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ownedbyPF -> RE: Names (4/27/2010 5:45:36 AM)
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^^^momentary thread jack warning^^^
DesFip, I gotta ask...
Doesn't it ever occur to you that what would lower your self esteem might not have the same result on someone else? That what would constitute abuse to you, might not to another? Really?
It sounds snarky, but it isn't meant that way. I am seriously wonderring because I see so many of your posts with this kind of... judgement. You don't live in a Master/slave dynamic. What you live in works for you and that's fantastic... it is after all what everyone wishes for. A dynamic that suits them! But in a few M/s dynamics out there, the Master simply wanting "to do it" and then doing it is what makes the slave the happiest. Having nothing, not even her name, or money, or whatever it is... is what floats her/his boat! Some of us can be called all kinds of names, be humiliated in countless ways and still walk around with an entirely in tact self esteem.... aaand be grateful for him/her treating us the way he does. Maybe we have thicker skin, or maybe we are grateful to finally be free to be what it is that we are, or maybe it's because for all the stripping down they do, there is so much loving and stroking going on that all comes out balanced... maybe it's something else entirely. I don't know. What I do know is that what shakes and rattles the entire thread of who I am, is not the same thing that shakes and rattles yours or anyone elses.
Not to mention... a name can always be changed again!
As to the OP (so as not to be a complete jacking of the thread) i'm kinda digging Pleasure. Swallow, cracked me up!
~s
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