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domiguy -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 11:31:42 AM)
Chick...I call you chick because I care. Chick, this is like anything else. In the real world you meet and you go out. You don't spend the next 15-20 hours online to determine compatibility. You go out and get the feel for one another..the chemistry is there or it isn't. Time wasters. The douche you are dealing with has filled your little silly subby noggin with notions that should have been immediately dismissed. I can see how you might be feeling a tad bit embarrassed. Send me a pic of a dildo in your hiney...I will be able to tell from that pic if we might be able to have something meaningful.

poshspice -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 11:41:12 AM)
I know that now, but you tend to defer when you are so inexperienced. I suppose I am not so inexperienced now eh? Embarrassed is possibly an understatement, luckily, none of you have rubbed my nose in it and for that I am grateful. I am standing by with camera in hand Mr Wankstain! Will get that pic over to you ASAP obviously. Thanks anyway for your comments...........I think.

DarkSteven -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 11:42:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poshspice quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven The "referred by someone else" is a dead giveaway. Old trick. Step back and ask yourself what kind of relationship you want. Then go for that and just that. So, this is a common trick? All this just to bang me? I am not sure whether I should be flattered or horrified. Neither. You should be overwhelmed with sub frenzy. Enough to fly over to Colorado and be my love slave.

subinside -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 11:43:25 AM)
mmm gotta love that magic wand... Hell it's the only thing that's kept me going these past 3 years... lol.

lizi -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 11:47:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poshspice All joking aside, this realization is actually rather painful and more than a little bit embarrassing. I had become fond of them "both" and shared much with "them" and it will take a little while to get over this, not sure I would ever consider "online training" with anyone again. What annoys me the most is his insistence that I am not ready for a relationship with a Master/Dom yet and it would end badly. I have to wonder, how many opportunities I have missed because of this , although I did ignore him a few times to get a bit of "hands on" but was influenced as regards how seriously I took these poor men. Oh boy...I've done things myself that make me cringe to remember. Shudder. I have done some incredibly stupid things...and then woke up and moved on. There are people out there that try to take advantage and they're good at what they do, don't feel badly that you fell for it, it happens, and as I'm trying to point out this was intended to deceive you. It's not like this happened in a vacuum...there was a man out there that was actively trying to use you. Every single person on this earth has been fooled by someone at some point. If you spend all your time looking for the deception you miss out along the way by carrying that baggage- at times it becomes a choice of risking yourself again or being too wary and pushing someone away. The best thing any of us can do is learn from our mistakes, try not to repeat them, build from there and move onto something more meaningful. It's not all bad that this happened...generally you take something positive with you from life's experiences, good or bad.

domiguy -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 12:00:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poshspice I am standing by with camera in hand Mr Wankstain! Will get that pic over to you ASAP obviously. Thanks anyway for your comments...........I think. It's Mr Wankenstein or stain, to you. How dare you forget your subby protocols. You obviously need much more online training!!!! Send me my pics!!!!

GraciousLady -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 12:28:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff You are attractive. He wants to bang you. I want to bang you to. And, duct tape you in the back of my closet (don't be jealouse politesub!) and make you clean my kitchen. Ok, enough of what I want. I think you can get a lot more "training", opinions and a feel for what is what if you just stay here and read the forums and talk to people. Maybe even go to local events and befriend people. This lifestyle has many wide and varied preferences and when your new you can't imagine what the extent of your preferences are. Take your time and don't rush into anything. And FYI, Jeffff likely wants to bang you to.

Jeffff -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 1:51:29 PM)
Of course I want to bang her! And posh?... don't beat yourself up over all this.... Let me beat you up! PS. bring the wand

belladevine -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 2:31:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy You're a bangable broad, who can apparently type and you bathe, too? A true CM triple threat!!! I have used the Domi referral network to gain access to multiple subbage....I have set up a number of profiles ranging in age, ethnicity and appearance and they are utilized based on my belief of who my future bangee might best respond too. You get one referral and that says, you might be nice. When the silly subbie gets mail from thirty different people saying that you should meet Domiguy...That makes me The King of the Doms!!! Online is for losers. I use online training. I am a pile of horse pucky covered in wank stains quote: ( I met domi online! I don't know if he is the king but maybe he wants to be my sugar daddy???? We slurp zombies together and talk about stuff like candy on a stick. Yea, talk about yummie training sessions. yummie!

afkarr -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 3:15:45 PM)
Back to the original question- I'm confused. If he's "local" and plans to really meet you, he can't show up for coffee at the local java shop some Saturday afternoon? How can anyone not be "ready" for a perfectly casual, no obligation, public cup of coffee? Sounds like a real wanker to me. And why would you even want to be "trained" by someone who hadn't even met? He might not be at all what you expected.

poshspice -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:39:00 PM)
Well based on the replies, some sort of gang bang is in order it seems! As for a casual meeting, I have often wondered that myself. If I am totally honest, I ignored plenty of red flags because I developed an attachment to them which rendered me stupid and blind. This afternoon since my first posting , they have been in touch with me and I asked for two separate phone calls from each of them to verify at least their individuality and a casual face to face meeting was going to be my next request. I have not yet had a reply to my last request, perhaps because this cannot be met. The sad thing is, I can sense his genuine sadness as well which is real no matter what his orginal intention was, so absolutely no one has benefited from this silliness. I hope they or he has learned from this too. He spent hours on me day upon day,it must not be good for him either . I think he got himself into something he was not expecting but does not have the ability to salvage it because of his deception. If he came clean I would forgive him. I know I am a soppy silly old soul. There is more romance in me than I thought.

sunshinemiss -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:47:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poshspice All joking aside, this realization is actually rather painful and more than a little bit embarrassing. I had beome fond of them "both" and shared much with "them" and it will take a little while to get over this, not sure I would ever consider "online training" with anyone again. What annoys me the most is his insistence that I am not ready for a relationship with a Master/Dom yet and it would end badly. I have to wonder, how many opportunities I have missed because of this , although I did ignore him a few times to get a bit of "hands on" but was influenced as regards how seriously I took these poor men. The only decent online training is a journal... or the message boards. We'll train you up good!!! Don't let it get you down, darling. Many of us have had the same experience. Before the internet, we get involved with guys at dances who lied to us or men who wrote to us from jail or the service or some other such scam. The only shame is if you don't learn from this. There's nothing wrong with introspections. Start a private blog or write in a journal about the things that you find interesting. WHo knows what you will learn about yourself... and welcome to the boards.

Aileen1968 -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:47:39 PM)
Eh...you're probably a wanker guy too.

domiguy -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:54:16 PM)
I have not received any pictures....She is definitely a wanker guy. Sincerely, Dr. Fernando Wakenstain When I was in college I was a rather large proponent of the wake n bake....Now I prefer the wake n stain.

sunshinemiss -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:55:01 PM)
quote: Well based on the replies, some sort of gang bang is in order it seems! Don't get too excited honey. Domi and Jeffff want all the girls. Greedy bastards. quote: As for a casual meeting, I have often wondered that myself. If I am totally honest, I ignored plenty of red flags because I developed an attachment to them which rendered me stupid and blind. This afternoon since my first posting , they have been in touch with me and I asked for two separate phone calls from each of them to verify at least their individuality and a casual face to face meeting was going to be my next request. He can feel you pulling away and is trying to throw you a crumb. quote: I have not yet had a reply to my last request, perhaps because this cannot be met. The sad thing is, I can sense his genuine sadness as well which is real no matter what his orginal intention was, so absolutely no one has benefited from this silliness. I hope they or he has learned from this too. He spent hours on me day upon day,it must not be good for him either . I think he got himself into something he was not expecting but does not have the ability to salvage it because of his deception. He's sad he didn't get in your pants. His wife must be on his case a lot. Nonsense about it not being good for him. I guaran-dang-tee you he got a total thrill from the danger of it all... the possibility of getting caught by the missus and all that.. quote: If he came clean I would forgive him. We are destined to repeat mistakes until we learn from them. quote: I know I am a soppy silly old soul. There is more romance in me than I thought. This, my dear, is not romance. If you want romance, go get the book Outlander by Diana Gabaldon. Many of the gals here love it, and you will learn what a real man is like... or read some of what Cuffkinks has written here about his girl hejira. They have romance out the yin yang. Good luck to you, sunshine

Aileen1968 -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 4:55:36 PM)
I always remember to tuck away the family jewels when I reply to you domi.... bats eyelids

blueeyedbbwsub -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 5:06:25 PM)
Posh, His apology could not hold up to close scrutiny. In this case I trump your "soppy silly old soul" and raise it by a "honey roasted pecan, the only kinda nut I can be". [:D] You can indeed accept his apology but you don't have to forget what he did and how it made you feel. Take care of yourself and the rest will follow.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 5:17:14 PM)
OP, a quiet warning, Domi and Jeffffffffffffff are hop-bonded and are just stringing you along for their amusement. As for Steven, he just wants you to move to Colorado so he can steal your cookies.

poshspice -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 5:19:35 PM)
I have many issues clearly, but being a "wanker guy" is not one of them, I have had a few for sure though. Of course logically I know you are all right in your own twisted, slightly disturbing way , but it happened today, I am still fruitlessly trying to have a bit of hope, especially as I "laid " myself out there like I did. I did try not to get too excited by the "greedy bastards" wanting me and I think I managed it actually.

poshspice -> RE: "Online training" (4/17/2010 5:29:52 PM)
OK , I am a newbie, what is "OP" and what is "hop bonded" ? I thought humour was the intent with all the posh banging stuff, thats how I took it anyway. I dont mind a bit of joshing.

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