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Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 8:48:25 PM   
enthralled


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Status: offline 		I would like opinions on whether Doms/Masters find piercings & tattoos desirable or a turnoff?
I've found that one way I enjoy expressing myself is with piercings and bodyart. However, I also feel like this may somewhat inhibit my search for a Master.
Any advice/opinions are welcomed.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 9:29:30 PM   
Lenina


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Status: offline 		Hardly, I find tattoos and peircings very sexy and I admire the individuality they express.
They are a beautiful work of art, there are many dominants out there who find tattoos a turn on, but just as many who are turned off by them or don't care either way.
It's all about finding the person who is right for you.

Personally, I would encourage my submissive (or any partner) to continue with his or her collection.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 9:29:53 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		The situation is that many want a good lil girl they can bring home to the family but also a naughty freak they can have in the bedroom. Tattoos and other forms of body work are known for distorting the good/innocent image look. Such artwork is also known for having others assume that you are kinky or to easy. Most guys view women with tattoos on there lower back as easier targets for sex. It even points this out in the movie Wedding Crashers when the two guys are scoping out who they want to hit on. 

Anyhow, it's a damn if you do damn if you don't situation. If you wear what you want, you may attract some kinky Masters but they may not want to keep you around. If you don't wear what you want, then not many will think you are into kink. All you can really do is be yourself and be excepted for it. We all have our turn ons and offs and sooner or later you'll be with the one who likes you and how you present yourself.    

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 9:31:55 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		It's the same as with everything, each person has different preferences. Its just the same as one Master liking blondes, another like brunettes and some dont care what color a girls hair is.

As far as tattoos and piercings go, if they were very obvious, perhaps a Master who was in certain professional fields of work might not be attracted for that reason, some may just find them unattractive, while others wouldnt care or may love them, everyone is different.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 9:37:54 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Most guys view women with tattoos on there lower back as easier targets for sex. It even points this out in the movie Wedding Crashers when the two guys are scoping out who they want to hit on. 


WOW...  now there's a fact source that I hadn't thought of to add to my list of "experts" on life's great questions and mysteries... 
Move over "Dear Abby" and "Miss Manners"...  here come the Wedding Crashers...  (sorry just couldn't help myself here)

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 9:47:51 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: slavejali

It's the same as with everything, each person has different preferences. Its just the same as one Master liking blondes, another like brunettes and some dont care what color a girls hair is.


I agree here...  it's a matter of personal preference or perhaps, indifference. 

I happen to have 4 small tattoos that mean something very special to me.  They are mine.  If other people do not like them, I tell them that it is lucky for them that they are not wearing them.  (Of course these people are not potential mates, but the same premise applies, I think.)  Why would you want someone as a partner who doesn't like something that means quite a bit to you or who might demean you for it?  I'm not saying, of course, that partners always have to like the same things as their mates, but if it is that special to you, and means a lot to you...  perhaps finding someone who appreciates your bodyart as much as you do will be a nice match.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 10:59:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: enthralled

I would like opinions on whether Doms/Masters find piercings & tattoos desirable or a turnoff?
I've found that one way I enjoy expressing myself is with piercings and bodyart. However, I also feel like this may somewhat inhibit my search for a Master.
Any advice/opinions are welcomed.

Respectfully,
~enthralled


For me, body modification is intensely personal and an expression of my inner self, often spiritual in nature. Be who you are. Whether a potential Master considers body art a thing of beauty or a flaw, if it's part of you, and 'he' is for you, he is going to accept you as you are.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 11:31:35 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		If you enjoy expressing yourself that way, most likely the right Master for you will appreciate them. As a Master, I have 3 tats and 2 brands...so, yes, I like them.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/1/2006 11:38:47 PM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		I find tattoos to be acceptable, so long as they are tasteful and kept to a minimum. An orgy of garishly inked scenery plastered all over your back and migrating down your leg is nothing but distracting body graffiti, and subtracts from a girl's natural organic appeal.

As for piercings, I feel much the same way. A silver ball in your tongue, a bead on your clit, pretty rings on your nipples or a decorative piercing on your belly button is functional and accentuating, but armored genitalia, stretched ear lobes and bolts plowing through your eyebrow or nostril are unnecessarily ugly and pointless.










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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 1:06:52 AM   
enthralled


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the posts. i believe what i do have has been done in good taste. The majority consists of kanji down my spine and can easily be hidden if nessessary.  Part of me agrees with FangsNfeet though, that some people misperceive that i'm an 'easy target', when for the most part, it's related to Shamanism and very spiritual for me as well.  Hopefully, my search will lead to someone who shares the same passion
 
Respectfully,
~enthralled

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 1:38:47 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		Absolutely a matter of personal taste, both in quality of the body art and location.

I quite like some tattoo work, not as big a fan of certain piercings. Often I will admit to thinking "That girl would be attractive if it wasn't for all the metal shit she has pushed through her face".

If you are not currently owned, then the choise is entirely yours and any future master will simply deal with what is there at the time.... It may put some off but equaly may make you more atttractive to others. Do what you feel is right and cross that bridge when you reach it.


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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 3:06:29 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		I hate them both!  I wouldn't reject a new sub who had them but she'd hafta get rid of the piercings and there'd be no more tatts!  So I'm on old fogey; I love the female form in it's natural state - art is for decorating walls.  So now I'm an old fogey phillistine....  But I know what I like!
 
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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 4:46:58 AM   
CanadianGuy


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Status: offline 		I'm not much into either. My girl has just her ears pierced (but doesn't wear anything anyway) and no tattoos.  I would consider getting her navel pierced (I find that cute, if a girl has a nice tummy) and perhaps a small tattoo someplace that means something to both of us.  I would be wary of a girl who had another master's mark on her body (I'm a possessive person, big time!)

But overall I don't think it's bad unless it's distracting.  Mostly I prefer skin intact and natural if possible.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 6:33:43 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Seeing that I'd like to get a whole heap of tatts done including one from shoulder to shoulder,, I'm happy for a girl to have a tatt but I want to approve it first.  Her brand will be a tatt most likely at this time.. Only piercings I really like are ears and navel but clits are fun too..... Dopn't realy like tongues and such.. but I'm a tad old fashion  well antique even in some ways..


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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 7:01:28 AM   
RestrainU


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Status: offline 		Just like anything in life some will hate some will love and everything in between.
I do enjoy body art on pet/princess.
Very erotic especially if i take her to have the art done.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 11:37:58 AM   
SirKenin


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Status: offline 		Honestly, I find tattoos and piercings anything but desirable.  Except for in the small of the back of course.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 1:39:18 PM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		Everyone is different. Some "Masters" desire a potential slave to be unmarked as it does not show any signs of previous ownership. That gives then the ability to choose how and with what you will be perminently marked.
Some people do not like them, Personally I do and my slave has her first 5 piercings on my direction, she also will be tattooed or possably branded.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 2:20:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Again...I agree it is personal taste. My sub is forty, I am thirty-nine...I have My ears pierces but not stretched to different gauges and only the lobes...she has multiple piercings, rook etc...as well as three facial piercings and others; I have no tats, she has multiple (it was funny listening to her try to remember them all when we were first getting acquanted over the phone before we met)...she has two obviously 'tying' her to a previous master (again, no respect for him on my part) which she was uncomfortable about...I asked her once I owned her what she would do if they bothered me and she responded have them removed...no pausing in her reponse. I know that she had a history before owning her just as we all do...her's is partly graphic, she has one I decided will be covered and I will decide how...any other tats I will approve, as well as piercings...it may have started out as her body but she has decided it is Mine now. Would the tats/piercings not being there helped My decision in wanting her and making her Mine? No. Did I choose her because of them? No.
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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 6:25:19 PM   
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I quite like some tattoo work, not as big a fan of certain piercings. Often I will admit to thinking "That girl would be attractive if it wasn't for all the metal shit she has pushed through her face".

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Ah, the tea is all over the screen now...Unfortunately I was taking a sip when I read your comments.

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RE: Are piercings/tattoos desirable? - 4/2/2006 6:31:43 PM   
urnotworthy


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Status: offline 		Must admit, I love tats and piercings. I have one tat, and planning more. Ears pierced twice, planning more. Subs that are pierced or inked will catch my eye first. Also slaves, willing to allow perm markings or piercings catch my eye first. However, this does not disqualify ones that have none, or are unwilling to allow them. Just my personal opinion of what is beautiful.

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