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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 10:08:39 AM   
michaelGA


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Status: offline 		multi-orgasmic? is that possible also?

i'm missing on so much in my life.


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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 1:04:15 PM   
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hmm ok I am just wondering about something.  I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum.  well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways.  Much to my surprize she did so. 

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no.  I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that.  But how common is it?


For me does not even have to be on command.......all Sir has to do is look at me, smile at me, even yell at me, and i cum.........for some i think it is just how they are sexually charged, imho.....

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 1:45:36 PM   
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multi-orgasmic? is that possible also?



If i am allowed to cum unchecked in the hands of  my owners 30 or 40 times in a session is not only possible, it's happened. What is not possible is standing or walking afterwards.

This was actually the reasoning behind my being trained to only cum when allowed. When you orgasm that many times in a scene you are good for nothing except trembling and gasping for air.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 2:50:38 PM   
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multi-orgasmic? is that possible also?

i'm missing on so much in my life.



Of course.

For men its harder than for women.

There are books on how to learn to do that. Mostly its about repeated build up without release and then you'll have several orgasms, generally less intense individually but it prolongs the pleasure over several releases.



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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 3:03:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the men: how do you know the woman isn't faking? Especially over the phone? As a health educator I hear lots of stories from young women about faking orgasms. 

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 4:32:04 PM   
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I agree having been trained both to cum on command and to not cum until commanded by my previous Master.




Ironically, this (i.e., orgasm control and denial) are techniques used to train one to cum-on-command.

I've trained prior slaves to cum-on-command as well -- last one took about 2 months to train her to do so.



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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 4:36:11 PM   
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To the men: how do you know the woman isn't faking? Especially over the phone? As a health educator I hear lots of stories from young women about faking orgasms.


I'd heard uneducated and inexperienced men can't tell even when they are inside (to be crude) when someone is faking if they've only had fakes.

How could you tell if a man faked over the phone or the computer?

I don't think male orgasm is just about ejaculation either -- plus if he has a condom and disposes of it, how could someone tell?

The question is: Why do people fake orgasms?

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 4:43:52 PM   
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If i am allowed to cum unchecked in the hands of  my owners 30 or 40 times in a session is not only possible, it's happened. What is not possible is standing or walking afterwards.

This was actually the reasoning behind my being trained to only cum when allowed. When you orgasm that many times in a scene you are good for nothing except trembling and gasping for air.


Yep... And it's amazing how many people DON'T BELIEVE this when I'd tell them my last slave girl would cum 30 times a night, on average.

As to the "trembling" thing?  Try this... Next time you're trembling uncontrollably, lay on your back, pull your knees up (with feet still on the floor), spread your legs/knees apart, and with your hand, slap/spank your pussy (with some force) FIVE TIMES, and actually COUNT out loud... (i.e., one, two, three, four, five...).  It often works to stop the "trembling".  Also, have drinking water nearby.  


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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:16:38 PM   
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For myself, I am highly doubtful that it would or could ever occur for me.  I'm just not wired to orgasm easily.


i dont know if im "not wired" or what. i hear(see) these people talking about making a girl cum on command and i just laugh. i have no doubt that they can do it, its when they say they can make me.
i can cum on my own very well, but only alone.  i have tried many ways to do this with a partner, in r/l, online ( text and on cam ), on the phone. i can not cum.  so cumming on command is just a laughable thing. so is orgasm denial. its something that i dont think i'll ever obtain.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:27:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was glad to see this thread, because the subject keeps coming up, and each time there seems to be less "I've never seen it so it must be bullshit" bullshit.  It's not bullshit.

One question, though.  How many of you have been trained to come and then found that you had serious trouble coming normally after your master released you?  It happens.  I wouldn't fool around with any kind of orgasm control unless you're fairly sure you're in a long-term relationship.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:28:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I cum on command.  Of course, you have to command me at the exact right moment.

I am not suggesting there are not people out there who can and do orgasm on command or to a specific stimuli like a bell or whatever.  I am sure there are.  But I would also like to remind everyone of Meg Ryan in the sandwich shop. 

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Why do people fake orgasms?


All kind of reasons.  To hasten the end of sex.  Because the partner is trying hard and you want to reward him/her for effort.  Others are present and she/he wants to call attention to how spectacular things are over in your area. A person desperately want to cum but can't and feel inadequate or embarassed.  To manipulate a partner.  And so on.



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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:50:04 PM   
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Why do people fake orgasms?


All kind of reasons.  Because the partner is trying hard and you want to reward him/her for effort.  A person desperately want to cum but can't and feel inadequate or embarassed. 


i think that about sums it up. but what is worse is when you have faked it all your life and now dont want to. that is its own training. yes i know it defeats the purpose to fake it.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:51:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was someone before my very first Master who could never RELAX for SEX & it took forever to make me CUM...Yes, I could CUM but it was going to be on my own time...I carried to much of my childhood with me & what had happened to me and let that bother me& effect my sex life but my master & I talked through that...Then my Master taught me to "cum on command"...With my master now all he has to say is: "CUM, God Damn it, My Little Girl Needs to Cum!" and I Gush ... And I can Wait until then... I am trained to be a to Cum 5-6 times in one night...It is AMAZING! And It is all a thanks to my SIRE!

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 5:58:40 PM   
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I carried to much of my childhood with me & what had happened to me and let that bother me& effect my sex life


i can understand that, and have suspicions of my own, but do not know.  however i enjoy sex a great deal, just i cant cum. to be able to cross that line finally would be such a relief ( no pun intended! )
would be interested to hear from you how you worked your way through it if you want to reply off topic.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 6:49:25 PM   
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I was glad to see this thread, because the subject keeps coming up, and each time there seems to be less "I've never seen it so it must be bullshit" bullshit.  It's not bullshit.

One question, though.  How many of you have been trained to come and then found that you had serious trouble coming normally after your master released you?  It happens.  I wouldn't fool around with any kind of orgasm control unless you're fairly sure you're in a long-term relationship.


Heh, that is why I taught myself; when I first heard about it I was sure these women must be faking it so I set out to see if it was possible. 

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RE: Cum on command - 4/3/2006 7:07:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I guess I should have made it more clear, I do not deny them very long. a few seconds at most. It is not something that I really ever keep from a submissive and like I said I rarely even "demand" that thay ask permisson to cum. 

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RE: Cum on command - 4/4/2006 3:42:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

One question, though.  How many of you have been trained to come and then found that you had serious trouble coming normally after your master released you?  It happens. 



My Master of 18 years passed away. During the 6 years i spent searching i actually went out with a vanilla and NOTHING happened, i was frustrated to the max and could not cum. I also went out with 4 doms, two of whom i scened with, the 2nd of which i was with a few times, again nothing.

Then i flew 2000 miles to meet my current owners (a dom/domme couple). I was in the house maybe a 1/2 hour when Master(ScooterTrash) took me on tour of house, we did not make it far ( let me state here for either of us to go this fast with anyone was unheard of, the chemistry was just perfect) and in about 3 minutes, bang, i was done.

So yes you are correct LAM, it can happen. For me it was not even a matter of it being any Dom, for me it had to be the one my body and brain said "yes, this is your Master" or nothing was possible for me.



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RE: Cum on command - 4/4/2006 3:49:25 AM   
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As to the "trembling" thing?  Try this... Next time you're trembling uncontrollably, lay on your back, pull your knees up (with feet still on the floor), spread your legs/knees apart, and with your hand, slap/spank your pussy (with some force) FIVE TIMES, and actually COUNT out loud... (i.e., one, two, three, four, five...).  It often works to stop the "trembling".  Also, have drinking water nearby.


Thanks for the advice but something similar has been tried. Once i am wound for sound anything will just set me off again.
The only thing that really works is for me to just be still for awhile. Lol, the water is a must though, i do get dehydrated.



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RE: Cum on command - 4/5/2006 10:07:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Again this is something that is extemely individualistic. i've shuddered from the sound of a voice or the feel of their breath on the back of my neck, the push to make me cum would have been very easy. Others.. well not so much lol

i found after being trained to cum on command or not cum till given permsion, it is really hard to reach orgasm with out the "ok" after that. Which is extremely fustrating and takes time to over come *grins* i can now finally manage it most of the time with out permission when amusing myself  *smiles* but it took a long time, and doesn't always work.

i'm single and have a "friend with benefits" that is basically nilla with a bit of kink, i finally had to get him to use a trigger word for me. He thought it was kinda funny but does it, makes things go alot smoother lol




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RE: Cum on command - 4/6/2006 12:03:39 AM   
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Just an interesting article regarding multiple orgasm and orgasm triggers.

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