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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 2:51:53 PM   
DiannaVesta


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Status: offline 		This has been a very constructive thread. In a nutshell I think that we all agree that;
  1)    Everyone has their own demons to deal with be it guilt or frustration.
2)    True professional domination has a purpose but *technically* it can be seen as cheating.
3)    The world is full of wanna be’s and people with selfish intention. Buyer Beware! Lol
4)    We all have different scenes, interest and what we expect from a relationship. That’s ok.


  Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?

GDV
 

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 3:02:15 PM   
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Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?
GDV


Haha!  The correct response Goddess Dianna Vesta is who would You like first!

I'm such a suck up...

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 3:13:41 PM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: someuniquename

quote:

Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?
GDV


Haha!  The correct response Goddess Dianna Vesta is who would You like first!

I'm such a suck up...


Well since you seem to raise your hand first AND admit that you ARE a boss but to have a woman as a boss is merely a fantasy, how about you bend over and take it like a man. I have paddle in one hand and a secret in the other. You still wanna be first? lol


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 3:21:52 PM   
someuniquename


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm a little concerned about that "secret in the other" hand.  Let's just say, I will nervously comply.

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 3:24:43 PM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: someuniquename

Well, I'm a little concerned about that "secret in the other" hand.  Let's just say, I will nervously comply.


No no no sweet cheeks you're not the boss now. :::::: Looking round the room for someone else:::::::


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 3:38:27 PM   
someuniquename


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Status: offline 		Haha!  No, I'm certainly not the boss now, not in Your presence.
::::::::  Bending over, ready to take it... like a man  ::::::::

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 4:28:09 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Jasmyn,
Thank you so much for posting this... It reads like a great book; are you writing one?  I printed it so I could read and learn from it. 
I personally have no pro aspirations, given my little experience, my emotional makeup, and the fact that my style is very much about my enjoyment of the person I am with and love of sex with him, so you can see the problems there, lol...

I initially thought that I would need to pay a professional to learn some of what we do;  I haven't thus far because I learn here, and have learned some through classes and hopes for future play party/dungeon party attendances.
I simply wanted to say that I am grateful that pros exist, and am absolutely not above paying one to learn what I need to learn in order to have a better relationship with my boy (should I ever find a single service oriented chemistry sharing one, yikes!).   M

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 6:17:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta
Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?

GDV
 


Thats right!!!  i'm special!!!!  LOLOL


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/11/2006 9:53:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This has been a very constructive thread. In a nutshell I think that we all agree that;
1)    Everyone has their own demons to deal with be it guilt or frustration.
2)    True professional domination has a purpose but *technically* it can be seen as cheating.
3)    The world is full of wanna be’s and people with selfish intention. Buyer Beware! Lol
4)    We all have different scenes, interest and what we expect from a relationship. That’s ok.


Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?

GDV



OH-OH-OH.

Do me, do me, do me, do me......wait....what am I saying?

< Message edited by TeeGO -- 4/11/2006 9:55:31 PM >

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/12/2006 8:18:42 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: TeeGO

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This has been a very constructive thread. In a nutshell I think that we all agree that;
1)    Everyone has their own demons to deal with be it guilt or frustration.
2)    True professional domination has a purpose but *technically* it can be seen as cheating.
3)    The world is full of wanna be’s and people with selfish intention. Buyer Beware! Lol
4)    We all have different scenes, interest and what we expect from a relationship. That’s ok.


Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?

GDV



OH-OH-OH.

Do me, do me, do me, do me......wait....what am I saying?


lol- Ok Teego bend over, close your eyes and open your mouth.


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/12/2006 9:35:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This has been a very constructive thread. In a nutshell I think that we all agree that;
1)    Everyone has their own demons to deal with be it guilt or frustration.
2)    True professional domination has a purpose but *technically* it can be seen as cheating.
3)    The world is full of wanna be’s and people with selfish intention. Buyer Beware! Lol
4)    We all have different scenes, interest and what we expect from a relationship. That’s ok.


Now how about a group hug? Lol Or even better lets line up all the subs that participated in this thread EXCEPT Realone and give their asses a hug with this paddle I have in my hand. Who’s first?

GDV



OH-OH-OH.

Do me, do me, do me, do me......wait....what am I saying?


and open your mouth.


Now this i would pay to see!   LOL


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/12/2006 10:09:18 PM   
TeeGO


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 6:09:10 PM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Wicked, oh so wicked.  I am so naive.


You have no idea how wicked I could be.


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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 6:27:06 PM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		I'm going to preempt the message here by saying that I'm a former pro myself (retired and working in the corporate world.)

It's all well and good that you're posting this educational information on prodomination....but....I think this site, and others like it, are intended primarily for folks looking for lifestyle situations, in other words, non-pros.  It's not intended to be a marketing tool or trolling spot for folks who make their living out of domination.  If you're coming here for the boards to be social, or you're seeking someone personally (non-pro), that's great -- by all means, stay.  But to come here and troll for clients, to spam men and solicit their patronage, and to reply to letters from well-meaning men seeking a relationship demanding remuneration for your services.....it's just out of line.  Sites like Dickie Virgin and Max Fisch are specifically intended for that market.  This site seems to be preyed upon because its seen as free advertising.  These guys have every right to be pissed off that they're being solicited for professional services when they have NO interest in seeking out a pro.  Personally, I'm tired of the carrying on about pros on this site and wish that more pro women would be more respectful and take their business to the place it's intended.

I'm sure this will not be well received, but, it had to be said.

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 6:49:21 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		Thanks for your input. ... but do keep in mind the Forum Guidelines when suggesting censoring the ability of someone to enjoy their own kinks, preferences and lifestyles through a discourse on those very topics. 

"This isn't a place to insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others"
 


< Message edited by Jasmyn -- 4/13/2006 6:56:39 PM >

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 7:11:15 PM   
MichMasochist


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Status: offline 		Hmmm.... misunderstand what professional domination is about?

In my limited experiance. From attending munches, veiwing female dominatrix videos, surfing the pros web sight, general public opinions of collegues at work about the latest primetime tv show featuring female domination. and of course talking with a few people.

Professional dominate appearantly seeks to service the cross dresser, homosexual, fetishist. Can't give you any numbers however most ladies have expressed they orientation as being lesbian. Only a few have said that they are straight.

In the vanilla comunity all of the people I know think, that if a guy goes for pro service he really going there to get "serviced", just hasn't come out of the closet yet. Like most movies are barely disguised gay porn.

Well this is just one of my rants for to day sleep tight



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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 7:14:12 PM   
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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 7:18:59 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		lol thanks for that err insight ... all the better then that I'm here to say otherwise, you can set about setting them all straight... including your dinner date who made you late for church on Sunday  ;)

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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 7:37:07 PM   
Real0ne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I'm going to preempt the message here by saying that I'm a former pro myself (retired and working in the corporate world.)

It's all well and good that you're posting this educational information on prodomination....but....I think this site, and others like it, are intended primarily for folks looking for lifestyle situations, in other words, non-pros.  It's not intended to be a marketing tool or trolling spot for folks who make their living out of domination.  If you're coming here for the boards to be social, or you're seeking someone personally (non-pro), that's great -- by all means, stay.  But to come here and troll for clients, to spam men and solicit their patronage, and to reply to letters from well-meaning men seeking a relationship demanding remuneration for your services.....it's just out of line.  Sites like Dickie Virgin and Max Fisch are specifically intended for that market.  This site seems to be preyed upon because its seen as free advertising.  These guys have every right to be pissed off that they're being solicited for professional services when they have NO interest in seeking out a pro.  Personally, I'm tired of the carrying on about pros on this site and wish that more pro women would be more respectful and take their business to the place it's intended.

I'm sure this will not be well received, but, it had to be said. 


               BRAVO!

Excellent Post MisPandora!!!



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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn
"This isn't a place to insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others"
quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmyn
lol thanks for that err insight ... all the better then that I'm here to say otherwise, you can set about setting them all straight... including your dinner date who made you late for church on Sunday  ;)

isnt that interesting!



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RE: Professional Domination 101 - your thoughts please. - 4/13/2006 7:44:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		About as interesting as your predictability Real ... have a lovely day

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