DesFIP
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Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact No, it wasn't in response to you. Rather it was a comment in general. I honestly believe that if more people paid attention to what makes a Dominant a good Dominant, what qualities that they possess, the character traits they have, and what is really desirable to the persons they would like to attract, there would be a lot more learning than moaning on this particular subject. It might just work in some other areas, too. I would just like to say that if you change dominant to person, then this statement is universally applicable. You need to be the kind of person that the kind of person you want would be attracted to. But that requires growing up, sucking up disappointment, keeping your word no matter what and not giving it without due thought if you can keep it. It's much easier to whine then to do that. You can lie there and bleed or cowboy up and ride. I know which one attracts me.
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