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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 4:45:43 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		I don't envy the pictures, but I do envy the freedom to do so.  I've pretty much always had fairly normal photos of me up, and then... well it all went to hell in a handbasket when some info about me was shared with someone in my life.  A whoooooooooooole lot of things were skewed and sadly this person was foolish enough to believe lies about me.  I had respected this woman quite a lot and was deeply disappointed by the way she handled the situation.  The worst part?  One of the people I love the most has been put in the middle.  Really, she is the one being hurt the most.

So.............. in order to protect those I love, I've had to sacrifice that little bit of freedom.  Is it worth it?  Of course.  But let's face it, there is a price to pay to have scruples.  Sometimes the price is high.  This price?  Not a big deal.  It's sad to me that people are so incredibly ugly, though.  Very sad indeed.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 4:50:45 AM   
divi


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Status: offline 		Nope don't envy anyone especially someone with a picture on CM.  I really don't want my friends and family to spot me on CM.  I sometimes regret sending pics out to people here lol.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 4:59:43 AM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		Im more suprised my how many people dont have a picture up, yet they send pictures to strangers of things I would never send and they give their phone number out to people they havent even checked out.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 5:02:09 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		*looks through my little black book.  Ohhhh yes... there she is.. lushy.... phone number 1800-slushies R us

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 5:03:08 AM   
divi


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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 7:29:30 AM   
SirPumpy


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Status: offline 		The only issue with posting a face pic is that search engines keep the pic for a while if you remove it.

Recent case where a guy posted a site to get back at a business and then pulled the site when the lawyers got to him, 2 months later and its still in google cache and popping up under the same search string.

Needless to say the Libel and defamation case is a red hot go for gold.

My pic here is me, its shady and badly lit and im in scrubs.

Ive had a snide comment levelled at me by a friend of a friend and I laughed it off, tapped the side of my nose asking what she was doing on Collarme.com and could I have her username as id love to see her profile pic.

Nothing further said about my pic and a lot of blushing from the other party.

Shame really because I was looking for some new friends.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 1:19:23 PM   
belladevine


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Aren't catholics supposed to have their "ENVY" in check?

Why is the op on a BDSM internet site? Collarme is about being honest with with a partner for safe, sane and consentul relationships.

The op isn't even honest with himself. Is he secretly hoping that a nun will beat the hell out of him for his sinful behavior?

I think the op is stupid....if he were to give his tithing tribute to a domme , he could probably have a sexy woman whip the hell out of him.

If he pays a lot $$$$$$$$ of tribute to a domme he could probably get her to dress up like a nun while she whips his stupid ass.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 2:28:44 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Actually, collarme is just another forum on the never ending websites on the net. It's not about one thing or another, nor can only certain kinds of people come here. Collarme.com is no more about honest and trusting relationships than the idea that all dogs love to play fetch, is true.

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ORIGINAL: belladevine




Why is the op on a BDSM internet site? Collarme is about being honest with with a partner for safe, sane and consentul relationships.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 2:35:15 PM   
belladevine


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That's a very true statement about "honesty".

It is as rare here on collarme as it is any where else in the world.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 2:42:31 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		I don't have any worries about being caught, I have nothing to loose. So no I don't envy people who're bold enough to show pictures specially naked ones, cause I am one of the people. And to me it has nothing to do with boldness, persay, but the fact that I like showing of certain things I am or can be proud of. Like the one picture of all the bruses scratches and stippling pattern the very first time my ass bruised after a spanking. Which by the way collarme refused to post.

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

Do you envy those here bold enough to show their picture and even their 'nekked bodies (and if caught, what would you do/say)?




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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 2:45:44 PM   
CarrieO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pompeii

Do you envy those here bold enough to show their picture and even their 'nekked bodies (and if caught, what would you do/say)?



Nope...why envy them?  We all make choices...I choose to no longer post photos of myself. 

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 2:59:09 PM   
Wolf2Bear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CarrieO

quote:

ORIGINAL: pompeii

Do you envy those here bold enough to show their picture and even their 'nekked bodies (and if caught, what would you do/say)?



Nope...why envy them?  We all make choices...I choose to no longer post photos of myself. 


Never have felt envy as I know we all have our own reasons for posting the type of pictures that we do. I choose not to post very revealing photos of myself on this site yet will on others simply based on the nature of the particular site.


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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 3:24:20 PM   
ladynlord


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Status: offline 		Envious may not be the word I would use. I think personal safety is paramount. The world is full of malicious people who wish to do all manners and sorts of harm. So whatever lets you sleep at night whether Dominant or submissive, is what is best for you.

Another factor not mentioned are "moral turpitude" clauses in employment contracts. Some professional organizations have such provisions just by virtue of them granting you a license.  

So it is certainly nice to sit back and either judge or envy those who choose how much to post, it is another matter to put your safety and livelyhood on the line.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 5:29:05 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Nope. No reason to envy them for that. I wouldn't even if I could.

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 6:20:57 PM   
crazydriver


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Status: offline 		I really wish i could post a pic but it could mean THE JOB .

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 6:27:33 PM   
crazydriver


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Status: offline 		Good rebutiale w/ sense of humor Catholic in general have been given to any hang ups, they just do not lose But abaptist or penicostial even a larger contradiction

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 6:40:36 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I have my picture up (though its an old one...I need to get an updated one soon....) mostly because I don't care if anybody sees me on here, it makes no difference to me whatsoever...but then again I am crazy anyway so what does it matter just how crazy 
As for my nekkid body...being a 50-year old man I do my best to not show that off


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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 8:12:51 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig
As for my nekkid body...being a 50-year old man I do my best to not show that off


Well I know 50 year old men who could put 20 year olds to shame! ;-)

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 10:14:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: reynardfox

I envy no one, and I have been often been spotted by people I know, who always say it only goes to confirm their suspicions. I am very open about my sexuality and spent far too long apologising for myself before I got old enough not to care.
The profile pictures that do my head in are the ones with cumshots all over them,  including on their tongue when they blather on about safe sex in their text.
If I run into them, they're not drinking out of one of my cups.


Bwah hahahahahahahaha *breathe* Bwah hahahahahahaha *breathe* Bwah hahahahahaha

OMG ty for that!

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RE: Do you envy those here who can show their picture (... - 4/29/2010 10:17:50 PM   
xxblushesxx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: belladevine


Aren't catholics supposed to have their "ENVY" in check?

Why is the op on a BDSM internet site? Collarme is about being honest with with a partner for safe, sane and consentul relationships.

The op isn't even honest with himself. Is he secretly hoping that a nun will beat the hell out of him for his sinful behavior?

I think the op is stupid....if he were to give his tithing tribute to a domme , he could probably have a sexy woman whip the hell out of him.

If he pays a lot $$$$$$$$ of tribute to a domme he could probably get her to dress up like a nun while she whips his stupid ass.


Your name has now officially been changed to domidevine.
You can thank me later.

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