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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 9:15:07 AM   
thewashingtonian


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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 9:52:53 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		The single number one trait that is a must for anyone to be my friend is Integrity.  Without integrity, no other attribute matters to me.

In order for one to be my Dominant, he would also have to be someone I would want as my friend.

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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 12:11:37 PM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		When I was searching for a partner, I had a lot of things I needed from *any* potential partner, such as integrity, being interesting to talk with, getting along with each others' friends, and so forth. So, what I specifically needed from a *dominant* man was D/s chemistry - actually feeling submissive toward him, combined with a reasonably compatible approach to D/s or M/s.

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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 12:48:20 PM   
afkarr


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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 1:02:51 PM   
jbcurious


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Status: offline 		Like so many of the other ladies, I can't narrow it to one thing... There has to chemistry, he has to inspire confidence, trust and my admiration for him as a person and then he has to know how to recieve what I want to give.

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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 1:03:33 PM   
DesFIP


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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 5:44:34 PM   
trueshadow


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RE: The number one thing - 4/3/2010 5:56:44 PM   
sunshinemiss


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He must have a strong male desire, and gain satisfaction from providing for me.


Nicely said, ish.

As for me - it is ... dang... how to put it into one thing. He's smart and funny and passionate and clear and dynamic and... I know. Responsibility. Someone who understands himself and his role and does not shirk his responsibilities.

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RE: The number one thing - 4/4/2010 11:41:41 AM   
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For me, it would be authenticity - that the person is showing me their true, authentic self, and not just playing a part or acting as they think is "expected" of them.


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RE: The number one thing - 4/6/2010 5:15:48 PM   
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RE: The number one thing - 4/6/2010 7:33:24 PM   
serillabound


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Status: offline 		among many others things, ...but good God, good hygiene please!

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RE: The number one thing - 4/6/2010 7:59:09 PM   
slavekal


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RE: The number one thing - 4/6/2010 11:43:25 PM   
Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: thewashingtonian

Hello all you wonderful subs.

I have a pretty straight forward question for you guys, though it may not be that easy for some of you to answer.

What is the number one, end all be all trait that you look for in a dom/domme. It can be physical, mental, or emotional; but you can only choose one and why.

I'm curious to read some of your answers because not every sub is made the same. :-)



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RE: The number one thing - 4/7/2010 11:01:32 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		This is not a fair question ther are so many thing that atteactsed me to Master. If i were to lost all of them i would be here a couple of hours. is is the whole package, and it helps along with the mental and emotinal aspects he is very handsome.

Matt's littleone

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RE: The number one thing - 4/7/2010 12:26:48 PM   
subtee


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hahaha jk jk jk I know there was teasing about it

Of course the answer here is "penis." "What is penis, Alex." "I'll take penii for 1000." Are you smarter than a penis?

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