you will ever address the above statements, which are not about you personally, they are about what you have stated as someone who wants to be a professional in a certain field and yet refuses to address relevant theory because it does not match your emotion based prejudices and beliefs... which frankly, I find kinda frightening from someone with your stated career goals...
So what happens if you ever work with children boijen, are you going to practice psychology on them as you would an adult? (I know you probably will not address that)
There are other people on this thread that state the same things that you have, the reason I am not posting to them is that they do not want to be psychologists when they grow up... so as you can see, it is all about your stated career goals, because you very well might be working with kids one day.
< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 3/17/2010 10:04:12 AM >
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