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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 6:46:41 PM   
auditguy


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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 6:54:21 PM   
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On a final note, from a quick and unscientific survey of this thread I have concluded that most people posting on here are judgmental douches


You know sweetheart, when you are pointing a finger at someone, remember, there are 3 pointing back at you. ;-)

- LA


Ohh, without question.  I don't deny the fact that I am an ass, which would have been apparent if you did not take that quote out of context (you should work on Capital Hill by the way, that skill is in much demand there), the next statement included me in that category. 


I didn't take that quote out of context. It is a complete sentence. You called people around here douche bags. You want to write it, fine. Own it.

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The only difference is that I don't hide it and I don't jump on a guy, who probably was genuinely interested in getting some feedback, and made an apparent cardinal sin of generalizing and not using scientific method in a discussion on a message board.


I gave him feedback. I actually took time to do a survey of the women in his area to show him that his assumptions were likely skewed.

You want me to invent something to make him feel good? Ok, which little Doms want a pat on the head? Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA


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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 6:56:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: auditguy

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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On a final note, from a quick and unscientific survey of this thread I have concluded that most people posting on here are judgmental douches


You know sweetheart, when you are pointing a finger at someone, remember, there are 3 pointing back at you. ;-)

- LA


Ohh, without question.  I don't deny the fact that I am an ass, which would have been apparent if you did not take that quote out of context (you should work on Capital Hill by the way, that skill is in much demand there), the next statement included me in that category. 


I didn't take that quote out of context. It is a complete sentence. You called people around here douche bags. You want to write it, fine. Own it.

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The only difference is that I don't hide it and I don't jump on a guy, who probably was genuinely interested in getting some feedback, and made an apparent cardinal sin of generalizing and not using scientific method in a discussion on a message board.


I gave him feedback. I actually took time to do a survey of the women in his area to show him that his assumptions were likely skewed.

You want me to invent something to make him feel good? Ok, which little Doms want a pat on the head? Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA



Oh baby, milk and cookies before bed are my favorite.  You are just tempting me now.

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 6:58:26 PM   
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Oh baby, milk and cookies before bed are my favorite.  You are just tempting me now.


Can I call em or what?

- LA

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 7:19:41 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		OK, here's why I didn't go to the trouble of doing the research......

It has very little to do with who has what checked off where on a profile.  I can promise you that I have had female submissives that have wanted to join My household, rather than pursue a single male Dominant.  I can't tell you how often I've heard from female submissives that I would be great for them from a D/s compatibility standpoint.  The huge exception being that we're not compatible due to gender and I am not bi-sexual.  Let Me promise you that this is not just here (meaning CM) but it happens in meatlife as well.

Now, why does this happen to Me when there are constantly threads from males who moan about not being able to find someone?  Please go back and see My previous answer.  It has everything to do with experience and stability.  They've seen how I run My dynamic (or at least read about it here) and it's the very kind that they feel would be well suited for them.  No, I wouldn't be a good fit for everybody, but I'm here to tell you, I turn down more women than most men do on this site.

If you don't believe Me, start paying more attention.



Edited for one less "what" where a "where" should be.  LOL.


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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 7:33:29 PM   
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If you don't believe Me, start paying more attention.


Not sure if this bit was to me.

I'd have to say that I also turn down a lot of women and I'm single. But they say on their profile that they are bi and one of their options is a Domme.

There are also a lot of awesome and experienced male Doms here who don't have any issues meeting women. I agree with your experience bit. I don't think it has anything to do with gender.

- LA

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 7:46:32 PM   
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Not sure if this bit was to me.

I'd have to say that I also turn down a lot of women and I'm single. But they say on their profile that they are bi and one of their options is a Domme.

There are also a lot of awesome and experienced male Doms here who don't have any issues meeting women. I agree with your experience bit. I don't think it has anything to do with gender.

- LA

No, it wasn't in response to you.  Rather it was a comment in general.  I honestly believe that if more people paid attention to what makes a Dominant a good Dominant, what qualities that they possess, the character traits they have, and what is really desirable to the persons they would like to attract, there would be a lot more learning than moaning on this particular subject.  It might just work in some other areas, too.


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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:01:42 PM   
MsMillgrove


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Status: offline 		interesting how our experiences are different.

I'd be happy to have a female. But None.. write inquiries to me. just NONE. not ever.
If I want a female sub, I have to do the searching. Which is cool. I did get one fine.. a fabulous woman who became my ponygirl .. that went fantastic.

I get lots of single males inquiring.

And what puzzles me--is a high level of trans. TV, t-girl, sissy, shemale, cross dresser. (different ways of identifying themselves based partly on where they live and what words are common to their area or experience) Many males identifying themselves as somehwere on the spectrum of wishing to be female... in some way or timeframe. If i used those numbers, I'd conclude that forty percent of the CM sub male population is some version of transperson.

Why do i get them? no idea. But i do.

inquiries from "couples".. maybe 3 or 4 total.

So my experience if I wanted to make general observations would be that female dommes attract enormous numbers of trans individuals. Yet, i know from reading posts--of course.. not true, only my experience.

I think--that the OP has to take the advice of others in making radical changes to his profile, getting rid of his journal writings and make a fresh start all together.

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:29:43 PM   
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Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA[/font]



Should we tell them what I put in the milk and why the cookies are so moist?

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:36:10 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Not sure if this bit was to me.

I'd have to say that I also turn down a lot of women and I'm single. But they say on their profile that they are bi and one of their options is a Domme.

There are also a lot of awesome and experienced male Doms here who don't have any issues meeting women. I agree with your experience bit. I don't think it has anything to do with gender.

- LA

No, it wasn't in response to you.  Rather it was a comment in general.  I honestly believe that if more people paid attention to what makes a Dominant a good Dominant, what qualities that they possess, the character traits they have, and what is really desirable to the persons they would like to attract, there would be a lot more learning than moaning on this particular subject.  It might just work in some other areas, too.



On this, I agree with you 100%.

- LA

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:37:19 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA



Should we tell them what I put in the milk and why the cookies are so moist?


Michael... are you planning on serving him our nookie cookies? ;-)

- LA

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:39:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA



Should we tell them what I put in the milk and why the cookies are so moist?


Michael... are you planning on serving him our nookie cookies? ;-)

- LA


I certainly hope this nookie is high in protein. 

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:42:53 PM   
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I think that behind the potentially poor choice of words, he was just looking for a reason why a woman would be looking for a couple, exclusive of single dominant men. One reply, Reynardfox, actually addressed that topic, not a bad reply at that.


Thank you,
That is what is was suppose to be about.

Frank

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:50:06 PM   
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Oh Master Red, please teach me how to be nice.

I don't know if I'm nice.  I doubt Reynardfox or auditguy think I am, and they're probably right.

I can offer an explanation of how I think about things: I don't see human behavior as good or bad, right or wrong.  I see it as successful at reaching objectives, or failing to reach objectives.  My ethics come in with the objectives I choose to set for myself -- but I don't have strong emotional reactions to topics of conversation.  (You remember the bestiality thread for example, when half the posts were just people saying, "Ick."  The mods could have allowed images to be shown, and I still wouldn't have felt grossed out.)

My point is this: if someone says something contrary to reality, I don't think of it like, "You're a LIAR," or "You're WRONG."  I think there was some reason the person expressed that opinion, and I try to assess what that reason was, with no emotional stigma.  Just the facts.  I've found if I just say facts, and leave moralism and editorializing out of it, that people I criticize might be really pissed at what I say, but they'll almost never tell me to fuck off, because my clinical handling of the situation took that weapon off the table.


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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 8:56:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: auditguy

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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On a final note, from a quick and unscientific survey of this thread I have concluded that most people posting on here are judgmental douches


You know sweetheart, when you are pointing a finger at someone, remember, there are 3 pointing back at you. ;-)

- LA


Ohh, without question.  I don't deny the fact that I am an ass, which would have been apparent if you did not take that quote out of context (you should work on Capital Hill by the way, that skill is in much demand there), the next statement included me in that category. 

The only difference is that I don't hide it and I don't jump on a guy, who probably was genuinely interested in getting some feedback, and made an apparent cardinal sin of generalizing and not using scientific method in a discussion on a message board.


I think it's pretty obvious that since the only reply from the Op was to say he had changed his profile, makes it clear that he wasn't really looking for clarification... Just trying to figure out why he isn't getting any.

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 9:18:09 PM   
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I have not been getting any since Nov 2009. But I have a hand that is not broken. So I am not disperate.
Was only making a statement Of what I see on profiles. I do an all search for female slaves. ages 30 and up.
Now anything else you wanting to know since you seem to understand the OP.

Frank

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 9:44:44 PM   
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jbcurious,
I have not been getting any since Nov 2009. But I have a hand that is not broken. So I am not disperate.
Was only making a statement Of what I see on profiles. I do an all search for female slaves. ages 30 and up.
Now anything else you wanting to know since you seem to understand the OP.

Frank


Ok Frank. What makes you call yourself a Dominant? In looking for a Dom, I look for someone who has experience and a clear and concise picture of who he is and what he wants. I look for strength and someone I can trust to take charge.

You show none of these attributes and seem to be all over the place.

So again I'll ask... What mskes you a Dominant and what experience have you had to justify that title?

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 9:54:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA



Should we tell them what I put in the milk and why the cookies are so moist?


Michael... are you planning on serving him our nookie cookies? ;-)

- LA


Someone has to eat them...

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 10:10:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Come on, line up. I'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy and I'll give you a glass of milk and cookies before bed too.

- LA



Should we tell them what I put in the milk and why the cookies are so moist?


Michael... are you planning on serving him our nookie cookies? ;-)

- LA


Someone has to eat them...


Ohh, I'll eat them, just as long as it is whole milk, none of that 2% and skim bull shit.  Screw it, I want the pre pasteurized milk, the stuff the claflings get, that stuff is delicious.  Ohh, and special brownies would also be nice and thoughtful.

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RE: single males vs couples - 5/1/2010 10:50:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been doing this before PC's where easy to buy. But then in the 90's when the public was able to buy a PC. Is when I started online. And been doing it for quite along time. I have had 2 real time slaves. And alot of online slaves. Over the years. And there is alot on profiles I do not agree with. I am old school. And not going to sit here and complain about what is the correct protocal for a slave. But if your wanting to get to know me just ask. I'll give you my yahoo account ID. But to let you and anyone else know that reads this. I am what is called a blue collar worker. And with the economy like it is right now. It takes 2 people to make it. 1 person can not make it when your a blue collar worker. So sorry I do not live in a big fancy house and have money growing out my butt.

Frank

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