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Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:09:11 AM

cajingrl

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Forgive me if this has already been asked, but, what is it about doms saying that you have to "apply" to talk to them? Are we as subs applying for a job or what????

Can someone please explain this to me. I'm sorry if I have gone about this the wrong way, since this is the first time I have started a thread.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:13:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cajingrl

Forgive me if this has already been asked, but, what is it about doms saying that you have to "apply" to talk to them? Are we as subs applying for a job or what????

Can someone please explain this to me. I'm sorry if I have gone about this the wrong way, since this is the first time I have started a thread.

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I have no idea what the hell a Dom is thinking when he writes something like that.
What i do wish they would realize is it makes them sound like an egotistical pompous ass and many submissives (including me, when i was single) will roll their eyes and pass them up.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:17:36 AM

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For some people, it can be a kink or a fetish. That said, the many I have seen or have heard about are just silly peeps.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:19:14 AM

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It's just the interweb's way of making sure these assholes don't pollute the gene pool...

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:22:01 AM

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My day is very full. there are scheduling issues and all sorts of shit to get done.

I had to check My day planner just to see if I had time to respond to this post/

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:25:47 AM

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My day is very full. there are scheduling issues and all sorts of shit to get done.

I had to check My day planner just to see if I had time to respond to this post/

<<<Holly secretly fills in Jefffffffs day planner...hoping he thinks he has no time to get on-line.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:28:50 AM

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Thank you Jeff for finding a moment of free time to respond.....I'm waiting with bated breath for your next appearance.....

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:29:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

My day is very full. there are scheduling issues and all sorts of shit to get done.

I had to check My day planner just to see if I had time to respond to this post/

<<<Holly secretly fills in Jefffffffs day planner...hoping he thinks he has no time to get on-line.

prepares a lot of crayons for Holly...there's a lot of empty space to fill in...

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:31:43 AM

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Thank you Holly for your warm welcome and for your reply. I have to whole heartedly agree with your response. I tend to roll my eyes a lot lately at some of the things that doms put in their profiles..

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:33:32 AM

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Thank you to everyone for their replies on this subject.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:36:01 AM

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Cajin on behalf of all the women on CM I apologize for Jefff. Not sure why he asks girls to apply. I thought he gave that up in 07 apparently not. On the bright side he usually just pencils girls in and hes old so he will forget about the appt..
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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:36:48 AM

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See it as a free filtering device-they are proving that they are not for you, without you having to lift a finger to type anything!

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:39:03 AM

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To Me, it would seem a great screening tool. It would immediately make Me think that someone hasn't quite hit the reality of BDSM and has been playing online too long.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:45:09 AM

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Thank you Divi....and I understand about Jeff being old..I'm in the same boat...There are days that I have to remember to eat......lol

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 11:49:46 AM

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id piss myself laughing as i left the room to be honest - fast reply there, but im guessing most people are saying the same

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 12:04:18 PM

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I just saw a new profile that used this tact, and tend to think it's a marketing tool meant to create a sense of urgency in the submissive, as well as an excuse when they don't respond back to you right away, because their applications are just piling up.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 12:15:46 PM

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Jeffff makes a note to fill up his calender anytime divi writes

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 12:17:00 PM

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Does this mean you dont want to bang me lol

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 12:20:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cajingrl

Forgive me if this has already been asked, but, what is it about doms saying that you have to "apply" to talk to them? Are we as subs applying for a job or what????

Can someone please explain this to me. I'm sorry if I have gone about this the wrong way, since this is the first time I have started a thread.

cajingrl

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I hate to keep saying the same thing but men who say this are watching to much internet porn. I can't imagine telling a potential sub to apply. I'd feel like a fool and they would likely laugh in my face. subs have way more balls than nilla types.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/1/2010 1:14:29 PM

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Yeah, I've seen that in a few profiles...silliness basically.

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