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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 8:53:43 AM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear
Exactly...I mean hell, I'm not a true submissive.

See? I knew I wasn't alone in this. If we had an Ask a Fake board, all us fakes could hang out there and stop cluttering the primary boards with useless realism.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 8:58:51 AM

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When you hesitate they're trying to push you in the hopes that you'll listen to them so they can get eventually get laid. If you turned them down, then it's a retaliation by an idiot. I said politely no thank you, I am not looking, to someone who emailed me and he wrote back immediately calling me a fatty (i have no pictures up), and a loser, and CM is full of pathetic bitches like me.
Encouraging you to leave school for him is not by any means the mark of Dom. A Dom would want you to better yourself. Count yourself lucky that you found out right away and didn't waste your time.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 9:07:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

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ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.

i doubt there are any "true" slaves on this site.

Exactly...I mean hell, I'm not a true submissive.

lol

not what i meant, Bear.

a "true" slave is property, legally, and would not have the option of wanting to quit school and move or not.

a "true" slave, and this is only my belief, would probably not be on line posting.

a "true" slave would have no choices.

a "consensual" slave is what the OP is, or strives to become.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 9:14:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear
Exactly...I mean hell, I'm not a true submissive.

See? I knew I wasn't alone in this. If we had an Ask a Fake board, all us fakes could hang out there and stop cluttering the primary boards with useless realism.

Alternately, all of us fakes could stay in the primary boards, and the idiots could go to the Ask A Wanker forum, and annoy each other!

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 9:42:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.

I get that all the time

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 10:36:41 AM

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Probably because there is enough room in mom's basement for your stuff. You can put it next to his xbox and skate board.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 10:54:27 AM

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"School" also covers college, university and all kinds of trade schools. It's also possible she went back to school, she isn't the best writer I've ever seen anything is possible.

Yup. Most of the time I was at college I was on this site.

Sent too soon... Anyway, to the OP, I'd suggest thinking about some stricter guidelines who you want to talk to. See if you can find some elements that all these men had in common with each other so you can quickly go "Ok, not worth my time". Also, depending on what sort of school you are attending, look around for dominants there. It's not like they exist on the Internet. Just look for people who you have a dominant/submissive connection with and ask them if they are interested in power dynamics. I promise you, dominants/masters don't just sit on their computers - they go out into the real world and do things.

Well, the interesting ones anyway.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 2:07:26 PM

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I don't care if you have bad judgment, whine a lot and use bad grammar! If you were a true slave you would want to move to Daytona and live in a red cage the rest of your life.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 2:08:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.

Of course you're not a weal and twue slave. You have to be a fake and a wannabe. After all, you aren't doing what those particular Doms want you to do. Nah, just being sarcastic. Seriously, that's a common accusation leveled at s-types because they don't do exactly what any given Dom wants them to do right off the bat before developing a relationship. They're just having a teensy little temper tantrum. There are those that tell me that, too, and i answer them that "i never said i was a slave. i'm a sub." Also, this could be your problem........

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ORIGINAL: Focus50
Your problem is that you listen to pissed-off, manipulative horndogs.

Or this......

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ORIGINAL: afkarr
A fair number of real twue "masters" in this world aren't masters at all, or doms, or even tops. They're just here because they think underwearless sluts are easy.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 3:16:12 PM

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I completely agree with you on that one.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 3:18:34 PM

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I agree with you on that one too. I'm in college and say 'school' all the time. Although some people just don't get it anyway lol.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 4:25:21 PM

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a "true" slave is property, legally, and would not have the option of wanting to quit school and move or not.

a "true" slave, and this is only my belief, would probably not be on line posting.

a "true" slave would have no choices.

a "consensual" slave is what the OP is, or strives to become.

There needs to be a new category....a "semantic" slave.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 4:32:21 PM

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There are more types of "school" out there than just school for minors. I'm 26 and I go to school, Once a week in fact.

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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

Because they are nutters, if you are at achool, you shouldn't be talking to them and if you are under age, maybe they should be seeking professional advice before they wind up behind bars for talking to you. Hate to sound over cautious but you used the word school and that just covers the screen with red flags for me.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 4:37:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.

Because they're not intelligent enough to understand that any adjective before the word slave is meaningless, and this is because they are also too thick to work out that it is they themselves the dom who defines someone as their slave once they have got to know them over time and appreciate the value of their trust and submission.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 5:28:56 PM

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Agrees with Dark Steven..

I have to add work on yourself. Find out what you truly want and stick with it. Don't drop something that betters you because some nut/fake/wannabee tells you something that isn't true. Educate yourself not only on this lifestyle if you truly want it but also in other areas.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 5:59:03 PM

chewtoy89

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Thank you to everyone who took the time to reply. And I am sorry about the grammer I was tired and did not go back over it. And I am in college not high school for the ones that brought it up.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 10:23:13 PM

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They're assholes and fake masters?

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/20/2010 11:37:57 PM

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Fast reply:

I don't have time to answer this question. I'm far too busy accusing internet strangers of being fake. I'm just a jerk, that way. They let me waste their time, so I do.

*scurries away to waste more strangers' time*

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/21/2010 6:58:08 AM

Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear
Exactly...I mean hell, I'm not a true submissive.

See? I knew I wasn't alone in this. If we had an Ask a Fake board, all us fakes could hang out there and stop cluttering the primary boards with useless realism.

Jeff, Jeff, Jeff. That's not how things are done. Geez.

We would need not just the "Ask a Fake" board, but also an "Ask a Wannabe" board. That way, people could post endless threads debating just what specifically is the difference and how to tell.

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RE: not a true slave. - 4/21/2010 7:01:06 AM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
We would need not just the "Ask a Fake" board, but also an "Ask a Wannabe" board. That way, people could post endless threads debating just what specifically is the difference and how to tell.

*bursts out laughing*

Does that mean we could debate whether I was a true fake or just a wannabe?

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