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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/13/2006 12:04:55 PM

liks2plzlf

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My thanks to Cloudboy for his last post. I had not considered, that if there were no subs, there would be no Doms either. I don't feel as insignificant, or expendable, as before. I read subs are a dime a dozen, but then wonder why quite a few Doms complain, and continue to search. Could it be slaves, or the right ,or true subs, are not a dime a dozen? I continue to hope that it is not all menial chores, and paying while doing them as well.

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/13/2006 12:16:55 PM

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You should not feel insignificant, liks2plzlf. And, no, it is not all about menial chores and paying while you do those chores. Even as a slave, there is (or should be) a relationsnhip, and there is more involved.

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Could it be slaves, or the right ,or true subs, are not a dime a dozen?

By George! I think he's got it!
Yes, you have hit the nail on the head with that conclusion.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 4/13/2006 12:17:19 PM >

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/13/2006 1:11:06 PM

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I am learning Goddess There are so many vaired interests in D/s or M/s desires, it is hard to form logical conclusions. Maybe there is no logic. I also must apologize here for not checking my posts too see if there were any replies. It just didn't occur to me that anyone would. It is hard to keep track of the various posts one makes. Thanks for all the valuable informatioin you inject here.

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/14/2006 5:43:20 AM

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For me it happened very early in school.. it all started with female domination over males or female superiority over males.. i loved sports and in my early days i must have preconceived thoughts that women to be weaker then guys.. we used to have lots of girls vs guys sports matches like in any other school and there used to be a few very strong girls in our class..they were very fierce matches and at certain age we guys were losing more of them ..i could not take these defeats and felt real bad after losing to the weaker sex..the girls used to tease and humilate us guys after those matches and i can still remember after one of such defeats i wept and could not take it.. but very surprisingly along with my humiliation i had a great sexual high .. i must have been very confused at that age that why that was happening to me..one of the girls became my girl friend later.. as she was stronger then me in our one to one encounters she generally had the upper hand and slowly and surely i started liking it because it always had a very nice sexual effect on me and this was the way i think i graduated into female domintion and bdsm later.. but i still think none of these episodes make us dom or sub but rather we mut be having some latent traits which come in open during an episode in our lives..i have never read in any site on the net if someone else too had sports as a defining moment of bdsm though there must be lots who like these gender fights.. thats how i became a submissive but i still feel the traits are latent in us and they appear over board duringan episode in our lives..

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RE: On erotic focus - 4/14/2006 9:27:25 AM

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Eroticism is only the icing on the cake. Real life is where the real acton is. And that is where i want to live.

Be sure to communicate the balance and what you truly seek to those you apply to. It becomes tedious to be thought of as a fetish object (read: dehumanized) and not appreciated or valued for the whole woman that we are. You'll get much further with a dominant woman when you demonstrate to her that you are the sum of all things, not just a hyperfocused kink-seeker.

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/14/2006 9:37:15 AM

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I too met a dominant girl in high school. This was in the 60's when it was percevied, for the most part, women were supposed to be submissive to men. Never even new this lifesyle existed then. Maybe it didn't! But are situation was differant. I played sports and woked out constantly, she was 4'11", weighed maybe, 90 pounds.The thought thay this tiny little wisp of a woman could make me do anything she wanted, was extremely exciting.The words to a song, was how I explained to my friends who teased me unmercifully, why I left her control me like that.I blame my submissive desires on her to this day, but you are probably right, this was a latent desire along. But I have fantisized about meeting a woman who was physically superior to me and could beat me up if she wanted. I really enjoy seeing woman defeat men too. For me now, about all it takes is a command.

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/14/2006 11:15:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

I too met a dominant girl in high school. This was in the 60's when it was percevied, for the most part, women were supposed to be submissive to men. Never even new this lifesyle existed then. Maybe it didn't! But are situation was differant. I played sports and woked out constantly, she was 4'11", weighed maybe, 90 pounds.The thought thay this tiny little wisp of a woman could make me do anything she wanted, was extremely exciting.The words to a song, was how I explained to my friends who teased me unmercifully, why I left her control me like that.I blame my submissive desires on her to this day, but you are probably right, this was a latent desire along. But I have fantisized about meeting a woman who was physically superior to me and could beat me up if she wanted. I really enjoy seeing woman defeat men too. For me now, about all it takes is a command.

Physically, although there are exceptions, woman can not compete with men.

In a battle of wits it's up for grabs.

But in shear force of will, as evident in the vanilla world, men have no chance. (Again there exceptions and I am not talkin in the D/s world where control is surrendered.)

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RE: Why i am a submissive - 4/14/2006 11:47:36 AM

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