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intenze -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 6:10:23 AM)

to the OP
I am not sure why you started this thread, unless it was some way to understand or to achieve some catharsis about something that happened to you not so long ago.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 6:34:10 AM)

quote:

I ain't happy,
I'm feeling glad
I got sunshine in a bag
I'm useless
but Not for long
The future is coming on



Hello Caring,

You're kinda scaring me here. *eep [sm=hewah.gif]



kiwisub12 -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 6:59:17 AM)

i would have thought if one girl is gone, then the other has to pick up the slack - so-to-speak, and take over the duties of the missing one (wink wink nod nod say no more say no more) [:D]



sunshinemiss -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 7:01:14 AM)

You know I was feeling sorry for KoM... What say we go help out that cute Kyra, kiwi?



KnightofMists -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 8:20:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

i would have thought if one girl is gone, then the other has to pick up the slack - so-to-speak, and take over the duties of the missing one (wink wink nod nod say no more say no more) [:D]



I agree.... kyra whined and complain about doing extra duty and that it wasn't fair.... and I used the tried and sucessful Master Techinque of "SUCK IT UP PRINCESS!"



KnightofMists -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 8:26:23 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

You know I was feeling sorry for KoM... What say we go help out that cute Kyra, kiwi?




You have to love the compassion of some women!



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 5:06:52 PM)

quote:

I just want to clarify something. As often happens, a particular thread or comment will make me think about a concept. The thread is not meant to be about a particular person, couple, whatever. It's meant to show an example of a concept.


sunshine, this is how I read what you originally posted.  I don't know, and I don't care, what sparked your interest in this subject.  [:D]

All I see in your posts is your own expectations, your own thoughts and feelings.  I can respect that.  Like it or not, we all have different expectations and should be free to discuss them.

As for me, I haven't removed a collar to have someone earn it back.  It's not my way...it would be like divorcing someone and saying that I'd like to stay friends or keep them on as a f**k buddy.

I have felt that I failed.  It doesn't matter if the person misled me; I didn't catch it sooner. 



littlegirlangel -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (4/24/2010 6:44:56 PM)

Daddy collared me, but there was also the understanding that he would never uncollar me just for a punishment. To us a collar represents marriage and taking it away as a form of punishment is like saying, "I'm dissolving our marriage because you don't act the way I want you to"
They should have sat down and talked about how each of them view the collar and what it means to each of them. Semantics play a big part in communication and it's up to both of them to make sure that the other understands their meaning of an idea.



hallieB -> RE: Losing the privilege... whatever that means (5/3/2010 6:16:34 PM)

i guess i can understand how for some people a collar might represents marriage, but i tend to think of marriage as a more vanilla relationship. Two equal partners. The collar i wear represents ownership. Nothing equal between the two of us. i have consented to this relationship and without any symbols i would still be owned by Him. i have been given a gold chain i wear as an everyday reminder that i am owned by a loving Master. The vanilla world only see a gold chain around my neck. Only the people close to me understands what it represents and sometimes i wonder if they really understand. Although the leather collar Master has given to me represents the same ownership, it displays to the world i am His. i am owned by Him.....Its as if i can let my light shine so to speak......and i love the way it makes me feel especially in His presence...
If Master provokes my previlage of displaying my collar i am sure He would have good reason. Our commitment goes way beyond symbols, completely naked on my knees at His mercy, i am His slave. He has every right to discipline and punish in any way He may see fit. i am secure with Him and i trust His judgement. Where He leads i will follow.......



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