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Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 10:17:20 AM   
MistressLLsboy


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Ok Ladies. I need some help here. I have looked through all the forums here and did several searches on the web. My little dicked hubbie won't leave that thing alone, so I am doing some research on chastity devices.

Yes, that's run-of-the mill stuff I know, just stay with me. His little thing is also telescopic. (goes in and out on it's own) not just a little but sometimes completely up inside, like it was cut off.  Any ideas or suggestions on a chastity device that will prevent erections and him being able to play with it?

Thanks for the help !

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 10:20:44 AM   
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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 10:35:25 AM   
MistressLLsboy


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Well...that makes it hard for him to make my meals, clean my house and all that other stuff that I really keep him around for!    Thanks for the reply though. 

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 10:38:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mayhaps a belt designed for females?  If it's as small as you say, that shouldn't be a problem, and it would cut off access entirely.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 10:50:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		The point I am trying to make is that if he needs a chastity to behave and can't listen and obey me, then nothing else matters. If I need a chastity to enforce what I say, there is a bigger problem and it will overflow into other area's. Is it about a horny guy with cock in hand or dominance and submission and how the dynamic's actually get worked out? A man who places his cock's needs above me isn't worth my time. I'm just that way.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 11:07:07 AM   
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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 11:11:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

The point I am trying to make is that if he needs a chastity to behave and can't listen and obey me, then nothing else matters. If I need a chastity to enforce what I say, there is a bigger problem and it will overflow into other area's. Is it about a horny guy with cock in hand or dominance and submission and how the dynamic's actually get worked out? A man who places his cock's needs above me isn't worth my time. I'm just that way.

That right there.

If I say no and he does it anyway, that's not obedience.  Larger problem in My mind than finding the right sized chastity device.


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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 12:14:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		At times I like the saying "Trust is good, control is better" I agree that an owned sub/slave should obey, but there are just times that I also like control. In the OP's situation if you really wish to be a keyholder, I would suggest a PA piercing with a belt type chastity device.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 12:28:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		What Lockit said, pretty much. I had a slave like that, couldn't keep his freakin hands to himself, like a dang toddler...

Anyway, I would check out a site like Mr S, which has lots of cool options that you could adjust to your own needs. (I am a DIY type when the marketplace doesn't offer what I want.) As BKSir says, a woman's belt might be great! it would also control that telescoping aspect. I also find that good old duct tape is a thing of wonder.

Srsly. And sure, you could duct tape his hands, too.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 12:51:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzticStormz

At times I like the saying "Trust is good, control is better" I agree that an owned sub/slave should obey, but there are just times that I also like control. In the OP's situation if you really wish to be a keyholder, I would suggest a PA piercing with a belt type chastity device.

Mz Stormz


If I tell a boy to keep his hands off his dick and he does it...that's me controlling him. If I have to put a device on him in order to keep his hands off, then the device is controlling him, not me.


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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 12:59:56 PM   
MistressLLsboy


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I appreciate all the input. This area seems to be the last to conquer when it comes to the control issue. I understand what you are are saying but for now I want the help and security of the device. I work long hours and he is home alone most of that time. It is a peace of mind for me.
Special thanks to Lady Hibiscus for the info on Mr. S. I am checking it out now.
Any other suggestions for a device out there ?

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 1:38:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like both types of control depending upon the mood and the situation. Nothing wrong with the way choose how you are doing things thishereboi (and others who seem anti-device), but people like different things. The op was asking for advice on chastity devices for a small penis, and I personally don't think it is "wrong" if that is what she wishes.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 1:44:22 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		We don't think it's "wrong" to want to use a chastity device, either---the point is, if a person does not TRY to obey, well... just how good are they as a submissive or servant? "Keep your hands out of your pants" is a pretty simple command, really, it's not like telling someone with a pack a day habit to quit cold turkey, or telling a meat eater they have to go vegan.

Enforcing chastity with a device can be a great tool, but if it's not backed up by the sub's DESIRE to please and obey, what you have is a sub who is submitting conditionally---"I'll behave when I HAVE to, or when I won't be caught breaking the rules."

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 2:09:50 PM   
GraciousLady


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Status: offline 		Best of luck Mistress LL! I hope you get that one to behave. Hopefully your work load will ease up soon and you have the time and energy to work on your wayward hubbys wandering hands.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 2:12:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I also researched this and asked a few people in the lifestyle and they also agree with Lockit on this one .. you should cut his hands off. 

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 2:21:05 PM   
slutslave4u


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Status: offline 		As mentioned before what about a PA and then add another ring lower down the scrotum and locking the two together? I have a 6 guage PA in me now, just changing it from a 12 to the 6, larger diameter and thicker guage. But could place another  down the scrotum and lock the two together. Much less than a chastity device! 

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 2:36:18 PM   
MzticStormz


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Status: offline 		I have seen subs that play in their sleep.. so at that point it is not a matter of his "will" or not to obey.. Sometimes it is a bad habit gone even worse..other times it is just fun to watch their frustration as they figure out that even if they could sneak a bit...they can't..

Perhaps it is just the sadist in me. *shrugs* I don't see it as a loss of control if I have the key, or even the lack of a sub obeying me; I see it simply as just another tool in my toy bag and as another way to a good mental adjustment if a sub does well in minding me in most other ways - much like a gag.. I can tell a sub/slave to shut the hell up or I can quietly pop a gag in his mouth... Each to their own kink.

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 2:36:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzticStormz

I like both types of control depending upon the mood and the situation. Nothing wrong with the way choose how you are doing things thishereboi (and others who seem anti-device), but people like different things. The op was asking for advice on chastity devices for a small penis, and I personally don't think it is "wrong" if that is what she wishes.

Mz Stormz


^ This.

My boy does what he's told and obeys chastity commands, but I still think chastity devices are hot and fully intend to invest in one at some stage.

I haven't any advice for you as I've no personal experience of use to share, but good luck finding a device that works for you. Personally, I'd also cheerfully ignore any haughty 'If you can't control your boy THIS way, then blah, blah' advice too. It was a perfectly good question and I hope you find what you're looking for.

E x

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 3:46:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've always loved the PA-guiche attachment as an IDEA, but I am not sure that it will work in person all the time. There's a lot of issues of anatomy, healing, etc, to contend with. Hot, though!

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RE: Need help w/ putting small penis in chastity - 5/4/2010 3:51:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never said it was wrong. I just don't understand the mindset of a sub who has to be "kept" from his dick. When my Mistress said "don't touch", I didn't touch. Now if she wanted to put a device on me, that's fine. It was her pussy. Her decision. But she wouldn't have done it because she was worried that I wouldn't listen. She knew I would. She would have done it because she thought it was hot or she might do it just to annoy me.


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