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What i'm talking about are the loser guys who couldn't get a girlfriend in high school, and so they become a "Dom" and think that they've punched their ticket to the "free pussy buffet". There is nothing dominant about them other than their self-proclaimed title.

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ORIGINAL: darquemind

Do not lose track of a woman's innermost need.  She does not want to be forced, she wants to be taken, and their is a world of difference.

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2. Insist on a reciprocal relationship. One in which you get as much as you give. Mutual fulfillment,   mutual pleasure, and mutual self-actualization, or self-realization, are the goals.

3. Love is not magic, love will not overcome, and love will not find a way, etc. Sometimes love means letting go.

4. You are the author of your own life. You are the controller of your own thoughts, feelings, and deeds. If you don't like how something in your life is going, or if your thoughts, feelings or actions are troubling you: change it up. Don't wait. Change it now. Make plans, set goals, and work toward them. Take action to control your thoughts and feelings, and deeds, instead of letting them control you.

5. Being submissive doesn't mean your brain fell out your ear. Use it. If you're acting like you have low self-esteem, then you probably do. See #4.

6. You never really know someone until you've spent a sigificant amount of time, over time, actually in their presence. Not just a few days, or weeks. And not just on one or two separate occassions. A significant amount of time, over a significant period of time.

7. For a long-term relationship, seek someone with whom you are compatible in and out of the bedroom.

8. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

9. Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't expect perfection from yourself or your partner. Forgive them their honest mistakes, and be forgiving of (and expect forgiveness for) yours. Don't worry about the things you can't change. Focus on what you can do, and don't spend too much time worrying over that, either. Relax! You only live once. Keep your sense of humor. Explore, and have FUN!


All of the above applies to vanilla as well. That's all for now, thanks OP!

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ORIGINAL: roughleather

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What i'm talking about are the loser guys who couldn't get a girlfriend in high school, and so they become a "Dom" and think that they've punched their ticket to the "free pussy buffet". There is nothing dominant about them other than their self-proclaimed title.

Yes. People who refer to themselves as "Master ..." are usually like that. 

(Slaves may refer to their master as "Master". It's referring to oneself as "Master" that indicates a loser.)