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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 3:29:20 PM

Focus50

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

I wouldn't have lied to him. I would have done my level best to complete the task. If I couldn't, then I would have explained why. If he felt punishment was needed at that time because I didn't complete the task, then that's what would have happened.

It really is this simple....

The times I've set tasks within specific time-frames, it's been to make a point. That is that the rask itself was largely irrelevant and what I'm really looking for is the will and effort to succeed.

I mean, really, look at the OP's task. What does she think her Master's gonna do with 300 written lines once completed - frame it or put it on ebay? To me, the BIG failure was to *lie* about completing what was always a nonsense in a practical sense.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 5:22:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterTslave
Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?

No. i've never lied to my Dominant. If i can't be truthful with Him, i can't see being in a relationship with Him. Honesty is a big deal to me, in both directions, and so are communication and obedience.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 6:15:54 PM

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You didn't lie to make your Master happy, you lied to save your ass, and he found you out. Best thing to do in this situation would be to think about why you felt the need to do that. My Master does not run a punishment dynamic, if I fail (and everyone has) to do something he asked me to do, I tell him and he is usually understanding of the circumstances that kept me from doing as he wished. Since he doesn't set up impossible tasks, and I take seriously my responsibility to obey him, this doesn't happen too often.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 6:47:37 PM

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Roselaure, her blog is informative. She lies to try to keep him happy because she's given up ever trying to please him. No matter what she does it isn't good enough. He sets her up to fail, uses her to take out his bad moods on etc.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 6:53:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Roselaure, her blog is informative. She lies to try to keep him happy because she's given up ever trying to please him. No matter what she does it isn't good enough. He sets her up to fail, uses her to take out his bad moods on etc.

I read the blog as well. Of course it's only one side of things but it seems as though she has a lot on her plate and tries to keep her guy happy. Seems that way from only reading one side of things. I almost feel if I were in her position I'd lie too as her guy seems to be always in a bad mood so you can't really win with that. Not sure what she sees in his constant bad moods but it's not me and I have no idea what he is like other than what is written there.

Answering the question...no I wouldn't lie. I did do something dishonest in the past and it came back to bite me in the ass. I value my relationship so I learned that I will not do something like that again even if it is harder to take my lumps and tell him the truth. If I ever did lie or do something dishonest again then I would be ready to end the relationship.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/1/2010 6:53:19 PM

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Deciet makes no one happy.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/2/2010 2:23:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTslave
Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?

No... hopefully your punishment was painful, bloody, and worth remembering for a long time. In addition... lying is grounds for being kicked to the curb in my eyes. You are most definitely lucky that your Master still wants you around.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/2/2010 4:27:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dragonseeker

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTslave
Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?

No... hopefully your punishment was painful, bloody, and worth remembering for a long time. In addition... lying is grounds for being kicked to the curb in my eyes. You are most definitely lucky that your Master still wants you around.

good grief already! - wake up to the real world why wont you - she lied about some lines not getting written thats all - she didnt run over his mother and shoot the family dog - and even if she did i wouldnt advocate what youre advocating - what planet are you on.

< Message edited by lally2 -- 5/2/2010 4:54:25 PM >

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/2/2010 6:41:05 PM

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Okay so mayhaps too harsh... but in my defense i have had a paddling or two that has left some nice size blood blisters and those have been 'non-punishment'... and i did remember them for a very long time (ouch

). Seriously though.... there is something horribly wrong in even lying to your Master. ESPECIALLY about something as stupid as writing lines. In my eyes if she feels the need to lie about something that small and petty then what else is she lying about. It signals something very wrong in the relationship (be it he or she). I did briefly skim through her blog and her life seems like most women, busy and able to multi-tas, but i don't see that as an excuse to lie.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 1:57:46 AM

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Hi guys.
I read the OP.
I read her profile.
I read that droll blog.
I agree with UniqueRaven's reply.
I suggest Domiguy's reply as a course of action.
Like eyesopened, I think "this makes no sense to me whatsoever".
Bye guys . . . I have to go poke sharp sticks into my eyes now.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 6:40:33 AM

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Sorry, but it sounds like he is punishing an 8 year old, not a grown women. If he can't understand that you have priorities that you need to get done, then maybe he should rethink trying to control someone.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 9:29:08 AM

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I have not read all the responses, but lie to make my Master happy. No that would never happen because if i lied to him that would make him very unhappy and upset with me. We have thi s trust thing going on i do not lie to him and he does not lie to me.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 10:43:40 AM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: littleone35
We have this trust thing going on i do not lie to him and he does not lie to me.

Wait wait a second! What are you implying? "Trust" is more than just a word? Are you suggesting that one needs act in an actually honorable and trustworthy fashion in order for real trust to develop.

Damn.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 12:23:22 PM

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no.

lying to Him would be couterproductive to the sucess of the relationship we have crafted. He needs to know the truth---He is the one at the helm of the Good Ship Mercnbeth...and the quickest way for it to run aground is by navigating according to misinformation.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 1:36:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
lying to Him would be couterproductive to the sucess of the relationship we have crafted. He needs to know the truth---He is the one at the helm of the Good Ship Mercnbeth...and the quickest way for it to run aground is by navigating according to misinformation.

*laughs* Or as I say to Carol, "Look, we're barreling down the road and I'm driving. If you cover up half the windshield, a crash is guaranteed." I'm actually quite pleased with the fact that Carol has become much more outspoken and assertive with me as my slave than she ever was as my wife.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 2:10:55 PM

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I know this is not PC but it just seems idiotic to me to lie to one's Master. Ye gads!! Lying is such a trust-breaker and if trust is broken so is the relationship. I worked hard to keep my relationship strong and healthy. Lying would have negated the entire thing, which I didn't want. Lying to Santa would not have made him happy, it would have made him angry and very sad. Even when I told him things he didn't like, he prefered the truth to a lie. I can't think of a more stupid thing to do than to lie.

< Message edited by sublizzie -- 5/3/2010 2:13:54 PM >

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 6:14:41 PM

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i know i should not have lied to my Master. i don't think that there is anything seriously wrong with our relationship. i post thing in my blog about our M/s relationship, not always about our "vanilla" relationship. Master T is a very loving husband and wonderful friend and strict Master. i didn't want to see the disapointment on His face to tell Him that i didn't get something that He wanted me to get done. i had not been able to do many things for Him in the past few months due to an illness and felt like even tho i didn't have TIME to get what He wanted done, i just didn't want to see disapointment on His face again when i told Him that i needed more time. i understand that some of you understand where i am coming from (but will post that you would NEVER lie and would NEVER do something like that) and there are those that will understand and agree...and there are a few out there that have NEVER lied and will even go as far in the truth as to tell their mother that they look like crap on Easter.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 6:21:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterTslave

i know i should not have lied to my Master. i don't think that there is anything seriously wrong with our relationship. i post thing in my blog about our M/s relationship, not always about our "vanilla" relationship. Master T is a very loving husband and wonderful friend and strict Master. i didn't want to see the disapointment on His face to tell Him that i didn't get something that He wanted me to get done. i had not been able to do many things for Him in the past few months due to an illness and felt like even tho i didn't have TIME to get what He wanted done, i just didn't want to see disapointment on His face again when i told Him that i needed more time. i understand that some of you understand where i am coming from (but will post that you would NEVER lie and would NEVER do something like that) and there are those that will understand and agree...and there are a few out there that have NEVER lied and will even go as far in the truth as to tell their mother that they look like crap on Easter.

What you sayin about my momma?

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 6:39:58 PM

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Oh, that's a real mature come back lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTslave

and there are a few out there that have NEVER lied and will even go as far in the truth as to tell their mother that they look like crap on Easter.

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RE: lied to my Master... - 5/3/2010 7:08:53 PM

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MasterTslave:

You have done as you were requested to do. That's enough.

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