1. Laziness on the part of the Master
   
2. Apathy on the part of the Master
   
3. Online only relationships
   
4. Relationships based upon fantasy readings on the internet
   
5. Humiliation by having to type out what she did (but really? whatever)

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

I don't have time to micromanage.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Hey guys,

We see a regular thread genre in various forums along the lines of "I messed up and my Master told me to come here and post."

I doubt it--more likely the attention getting made up variety of thread. But seriously? Are there any of you who would "punish" a slave this way? And if so, why? Why?

Me? I don't have time to micromanage. Show a girl, yes. Explain, yes. Redirect, yes. But if it's a matter of punishing outright deliberate unacceptable behavior, whip the bitch and move on.

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Not only that, TM, but notice that so far, except for you, it's all girls chiming in where I clearly was asking the guys.

I checked out the local BDSM group a few times and stopped going for exactly this reason--it was really run by the subs.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Not only that, TM, but notice that so far, except for you, it's all girls chiming in where I clearly was asking the guys.

I checked out the local BDSM group a few times and stopped going for exactly this reason--it was really run by the subs.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Not only that, TM, but notice that so far, except for you, it's all girls chiming in where I clearly was asking the guys.

I checked out the local BDSM group a few times and stopped going for exactly this reason--it was really run by the subs.

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Not only that, TM, but notice that so far, except for you, it's all girls chiming in where I clearly was asking the guys. I checked out the local BDSM group a few times and stopped going for exactly this reason--it was really run by the subs.

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I agree that it's an attention seeking thing, and most times I doubt that there is ACTUALLY a master/dom/man/real person behind the directive.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Hey guys,

We see a regular thread genre in various forums along the lines of "I messed up and my Master told me to come here and post."

I doubt it--more likely the attention getting made up variety of thread. But seriously? Are there any of you who would "punish" a slave this way? And if so, why? Why?

Me? I don't have time to micromanage. Show a girl, yes. Explain, yes. Redirect, yes. But if it's a matter of punishing outright deliberate unacceptable behavior, whip the bitch and move on.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This comes from a slightly different angle than where you are probably coming from, MM.  I do, however, want to throw this out there.

As a punishment, no.  For some potential assistance in how to handle a punishment, yes.

The first time that I had to punish clip, there was a bit more to it than punish him and move on.  There were also all of the feelings and emotions that he had to process connected to the event.  We discussed this, of course, but I honestly felt that there was something that he could possibly gain by talking with other submissives who had been in his position.  How they dealt with their feelings when a situation had become enough to warrant a punishment.  I wanted him to know from better than the second hand information that I could provide (not being submissive Myself) that it wasn't unusual  that My disappointment in him really was the worst part of it all and have him hear from others that, in some cases, the actual punishment could have a cleansing effect.  I wanted him to get feedback from those who had experience in feeling exactly what he was feeling and the advice that they would share with him about the validity of the emotions he was having.  I also wanted him to know that he wasn't the only one in the world who ever felt the way that he was feeling at the moment.  Just because it was new to him, didn't mean that it was unique.  Truthfully, My best hopes were realized when people responded to his thread.  I was very pleased.

So, it wasn't laziness on My part, or a matter or attention seeking, or any of the foo-foo bullshit that I have the feeling led you to creating the original.  When I had clip do this, I sincerely felt there was something to be gained by it, which is exactly what happened.